Keith30309

Excellent TruHart! "I like anybody who likes me".
(The guy in the blue cap is kinda cute, too).

To me, long, deep, passionate kissing is an essential sexual activity. Without it, I am simply NOT turned on, no matter how gorgeous my partner is. I am wired that way...I therefore ask before hiring if the guy is definitely into it. Of course, they all say they love it, especially when their rent is due and I have said that it is a deal breaker I have been disappointed several times but I have found in Prague that most (if not all) Czech boys are excellent kissers and truly enjoy doing it , both when they advertise as gay or bisexual.
 
I understand Juan's dislike of "tonsil raping", it does not turn me on either. Kissing has to be sweet and hot at the same time, with an active tongue that carefully explores and caresses lips and cheeks, and plays with the other tongue, but never in a rough and invasive way. I do not need to feel "gulped" or to have his teeth clash aginst mine because of uncontrolled thrusts that pretend to be passionate....That is just bad, sloppy kissing...

I can't speak on behalf of all escorts, but I am like your friend.
 
I can't imagine sex without kissing. The spring that makes my dick hard is hidden somewhere in my lips. I kiss because I love it and if we meet I will want to kiss you. As my reviews can attest I am a great kisser and do it with gusto... unless, of course, you have bad breath.
 
Onions, coffee, garlic, any kind of food, cheeses, gastrointestinal problems, dental problems, badly affixed dental prosthesis, sinus and other infections. The reasons for bad breath are many, they sometimes are in our blind spot, which means that we may not even be able to think about correcting them. We don't know that we don't know that which we ignore, and therefore we have absolutely no desire to fix it.
 
And of course, the rule number one about bad breath is:
 
He who has bad breath (or bad overall hygiene) is always adamant he is fresh, clean, minty and delicious. You never know when you have bad breath.
 
If you are with me and I am not kissing you, you have bad breath. There is no mystery there. I will let you know, I will ask you to brush your teeth, I will give you mints. If you pretend to brush your teeth and come back and I still don't kiss you, it's because you have bad breath.
 
Believe me, I so wish you didn't, because the session would be so much more fun! It would be hotter and more exciting. I am not lying to avoid kissing you.. I WANT to kiss you. If I am not kissing you... you have bad breath.
 
A cut dick will be clean 95% of the times. Unless you have incredibly bad hygiene and haven't showered at all, sucking dick is an incredibly safer bet than kissing. It's not because it's more intimate, it's just less stinky.
 
Also, a dick will not force its tongue out, trying to stick it as wet and deep into your tonsils, as some people do. If you try to rape my tonsils, if you try to pass on gobs of saliva into my mouth, I will actually let you know that doesn't do it for me. If after ten attempts you keep trying to rape my throat while attempting to push back my face into yours, I will forget about "kissing" and will focus on your dick, or ass.
 
If you are an adult having sex, then you should have a support system. Find a friend to whom you can ask whether your breath smells often. Ask your dentist. Learn proper dental hygiene. Avoid bad breath causing foods and habits, especially before having sex. If you have a beard or moustache, trim it to human proportions and make sure it's impeccably clean, shampoo it carefully to erase smells, brush it to make sure theres nothing on it, Ask your partner if you notice hesitation on his part, and LISTEN to what he says. Don't slobber all over his face, thinking it sexy. Don't rape his throat. Don't force his face in place. Remember kissing is a two way language that requires listening, proposing, and negotiating. Notice when he recoils in horror, notice when he moans with pleasure.
 
If you do all this, I assure you, all good kissers will want to kiss you and won't be able to hold back.
 
And all of those who don't kiss... who gives a shit about them? Who cares!

So I know every escort has his own limits and preferences and such, with even mutual oral and fucking not being guaranteed and such. I'm curious where the limit on no kissing comes from?
 
I'm a person that can't even fathom thinking about sex without kissing. It's like the most essential thing to me... I was talking to a regular of mine about this. I was telling him about an escort I'd seen that said he would kiss and then didn't.
For the regular he said it was purely related to hygiene: if a client is clean (like I am, minty fresh!) he kisses, otherwhise he does not. He said escorts sell their dick and ass, not their mouth. Also, a dick can smell a bit but isn't necessarily as gross as a filthy mouth (paraphrasing him here). So nothing to do with intimacy and such.
 
I just saw "Pretty Woman" and I liked the (fantasy) explanation she gave: it's to protect herself from falling in love with her clients because kissing is too intimate and real feelings might get mixed up. Nice sentimental drivel there, but I doubt this would be a reason in the real world...
 
To me... You know... Well... Ugh, what I mean is... What's the difference between sticking a dick or tongue in your mouth? That's what I don't get. To me it's all one blur of sexual activity anyway. But then again, I can't fathom having sex without a blowjob or a good fucking either, so I'm not being hypocritical in making kissing essential.
 
See, you could say: "Stop trying to figure things out, Wolfer". But I'm a Gemini rising, and we have a visceral need to figure things out. And figuring things out and understanding them make me all warm, fuzzy and tingly inside.
 
Do you kiss with clients or not? If not, why not? If you do, is there a reason you do do? (obscure 30-Rock reference there)
 
Another similar enigma I've recently come across: two escorts offering their services as a duo, so that means they do a threesome with a client BUT it states clearly in their ad: "We're only friends. What this means is we don't fuck each other. We can play but not suck or fuck each other."
What's up with that? If you're comfortable enough to get naked and have sex (with another person) in front of each other, and find each other hot enough to "play" with each other and get turned on by that... what's the difference about just, you know, going for it all the way with each other?
 
That limit almost seems arbitrary and reminds me of this SNL sketch:

 
(If you don't wanna watch it, basically an actress is auditioning and has absolutely NO limits on what she'll do in front of the camera except wear a costume or clothes of any kind).

I've always been intrigued by this concept.
Excellent photos Moondance - thank you for posting!

In the world of classical ballet, our instrument is our physique, which is infinitely complicated, astonishingly diverse, extraordinarily functional, artistically imposing and -- at the very least -- aesthetically pleasing. If we are lucky, work hard, are conscientious with our training, and if everything falls into place, our instrument can then become our servant.
 
 
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I can relate to that, Tonyko. This isn't my first queer experience, but it is the longer lasting one. I have always been a lone hunter, never been or am interested in a committed, LTR, so my crushes tend to be very short. But there is one guy I met almost 30 years ago I still have a passionate relationship with. When I met him both of us were very young, and he was a street hustler. A breathtaking beautiful one. Our encounters would always involved some kind of transaction, not always money, maybe diner, a piece of clothing, a joint, something. We would not have anal sex, but the kissing was celestial. After a few months of meeting very often, he robbed me. I was very young and poor, so he just vanished without much, just a tape recorder and my weed while I was sleeping. After about one year, he reconnects begging me to see him. We meet, he brings some cash to pay for my goods (he was and is waaayyy below the poverty line), and explains to me that a friend of him was waiting for him outside, armed, and threatening to use his weapon if he did not leave my place with some valuables. Of course I did not know wether or not to believe him. But the chemistry was so strong that I gave him the benefit of doubt and we started a long process of reconciliation. He stopped asking for anything in exchange of sex and that year, as a birthday gift, he bottomed for me for the first time. We have been loyal friends and passionate lovers since then. He is married, has three children, and still when I am visiting Buenos Aires we spend together as much time as we can. I will be with him this very Thursday. He is not anymore the smoking hot stud he used to be, but when I meet with him the old passion just aroused. I am not even close to be young attractive guy I was, but he still freaks out when we are together. Right now I have a boner.

An elementary school sleepover with curious gropes and peeks but I fell in love with Rob Lowe in St Elmo's Fire.

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See also:
 
Old Possum's treasury of smutty verse
TS Eliot's secret bawdy side is revealed in newly published poems
http://www.independent.co.uk/news/old-possums-treasury-of-smutty-verse-1311139.html
 
And of course the homosexual come-on smack dab in the middle of 'The Waste Land':
 
Under the brown fog of a winter noon
Mr. Eugenides, the Smyrna merchant
Unshaven, with a pocket full of currants
C.i.f. London: documents at sight,
Asked me in demotic French
To luncheon at the Cannon Street Hotel
Followed by a weekend at the Metropole.

Is it Oprah's "va-jay-jay"?
 
Wait - more than one syllable.
 
 
At least I've forever altered the trajectory of gynophobe and gynophile trivia by reducing the degrees of separation of T. S. Eliot and Oprah to one.
 
My place in history is secure.

Hey Tony, here's the breakdown according to the number of posts you've made:
 
0 – 9 Newbie
10-24 Novice
25-49 Apprentice
50-99 Journeyman
100-249 Master
250-499 Knight
500-749 Lord
750-999 Baron
1000-1999 Viscount
2000-2999 Count
3000-3999 Earl
4000-4999 Marquess
5000-5999 Duke
6000-7499 Peer
7500-9999 Prince
10000+ Regent
 
Don't ask specifically where I originally found this, as I think it was soon after I first joined the forum that one of the original members posted it and I decided to copy it so I could tell when I would get to the next peerage level!
 
[Please forgive the edits wherein I have attempted to make this more accurate. The software will place you at the peerage level it was programmed to according to the number of posts you've made. BTW, there is NO black hole in the peerage!]
 
TruHart1

"In newly released details of the incident Sheriff Arpaio revealed that the horse in question had illegally crossed the border from Mexico with the intent to rape the fillies and ponies of Maricopa County.
Donald Trump's Gulfstream jet was last reported screaming toward Arizona for a mid-morning press conference. "
 
Thank god that Sheriff Arpaio is keeping the deserts of Arizona safe for fine, upstanding secessionists.

"In newly released details of the incident Sheriff Arpaio revealed that the horse in question had illegally crossed the border from Mexico with the intent to rape the fillies and ponies of Maricopa County.
Donald Trump's Gulfstream jet was last reported screaming toward Arizona for a mid-morning press conference. "
 
Thank god that Sheriff Arpaio is keeping the deserts of Arizona safe for fine, upstanding secessionists.

"In newly released details of the incident Sheriff Arpaio revealed that the horse in question had illegally crossed the border from Mexico with the intent to rape the fillies and ponies of Maricopa County.
Donald Trump's Gulfstream jet was last reported screaming toward Arizona for a mid-morning press conference. "
 
Thank god that Sheriff Arpaio is keeping the deserts of Arizona safe for fine, upstanding secessionists.

Sean Long is visiting LA - he has what you're looking for - very large, deep kissing and very interactive and perhaps open to 3-way - and I'd definitely recommend him. I've seen him a few times and he's also a really sexual man and very-much into creating a hot session.
 
His website with more pics.

Sean Long is visiting LA - he has what you're looking for - very large, deep kissing and very interactive and perhaps open to 3-way - and I'd definitely recommend him. I've seen him a few times and he's also a really sexual man and very-much into creating a hot session.
 
His website with more pics.

Porn teaches kids an unhealthy and unrealistic idea of how quickly a plumber will come to your house.
 
Kevin Slater

Authenticity, opposed to putting on a show and being manipulative so that when your hand reaches out at the end of an appointment it's back-uped by how many hoops you jumped through. I don't believe it's something any escort can do, because that is the actual skill, being yourself, and when we know we're giving that… so will the client. It's not just an escort thing though… being yourself isn't for everyone. Humans are truly sophisticated, though we often deny that mechanism; but when we feel something real, opposed to the alternative, it's undeniable. It's the difference between sky diving from a plane and going on a roller coaster; your body knows the difference. So in that… there is no preparation aside from what you'd normally do. That's the BFE… real opposed to going to Disneyland. And how does it differ… from the Non-BFE? Same person… less exposed.