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The only time I have experienced 120 degrees was crossing Death Valley.

The definition that immediately springs to mind to gay men is not the only definition for the word.

That's funny. That's always been my retort also.

People are surprised when I say I've never been to PS. I've always been mildly curious, but never enough to board a plane and go. I have one friend who insists I simply must go, so I probably will eventually.

Of course, years ago while we were all still in the closet, I did. But coming out causes you to abandon a lot of that self-oppressive behavior.

I think it works great. Out of sight, out of mind. I see the messages indicating the presence of ignored content and it's as thought they're not even there. I'm not as quick to use the 'ignore' feature as I used to be because I realized there's just no substitute for a thick hide and the only way to get one is to expose yourself.

I had a cat who lived to age 20. When she was 17 or 18, I asked the vet how we would decide when to put her down. In the next sentence, I answered my own question. I told him, "Our criterion will be 'Is she happy?' I'll give her pills, shots, whatever it takes, as long as she's happy.'"

I use it.

I don't think there is such a thing as a man who is too hairy.

As a young man, when I traveled, I often had vacation affairs - 3 or 4-day things with a local.

I've had lots of weekend affairs. Are those relationships?

Pumping is a pretty common fetish.

What do you mean by relationship? A 5-minute anonymous encounter at a rest stop might be called a relationship.

The OP says he's experiencing upper respiratory symptoms. That would suggest he's being exposed to an allergen.

Good point. Im reminded of those teflon TMJ prosthetics that the FDA pulled from the market in the 80s. They were little teflon discs. Turned out they couldn't withstand the load they were subjected to in the TMJ and shredded. Tiny shreds of teflon made their way throughout the persons body through the lymphatic system. The people developed giant cell tumors. Some committed suicide they were so miserable.

I'm alive and well.

i wonder how silicone oil would be?

As a really little kid, I remember being lifted into and out of the rides by the operators - they were always extremely rough-looking young men with tatts who looked like they hadn't showered in awhile- at that tender age I was already attracted to rough trade.

Rubber sheet - toss it into the washing machine to clean up.

I used to really be into that. We would get covered with baby oil and slip and slide and suck and fuck. My partner and I have a rubber sheet and we tried it once. He didn't like it. He found the feeling of being covered with oil icky. I would do it again, slipping and sliding against a sexy guy is great.

I spent my early childhood in a small town in a rural part of New York. We went to the county fair every year. We did everything-rides, side show, crappy food, games, 4-H exhibits, livestock show, all of it. My cousins lived in an even more rural part of the state and they showed their cows every year-sometimes we went to their county fair. They would stay overnight, sleeping in a sleeping bag in the stall with their animals. It was the high point of their year. It took months to get an animal into show condition.

I haven't done it in a long time, but in sex clubs i used to go after guys with extra full pecs and I would suck their nipples as though they were nursing me. Another one of those things that just put me into a trance. They usually thought it was pretty hot too.

Both times I visited Tijuana, I had lunch. Both times it was in decent sit-down restaurants. I didn't get sick, although I was fearful of it.

Milorganite is an amazing lawn fertilzer. You're not supposed to use it for food crops because of the heavy metal content. Another down side is that there is a faint odor of sewage for a few days after applying.

I would agree -perfection.