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Of course it doesn't always happen, but hopefully you developed enough of a connection so that you end up smelling and tasting like each other. I love afternoon sex and smelling the guy's body odor on me for the rest of the day.

There's an enormous truck stop off of I-5 in a town called Santa Nella. Whenever I'm driving back to the Bay Area from SoCal, I go through there. It's always struck me as a place that might have a lot of potential.

They always do that. They take a credit card imprint and get an approval for 100.00 or 200.00. I think it's gratuitous these days because its supposed to cover incidentals. But, at the moment, they aren't providing anything in the way of incidentals. The only possible thing would be damage to the room or cleaning in the case of a room in which somebody had smoked tobacco. A couple days after you check out, they release the funds.

Thousands of houses in San Francisco have flat rooves. Nobody seems to have any problem with them. We've owned our house for 15 years and not had any trouble with it. Many San Francisco houses have light wells. About five years ago, we had to replace the roof in the light well at a cost of $2k. I had the roofer look at the roof on top of the house and he recommended some minor repairs, which we had done. No real problem before and no problem since.

I don't like foul breath, but I really enjoy a natural-smelling breath

What makes you thinkg that everyone who gets large visible tattoos does it to follow a "fashion trend?" I wouldn't call them a fashion trend. Tattooing is a relatively ancient practice.

Some of them look great, some not so great. But you're not getting the point. They don't care how their tattoos look. They leave that for people like you to worry about.

There are some interesting new trends in tattoo art. One is renewed interest in classic tattoos - hearts, roses, that sort of thing. And another is that some are recognizing jailhouse tattoos as a distinct style to be emulated. There was a young guy at my gym who had a lot of jailhouse tats. Since we both had tats we talked tats periodically. He liked the primitive unskilled look of jailhouse tats.

What is so special about his age? Why should that be a reason not to get a tattoo? Most of the reasons you're going to give revolve around what other people think. Anybody who has been a little bit thoughtful about getting tattooed has thought of what others would think and realized that they don't care.

Yes, you might have been sorry for having mindlessly followed the trend. OTOH, if you had thought about it and gotten an image that you liked, you might still look at it and take satisfaction in it.

Important. When I got my first one, I went into a studio and made an appointment somewhat on impulse. I then realized I had no idea what sort of image I wanted, but I knew that I didn't want to choose one out of a book. I cancelled and told him I would re-schedule when I had thought more about the image. When I thought of one that I would like - I went back and had the guy draw it. I loved what he drew and said let's do it.

I got my first tattoo probably in my early 60s. I've been fascinated by them most of my life and finally decided there was no reason not to get a tattoo if I want one. I haven't been sorry - i love my tats. People will say condescending stuff about mid-life crises and such as though you're incapable of knowing your own mind. If you're SURE you want one, get one. Choose your artist carefully - there are a lot of bad ones out there. Many will congratulate you for doing something you really wanted to do. Some will not say a word about it. Some will be curious about what it "means."

They need f Sounds like guys with time on their hands

I'm the same - paying for it is an important part of the experience for me.

Guys with little experience at hiring feel extremely vulnerable - they're expecting to get screwed, expecting it won't work out for one reason or other and are just very nervous. There are some escorts who can deal with that - very often they advertise as being "good with first timers." You may not be one of those.

I have read about soaking potatoes to remove the starch. Last Thanksgiving, I made slow-cooker mashed potatoes that were superb and the recipe specified soaking the potatoes. I'm sure they would have been good even if I hadn't soaked the potatoes.

It's pretty simple 5 -10 min. prep, 20-25 min. cooking time.

The Facebook algorithm knows extremely well what kind of men I like.

I think it was 1998-99. I had decided I was going to hire and had been looking at personals ads in the Bay Area Reporter and the San Francisco Sentinel. I found an ad that I really liked, no picture, called the guy, we chatted and set up a meeting. We agreed to meet in front of Cala Foods in the Castro. I lived in the East bay suburbs at the time. I took BART into San Francisco, showed up at the appointed time and place and there was a very attractive young guy of around 27 -28 standing there. I asked him his name, and he was the right guy. He was friendly and seemed genuine. He worked in the financial district and was escorting on the side to make extra money. He put his arm around me and we walked back to his place a couple blocks away. We undressed each other and started making out, and I realized I had struck gold. I had never encountered a shaved hole before that and his was shaved. I was captivated - I couldn't get my face out of his ass. He was hung absolutely huge and I let him fuck me. It was nice but not memorable. I hired him for an hour and the hour flew by. I kept promising myself I was going to call him again, but never did. I wonder from time to time where he is now and what his life is like.

That's what I like to do, too

I've had my share of public sex encounters but I can only think of one rest stop encounter. It was at a rest stop on 490 west outside of Rochester in the 80s. One of my nicest public sex memories was of an encounter in Germany at a street car stop in Heidelberg. A handsome German daddy with a bushy beard asked me if I wanted to get fucked. I said sure. The street car stop was adjacent to a park with a lot of bushes. We went into the bushes, we both dropped our pants, he fucked me really nicely and then we went to the stop and parted ways.

If something like that happens, and I'm curious, I ask.

What did I say about blurring boundaries? Just like with the other guy, your relationship with this guy is ambiguous. Ambiguity leads to misunderstandings.

Blurring boundaries - generally not a good thing. As an escort, if you expect to be successful, you have to look past things like poor dental health. As his partner, you can reasonably expect him to maintain himself in a way that you can be attracted to or at least live with. So now, if I understand you, you and he have developed this hybrid arrangement where you are client and escort sometimes and boyfriends sometimes. So sometimes, one set of standards is operative and sometimes another set of standards is operative. So you have to know when to flip the escort switch and when to flip the BF switch. He has to know when to flip the client switch and when to flip the BF switch. The client standard, for him, is much more ,forgiving, so naturally he's going to prefer it, even when he should be conforming to the more demanding BF standard. That's a whole lot of ambiguity. I predict you will walk away from this predicament in frustration and you will lose a client.

They're not going to agree to something that they aren't willing to provide. If you want mad sex all night, tell him that. He will either say yes or no.