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A few things that I can think of: getting an IFBB pro card; staying in Claridge's in London; visiting Lake Como; spending an entire summer at Cape Cod; visiting Cappadocia in Turkey visiting the Aran Islands Staying in a country lodge in Japan; moving to Sonoma or Santa Cruz, speaking a foreign language fluently have lunch with George Clooney; have lunch with Emma Thompson. What a great exercise this was. I had to really stop and think about things I wanted to achieve, places I wanted to go, etc., people I wanted to meet.

Prescription Retin-A is terrific - used very conservatively. At 68, I still get zits. When one starts to come out, I touch it with Retin-A. One time is often all it takes.

Two of the best products ever are exfoliating body scrubs and Neutrogena Hydroboost body lotion. The scrub I use is Dove Skin Polish, just because I like the way it smells. I use it all over, including my face, every other day. After I shower, I apply the lotion all over. The great thing about the Neutrogena lotion is that it's very light - goes on without any oily feeling and soaks in immediately. I don't mind saying that this regimen keeps my skin looking GOOD.

I haven't seen a urinal recently that doesn't flush automatically.

That's one of the things you work out with the provider.

As a matter of fact, I'm going to be in SJ on Friday. I'll see if I can book him.

He's a total dream. I'm in SJ fairly often. I may take a chance on him.

I get together from time with a guy from out of town. We always do an incall in his hotel room. He travels with sheets just in case something happens.

I've only subscribed to one OF guy - fitfella. A young hunk from South Africa who takes my breath away. No frontal shots, but I don't care that much. His muscles and his ass are a sight to behold.

I guess you wouldn't identify yourself on social media as "nasty."

I like big noses and I think it is usually unfortunate when people get them surgically altered.

My husband and I have grown much closer. We have always enjoyed being around each other, but now its different - a deep comfort and intimacy that wasn't there before. We stay in touch with friends by phone. I have been staying in closer touch with family members than I have before. We exchange long emails and texts. We have an older friend who is in his mid-80s and I'm also his attorney-in-fact. We talk on the phone all the time but I wanted see for myself how he was holding up. We fixed lunch and took it over to his place last week and sat in his back yard, maintaining social distance. It was a very enjoyable afternoon. My business keeps me very busy and I'm prepping for a bodybuilding show in October. My husband paints and is keeping busy with that. He also has a business that he can work at as much or as little as he wants. He works enough to maintain a decent cashflow. We get bored and frustrated and I occasionally get overwhelmed with a feeling that I just can't take much more of it, but it passes. We have been giving ourselves regular mid-week getaways - we spend a couple nights at a nice resort in Sonoma every few weeks. It's a good time to be doing it - that rates are very reasonable. This should be the height of the tourist season in the wine country and there are very few tourists. I allow social media to take up more of my time than I should. I have a lot of bodybuilding buddies that I like to keep up with on IG. We're lucky we have a pretty large house to rattle around in and things are generally pretty comfortable. Now and again, we remind ourselves that we exist in pretty pleasant bubble.

I love doing it with a guy who has really great abs - I love to punch and I love to take punches. To me, it's a form of muscle worship. I'm not so into it though that I would take really hard punches. Some guys are.

When I was a kid beating off, I used to swallow my own cum. It seemed sort of twisted to me, so I stopped doing it. I do like passing a load back and forth between us. Doesn't matter whether its his or mine. I like passing spit back and forth too. I also like to get my nose rignt up next to his mouth so that I can smell his breath.

My husband and I have made a few short getaways in the middle of the week. Tomorrow were leaving for two days in Sonoma. I just got a terrific email offer for four days at a Westin resort in Palm Dessert for $299. I have a year to use it. I think I'm going to buy it.

I haven't hired during the pandemic, so I don't really know. I was curious what was happening with rates, though, so I did a search on RM and limited by a rate of 200.00 or less . I was astonished at the number of hits and the overall quality

I like pubes clipped and I also like guys with pubes completely removed. I love hairy asses. I like hairy asses so much that I'm almost overcome when a guy has a hairy ass.

So clever, so sexy.

Recently, I've been thinking just the opposite - that our escort population in San Francisco has reached a new level of quality/quantity. I have complained for a long time that our pool of escorts was pretty limited, especially since San Francisco is kind of an older man's town. And escorts used to complain often that San Francisco was a difficult market. But when I look at RM, I see many more compelling possibilities. I'm sitting out the pandemic but a lot of the guys I see on RM are making that more challenging to do.

Before AIDS, most people swallowed cum during oral sex. During the AIDS epidemic, it wasn't known for sure whether HIV was transmitted through oral sex or not. Authorities recommended against swallowing cum, so most people stopped doing it. Many people have gone back to swallowing cum, but a lot of people just don't do it anymore. Its one of those practices that needs to be discussed now.

One just needs to be sure that their budget and their standards are compatible.

I only hire guys for therapeutic massage because the rate is lower. When it doesn't progress to sex, I'm not disappointed. When it does, it's a nice surprise. And it expands the universe of guys I can hire. Since it doesn't have to culminate in sex, I can hire straight hunks who do massage.

I hire for massage a lot- enjoy it. And it does often progress to full-on sex.

I would say that would be true in boyfriends, FBS and other unpaid partners. But for me, hiring is primarily driven by fantasy fulfillment.

Hardly think about it. Here in San Francisci, there's no need to read people, so the skill becomes dormant. I spend a lot of time in the South Bay, which is much straighter environment and I still don't think much about it. The south bay drives me crazy because there are good lookin' Latin men everywhere you look.