Rudynate

I would say there's no formula. My partner I didn't move in together until we had been together 14 years, although we lived in the same apt. building for several years before that. That's an extreme, I know. But we were both already mature men when we met.

I would say there's no formula. My partner I didn't move in together until we had been together 14 years, although we lived in the same apt. building for several years before that. That's an extreme, I know. But we were both already mature men when we met.

There may be different products out there. The stuff that I got does rub off on clothes and sheets the first day. After that, it doesn't. It gradually fades, but even after a week, I was still visibly tan. At the end of a week, I went in for a second application. On top of what was left of the first application, I was a deep brown. It looked great and lasted for a couple weeks at least. There was some streaking on my legs. Newer equipment minimizes the streaking. Actually, the only reason I don't do it again is because the second application made me break out in zits, I suppose from obstructed pores.

Sounds very hot.

My partner is my favorite sex object. We've been using each other for 26 years.

Financial planners say you need to plan on living into your early 90s.

In my work, I write extremely detailed technical specifications in a variety of technology areas. One time, I was working with a Taiwanese company. I met with the CEO to interview him. He was from Taiwan, and was speaking English, but his accent was so thick that it didn't even sound like English. I though, "Oh my God, what am I going to do?" I sat there, nodding and taking notes for about 90 minutes, and before I left I got all the printed documentation they could furnish. Fortunately, I was able to produce an adequate document from the printed documentation.

That's sort of a hearts-and-flowers Victorian notion.

Give yourself some credit-you're an adult.

But it's a fairly intimate personal service in which boundaries can be a bit hazy. Success with an arrangement like this is all about the boundaries.

It used to be considered impolite to talk about money. There's another very practical reason for not talking about money. If you don't talk about it, people don't know how much you have and are a lot less likely to hit you up for assistance.

They're so persistent that they will chat all day long if you let them. Several years ago I had a spine surgery. I was supposed to go out and walk several times a day and I had a walker that I used outside of the house. I was out walking and a swarm of missionaries surrounded me, all of them eager to help. I chatted with them for awhIle and told them I wasn't looking for a new religion, so they went there way after that.

There's a Mormon church down the street and an Assembly of God church down the cross street, but no bells, just lots of cute young Mormon missionaries. I really enjoy them.

They have it at noon too? Where I grew up, they said the Angelus on the radio every day at 6PM. It was strange-a top 40 station interrupting programming every day for the Angelus prayer.

I joined a tanning place last year at this time and got a spray tan so I could be tan right away. I loved it. I just couldn't belive how good it looked. They said it would start to fade after about a week, so I got another coat at the end of a week. I think it was too soon after the first coat. The pigment seemed to get in my pores, cuz I broke out with zits after the second one. I did it one more time and decided I was done with spray tans. It's amazing how people reacted to me with this deep tan. We spent the weekend in Nevada City and everywhere we went women flirted with me. It was fun.

Cord is a daddy escort who lives on Fire Island. https://rentmen.eu/Cord/ And he's not really much older than you.

At 45, I wouldn't think of you as a daddy, but plenty of guys would. I'm 66 and proud to be a daddy. But at 45 you're eminently hireable

Who wouldn't be flattered being compared with the likes of Alan Silver and Cord on Fire Island?

Just listened to a Glaswegian accent on Youtube. I think I could understand it after a few minutes. Around here, I occasionally hear a northern English accent - maybe Manchester. Until you get used to it, it sounds like a different language.

If you were in the biz in the 90s you might be just the right age. I'm big into daddy escorts.

I'm an easy client. I don't need to get off and I don't expect him to, either. I just like to play and play and . . .. One guy not long ago asked me if my nips were sensitive, and I said "occasionally, but mostly not." He started stroking them really softly. At first it annoyed me and I was going to make his stop, but I began to enjoy the sensation a bit, so I thought "ok, a little more." It felt better and better and before long, I had an explosive orgasm.

It's all sex. Making love is just extra good sex.

That's why I qualified my remark by saying that I didn't know because I had never been a sex worker. Just because I suppose something to be true for another person, doesn't mean that it is. When he told me that his work was completely fulfilling, I took it at face value. He's a smart, aware man who can certainly decide what's best for him.

I was talking with one of my favorites about this. He's a long-time escort and he mentioned that his friends are pushing him to have less work sex and fit in a little recreational sex/romance, which he sort of dismissed. I said that I had never been a sex worker, so I could only speculate, but it seemed that work sex would be qualitatively different from recreational sex. He responded that he loved his time with clients and found it completely fulfilling. I said, "That's great - you're making money doing what you love." And I have to say, he does it very well.

Most of my hires are scheduled days or weeks in advance.