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As a kid, a black leather jacket, black riding boots or wellington boots would give me a raging hard-on. I also liked lace-up work boots.

Leather has never been more than a minor fetish for me. There are guys into leather who will only have sex dressed in their gear. Many will only have sex with somebody else who is dressed in gear. I Can think of more tha a few men with whom it would be pretty exciting to play dressed in leather.

And they're having trouble funding social benefits for all those seniors because there aren't enough people paying in.

We're horrified by the idea of someone dying alone. But I wonder if it is all that bad.

Many years ago, I was frustrated because I couldn't meet anybody. In a moment of sanity, I realized I couldn't meet anybody because I spent a lot of my free time hanging out in sex clubs. I was "looking for love in all the wrong places." So I gave up sex clubs. I concentrated on other things, did some volunteer work, started graduate school, spent a lot of time working out. I met my partner at the Pride Parade. A guy I did volunteer work with introduced us. I forgot about him, but we ran into each other at the gym a few months later and started dating. I suspect dating/hookup apps are the 21st century equivalent of sex clubs. Bad places for finding romance.

I'm not single. I have a relationship of 26 years' duration and we got married a little more than three years ago. I know lots of older gay men who are single. I believe they are single because it's what they want. Being single for all or most of one's life extracts a steep price - it IS lonely, they miss out on opportunities for intimacy and partnership and sharing. Yet they don't make the emotional and behavioral adjustments needed to sustain an intimate relationship with another man. They don't because they prefer the benefits of being single, most notable of which is an extreme autonomy. They don't answer to anybody. A result of this extreme autonomy is that they are strong, independent, resourceful men. As I said, that comes with a price, but I think they are willing to pay it.

I completely forgot my leather biker jacket. My partner had it made for me at Johnson Leather in San Francisco at least 20 years ago. I have had the lining replaced once and the older it gets, the better it looks. I've had guys stop me on the streeet and ask where I got it. Once when I lived in the suburbs, I was out for a morning walk. Some guy drove up, pulled over opened his window and called out "Nice jacket," and drove off.

I thought I was the only one who had that fantasy.

Right- Joe Mangina.

Black leather looks good on me and I enjoy what wearing it does for my attitude. I toy with the idea of buying a full outfit, but probably never will. I have some leather shorts and a leather vest. I enjoy wearing the vest without a shirt to the occasional sex parties my partner and I go to.

I enjoy holding the door for others. It's a little thing and adds to the other person's day.

I don't ask rate in the RM message. More and more guys don't want to discuss rate on RM.

Seems unnecessary. There are photos, waist size and height. Why does anyone need the weight?

Escorts can run their business however they want. I think they should be prepared to accept the fact that not providing a face pic may cost them business. There are some highly regarded escorts who will not provide face pics prior to a booking. I've taken the risk on some of these guys and wasn't sorry.

A slight difference

Hot dogs are nothing but grease.

While I have no difficulty appreciating a handsome face, I'm more of a body guy than a face guy, so, if I like the body, I'm willing to take the risk with the face. It nearly always works out.

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We used to have it in the school cafeteria in grade school. They would serve it as little sandwiches made with butter alongside beans and franks. We liked it so much that we got our mother to buy it occasionally. I got nostalgic for it a few years ago and found a recipe for it. It is steamed like a Christmas pudding.

I like my dentist, but he's a little expensive. I decided to try a dentist who partipated in Kaiser's medicare advantage program. It was really a bummer. His office was in a terribly seedy medical-dental building in Daly City. Just going there was depressing. The waiting room was full of decrepit old people. The equipment was old and out of date. He cleaned my teeth and his technique was so poor that the procedure was actually painful. They then gave me a treatment plan, saying that I needed SEVEN fillings (the last time I had a filling was 25 years ago). That experience taught me that you get what you pay for in dentistry. I will go back to my usual dentist, with his smart designer office and pay his slightly exhorbitant fees without any further complaint.

I always say 'no, thanks' to food samples. It's usually crap, and even when it isn't, I have a meal plan that supports my fitness goals and I don't want to screw that up.

An escort recently treated me to lunch.

The article is very condescending, suggesting, not so subtly, that after a certain age, people are to be dismissed, and chuckled over and made the subject of humorous news articles. Senior citizens Nancy Pelosi, Bob Mueller and Mitch McConnell are not people who are easily dismissed or laughed at. I don't imagine Trump finds very much at all in Mueller to laugh at or dismiss.

I send a link to my RM profile, specify date and time and length of booking and sign off with my name. It's rare that I don't get a response.

I have only used them in HIIT workouts. Pavel Tsatsouline popularized them in this country. I have some of his materials. Total stud.