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+ haring222 got a reaction from + Just Sayin in Escort Memoir
So I was a (pretty good and very active) escort during college, here in Chicago, between 1998 and 2003. Indeed, I look back at that period and the only regret is that I did not do it for a few years longer.
Recently I moved and came across some shoe boxes of, well, crap that I had sealed up when moving form my college era studio flat. In it was a treasure trove of that time...4 day planners, an honest to god pager, and my journal which covered every experience I had in detail. Down to the position preferred and money paid.
I have a month off this summer and have decided to give amazon self publishing a try. I am going to recount four years of my life, going into detail about the hectic world I lived. Nightclubs, clients, so many condoms....and at least 20 experiences that still stand out in my brain.
Is there anything that forum folks would be particularly interested in reading about?
Thanks for any ideas!
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+ haring222 got a reaction from thomas in Malcolm-Jamal Warner drowned
From what I understand, if you just relax and let the rip current take you where it wants to go they will actually bring you back to shore about 50% of the time....they go in big circles. The process is sort of fascinating. If they don't, you just have to go parallel to the shore fora bit then you can easily swim back to shore. That said, if something was sucking me away form shore I would definitely be freaking out.
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+ haring222 got a reaction from caliguy in Malcolm-Jamal Warner drowned
There is a HUGE problem with african american folks not knowing how to swim. I do volunteer work with a group home for teen boys...it took me over a year to get approval from DCFS to enroll all of the boys in swimming classes at the local Y and I had to pay for it personally out of pocket. The first day they went, only 7 out of almost 60 kids could swim enough to keep from drowning if they fell into a pool. These kids were panicking to even put their head under water.
Reading this article made me freak out about the 5 or 6 times I took groups of kids out to the beach and how easily that could have gone sideways.
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+ haring222 got a reaction from + jeezopete in Malcolm-Jamal Warner drowned
From what I understand, if you just relax and let the rip current take you where it wants to go they will actually bring you back to shore about 50% of the time....they go in big circles. The process is sort of fascinating. If they don't, you just have to go parallel to the shore fora bit then you can easily swim back to shore. That said, if something was sucking me away form shore I would definitely be freaking out.
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+ haring222 got a reaction from + Pensant in Malcolm-Jamal Warner drowned
From what I understand, if you just relax and let the rip current take you where it wants to go they will actually bring you back to shore about 50% of the time....they go in big circles. The process is sort of fascinating. If they don't, you just have to go parallel to the shore fora bit then you can easily swim back to shore. That said, if something was sucking me away form shore I would definitely be freaking out.
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+ haring222 got a reaction from + Just Chuck in Malcolm-Jamal Warner drowned
There is a HUGE problem with african american folks not knowing how to swim. I do volunteer work with a group home for teen boys...it took me over a year to get approval from DCFS to enroll all of the boys in swimming classes at the local Y and I had to pay for it personally out of pocket. The first day they went, only 7 out of almost 60 kids could swim enough to keep from drowning if they fell into a pool. These kids were panicking to even put their head under water.
Reading this article made me freak out about the 5 or 6 times I took groups of kids out to the beach and how easily that could have gone sideways.
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+ haring222 got a reaction from Luv2play in Escort Memoir
I went on the hunt and pulled out the 6 books I have (all of these, plus a few more) and it was interesting. In particular Aaron Lawrence. I am honestly surprised that he shared some of that info when he was still actively escorting; there are just some things that I would think you need to not say until you are done using them psychologically on clients.
As I have been reading these day planners and also this journal of sorts it is bringing me back to my late teens / early 20s in ways I was not expecting. I had forgotten there that I had a listing on M4M Escort World and came across an email form that site from Jeffry Hurant, asking me to join his new website called Rentboy.com and offering up a free 6 months. The internet really was a different time back then. I had also honestly forgotten how much time I spent at 24 hour diners...all of these books have receipts stuck into them from the Melrose Diner and they are always at 3AM.
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+ haring222 got a reaction from Dolman in Escort Memoir
So I was a (pretty good and very active) escort during college, here in Chicago, between 1998 and 2003. Indeed, I look back at that period and the only regret is that I did not do it for a few years longer.
Recently I moved and came across some shoe boxes of, well, crap that I had sealed up when moving form my college era studio flat. In it was a treasure trove of that time...4 day planners, an honest to god pager, and my journal which covered every experience I had in detail. Down to the position preferred and money paid.
I have a month off this summer and have decided to give amazon self publishing a try. I am going to recount four years of my life, going into detail about the hectic world I lived. Nightclubs, clients, so many condoms....and at least 20 experiences that still stand out in my brain.
Is there anything that forum folks would be particularly interested in reading about?
Thanks for any ideas!
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+ haring222 got a reaction from + claym in 411 on Kylostar new listing in Chicago
I am assuming they have scaled back their work in the USA with the current situation going on, but I have donated to and helped sponsor two refugee's with the Rainbow Railroad. For me, it was an incredibly rewarding undertaking...these guys were from a pretty awful situation and they ended up getting to come to the USA / get legally married / become legal residents of the united states. These guys really did face potential death in the country there were leaving, which is something I still have trouble wrapping my head around.
The organization is really good and makes an awesome unusual birthday fundraiser.
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+ haring222 got a reaction from + claym in Escort Memoir
I went on the hunt and pulled out the 6 books I have (all of these, plus a few more) and it was interesting. In particular Aaron Lawrence. I am honestly surprised that he shared some of that info when he was still actively escorting; there are just some things that I would think you need to not say until you are done using them psychologically on clients.
As I have been reading these day planners and also this journal of sorts it is bringing me back to my late teens / early 20s in ways I was not expecting. I had forgotten there that I had a listing on M4M Escort World and came across an email form that site from Jeffry Hurant, asking me to join his new website called Rentboy.com and offering up a free 6 months. The internet really was a different time back then. I had also honestly forgotten how much time I spent at 24 hour diners...all of these books have receipts stuck into them from the Melrose Diner and they are always at 3AM.
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+ haring222 got a reaction from Rod Hagen in Escort Memoir
I went on the hunt and pulled out the 6 books I have (all of these, plus a few more) and it was interesting. In particular Aaron Lawrence. I am honestly surprised that he shared some of that info when he was still actively escorting; there are just some things that I would think you need to not say until you are done using them psychologically on clients.
As I have been reading these day planners and also this journal of sorts it is bringing me back to my late teens / early 20s in ways I was not expecting. I had forgotten there that I had a listing on M4M Escort World and came across an email form that site from Jeffry Hurant, asking me to join his new website called Rentboy.com and offering up a free 6 months. The internet really was a different time back then. I had also honestly forgotten how much time I spent at 24 hour diners...all of these books have receipts stuck into them from the Melrose Diner and they are always at 3AM.
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+ haring222 got a reaction from BSR in Escort Memoir
So I was a (pretty good and very active) escort during college, here in Chicago, between 1998 and 2003. Indeed, I look back at that period and the only regret is that I did not do it for a few years longer.
Recently I moved and came across some shoe boxes of, well, crap that I had sealed up when moving form my college era studio flat. In it was a treasure trove of that time...4 day planners, an honest to god pager, and my journal which covered every experience I had in detail. Down to the position preferred and money paid.
I have a month off this summer and have decided to give amazon self publishing a try. I am going to recount four years of my life, going into detail about the hectic world I lived. Nightclubs, clients, so many condoms....and at least 20 experiences that still stand out in my brain.
Is there anything that forum folks would be particularly interested in reading about?
Thanks for any ideas!
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+ haring222 got a reaction from BSR in Escort Memoir
I went on the hunt and pulled out the 6 books I have (all of these, plus a few more) and it was interesting. In particular Aaron Lawrence. I am honestly surprised that he shared some of that info when he was still actively escorting; there are just some things that I would think you need to not say until you are done using them psychologically on clients.
As I have been reading these day planners and also this journal of sorts it is bringing me back to my late teens / early 20s in ways I was not expecting. I had forgotten there that I had a listing on M4M Escort World and came across an email form that site from Jeffry Hurant, asking me to join his new website called Rentboy.com and offering up a free 6 months. The internet really was a different time back then. I had also honestly forgotten how much time I spent at 24 hour diners...all of these books have receipts stuck into them from the Melrose Diner and they are always at 3AM.
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+ haring222 got a reaction from + Charlie in Escort Memoir
I went on the hunt and pulled out the 6 books I have (all of these, plus a few more) and it was interesting. In particular Aaron Lawrence. I am honestly surprised that he shared some of that info when he was still actively escorting; there are just some things that I would think you need to not say until you are done using them psychologically on clients.
As I have been reading these day planners and also this journal of sorts it is bringing me back to my late teens / early 20s in ways I was not expecting. I had forgotten there that I had a listing on M4M Escort World and came across an email form that site from Jeffry Hurant, asking me to join his new website called Rentboy.com and offering up a free 6 months. The internet really was a different time back then. I had also honestly forgotten how much time I spent at 24 hour diners...all of these books have receipts stuck into them from the Melrose Diner and they are always at 3AM.
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+ haring222 got a reaction from Marc in Calif in 411 on Kylostar new listing in Chicago
I am assuming they have scaled back their work in the USA with the current situation going on, but I have donated to and helped sponsor two refugee's with the Rainbow Railroad. For me, it was an incredibly rewarding undertaking...these guys were from a pretty awful situation and they ended up getting to come to the USA / get legally married / become legal residents of the united states. These guys really did face potential death in the country there were leaving, which is something I still have trouble wrapping my head around.
The organization is really good and makes an awesome unusual birthday fundraiser.
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+ haring222 got a reaction from Asterisk in 411 on Kylostar new listing in Chicago
I am assuming they have scaled back their work in the USA with the current situation going on, but I have donated to and helped sponsor two refugee's with the Rainbow Railroad. For me, it was an incredibly rewarding undertaking...these guys were from a pretty awful situation and they ended up getting to come to the USA / get legally married / become legal residents of the united states. These guys really did face potential death in the country there were leaving, which is something I still have trouble wrapping my head around.
The organization is really good and makes an awesome unusual birthday fundraiser.
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+ haring222 got a reaction from + newatthis in Escort Memoir
I went on the hunt and pulled out the 6 books I have (all of these, plus a few more) and it was interesting. In particular Aaron Lawrence. I am honestly surprised that he shared some of that info when he was still actively escorting; there are just some things that I would think you need to not say until you are done using them psychologically on clients.
As I have been reading these day planners and also this journal of sorts it is bringing me back to my late teens / early 20s in ways I was not expecting. I had forgotten there that I had a listing on M4M Escort World and came across an email form that site from Jeffry Hurant, asking me to join his new website called Rentboy.com and offering up a free 6 months. The internet really was a different time back then. I had also honestly forgotten how much time I spent at 24 hour diners...all of these books have receipts stuck into them from the Melrose Diner and they are always at 3AM.
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+ haring222 got a reaction from + claym in Escort Memoir
So I was a (pretty good and very active) escort during college, here in Chicago, between 1998 and 2003. Indeed, I look back at that period and the only regret is that I did not do it for a few years longer.
Recently I moved and came across some shoe boxes of, well, crap that I had sealed up when moving form my college era studio flat. In it was a treasure trove of that time...4 day planners, an honest to god pager, and my journal which covered every experience I had in detail. Down to the position preferred and money paid.
I have a month off this summer and have decided to give amazon self publishing a try. I am going to recount four years of my life, going into detail about the hectic world I lived. Nightclubs, clients, so many condoms....and at least 20 experiences that still stand out in my brain.
Is there anything that forum folks would be particularly interested in reading about?
Thanks for any ideas!
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+ haring222 got a reaction from Rod Hagen in Escort Memoir
So I was a (pretty good and very active) escort during college, here in Chicago, between 1998 and 2003. Indeed, I look back at that period and the only regret is that I did not do it for a few years longer.
Recently I moved and came across some shoe boxes of, well, crap that I had sealed up when moving form my college era studio flat. In it was a treasure trove of that time...4 day planners, an honest to god pager, and my journal which covered every experience I had in detail. Down to the position preferred and money paid.
I have a month off this summer and have decided to give amazon self publishing a try. I am going to recount four years of my life, going into detail about the hectic world I lived. Nightclubs, clients, so many condoms....and at least 20 experiences that still stand out in my brain.
Is there anything that forum folks would be particularly interested in reading about?
Thanks for any ideas!
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+ haring222 got a reaction from Peter Eater in SANTOS_FTM
Posting an update.
I did indeed meet with him. Without going into detail, I will say that he is a super attractive guy, very smart, has a nice apartment in a great part of town, and was great to talk with. I get the vibe that he is genuinely nice and friendly. His muscle definition is impressive. If you are interested in meeting a FTM provider I can't imagine it getting any better than this chap.
I can also now say that I have had vaginal intercourse. Until today I had always been really curious about what time spent with a MTF person would be like. I am a 'relatively' well adjusted gay guy who just does not have a lot of interest in penises that are not my own. It made me wonder if sexual congress with a man who happens to have a vagina would be really fun for me. After doing it....well, it was an interesting experience; it just was not something I feel like I need to do again. He was a great instructor, which I really appreciated. I'll stick with butts 🙂
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+ haring222 got a reaction from thomas in SANTOS_FTM
Posting an update.
I did indeed meet with him. Without going into detail, I will say that he is a super attractive guy, very smart, has a nice apartment in a great part of town, and was great to talk with. I get the vibe that he is genuinely nice and friendly. His muscle definition is impressive. If you are interested in meeting a FTM provider I can't imagine it getting any better than this chap.
I can also now say that I have had vaginal intercourse. Until today I had always been really curious about what time spent with a MTF person would be like. I am a 'relatively' well adjusted gay guy who just does not have a lot of interest in penises that are not my own. It made me wonder if sexual congress with a man who happens to have a vagina would be really fun for me. After doing it....well, it was an interesting experience; it just was not something I feel like I need to do again. He was a great instructor, which I really appreciated. I'll stick with butts 🙂
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+ haring222 got a reaction from thomas in SANTOS_FTM
I don't think that was on offer...and honestly, I get plenty of that as it is. A vagina really is designed to take a dick; now having experienced it I now understand how much more difficult a butt is to penetrate. I really am glad that I got to experience it.
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+ haring222 got a reaction from + DERRIK in Escort Memoir
So I was a (pretty good and very active) escort during college, here in Chicago, between 1998 and 2003. Indeed, I look back at that period and the only regret is that I did not do it for a few years longer.
Recently I moved and came across some shoe boxes of, well, crap that I had sealed up when moving form my college era studio flat. In it was a treasure trove of that time...4 day planners, an honest to god pager, and my journal which covered every experience I had in detail. Down to the position preferred and money paid.
I have a month off this summer and have decided to give amazon self publishing a try. I am going to recount four years of my life, going into detail about the hectic world I lived. Nightclubs, clients, so many condoms....and at least 20 experiences that still stand out in my brain.
Is there anything that forum folks would be particularly interested in reading about?
Thanks for any ideas!
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+ haring222 got a reaction from pubic_assistance in SANTOS_FTM
Posting an update.
I did indeed meet with him. Without going into detail, I will say that he is a super attractive guy, very smart, has a nice apartment in a great part of town, and was great to talk with. I get the vibe that he is genuinely nice and friendly. His muscle definition is impressive. If you are interested in meeting a FTM provider I can't imagine it getting any better than this chap.
I can also now say that I have had vaginal intercourse. Until today I had always been really curious about what time spent with a MTF person would be like. I am a 'relatively' well adjusted gay guy who just does not have a lot of interest in penises that are not my own. It made me wonder if sexual congress with a man who happens to have a vagina would be really fun for me. After doing it....well, it was an interesting experience; it just was not something I feel like I need to do again. He was a great instructor, which I really appreciated. I'll stick with butts 🙂
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+ haring222 got a reaction from pubic_assistance in SANTOS_FTM
I don't think that was on offer...and honestly, I get plenty of that as it is. A vagina really is designed to take a dick; now having experienced it I now understand how much more difficult a butt is to penetrate. I really am glad that I got to experience it.