DickyF

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also on Rentmasseur: https://rentmasseur.com/LucasMasso
previously in Spain: https://telechapero.com/Lucasmasso/

@tanman4u I still think you were justified in moving on. If the roles were reveresed, I'll bet @Mocha would have taken a different client after a few hours of delays.

Well I was wondering if this would wind up being aired out on Daddy's, so here goes.
 
I'm the attempted hirer here.
 
I only hire when I'm traveling and that frequently means only having time to hire once per trip, not due to monetary reasons, but time constraints. When I'm traveling I'm doing safety training all weekend and it's pretty rigidly timed out. I have very little free time. I also no longer get along on a couple of hours of sleep a night if I'll be in charge of running this training the next day.
 
As Mocha pointed out we did hookup a couple of years ago in Las Vegas. It was the first longer-than-an-hour-or-two meeting I had ever planned on. We were going to have dinner at a steakhouse then head to my room. Everything was set and a date and time was agreed upon. He was driving with a friend from somewhere in the area and started running late, and had to check-in at their hotel, then get ready, then get to me, etc. So I had dinner by myself and hooked up with him for a couple of hours later that night.
 
So we kinda kept up through PMs here discussing various subjects. I've always liked his style here on the forums and felt like he got a bad rap for bitching so much.
 
On April 8 I sent an email asking if he was going to be in his home town of Orlando later in the month (27th-30th).
On April 10 he answered "....I say put me down for this month, as I’m here now. I may go out of town in between now and then,b but I have some things going on here in Orlando that I need to stay tended to. So if I do go, it would only be for a couple weeks."
On April 11th I wrote that Friday the 27th would be the best for me for a variety of reasons. I did say in that email "I'd really like to be crashed out by midnight as I have to be on my feet doing the meet-and-greet thing all day Sat and Sun. If Friday night isn't good for you Saturday or Sunday night would work just not quite as convenient. "
On April 22nd he emailed me his rates which included one-hour, two-hour, evening, and all night sessions.
On April 23rd I reiterated my desire for an "evening" and told him I would let him know how early on Friday I'd be free.
On April 25th he emailed me: "
Hey there Kevin, just following back up with you. So give me the run down on your availability in Orlando again. You mentioned Friday night you’d be getting in, or is Friday the 1 night you’d be able to meet while you’re in town?
On April 26th Mocha texted: "just noticed you said you’d be in Orlando Friday thru Monday. So I take it Saturday will be open for you as well? I ask because I’m traveling back from up north tomorrow and on Friday...and would prefer to leave a little buffer time and meet with you Saturday or Sunday even if possible. Either way, let’s go for it"
On April 26th I answered "I can be available Saturday night. My flight on Monday is really early and I’ve gotta pack up all the training materials etc., that I’m traveling with Sunday night so that night is out."
 
At this point I did something that I thought was pretty creative and a great way to communicate my wants/needs/fantasies that I hoped the evening would provide. I did it by pre-writing a Daddy's review. I then sent it to Mocha reminding him of one of the mottos of the boards here "communication".
 
At this point I had purchased a quite nice bottle of Pinot Grigio which I remembered he liked and had identified a nearby restaurant that I knew and loved for dinner and had managed to weasel out of a dinner business meeting. I had also tired like hell to remember (and research here on the forum) what his favorite lube is. I remember a thread a long time ago about him having a bottle swiped. I thought I was being pretty thoughtful to remember the wine he likes and the lube thing. I also remembered he likes spiced bourbon with OJ. I offered to have an Uber pick him up and deliver him back in case, like me, he was planning on drinking.
 
So I spent Friday night, not having a date with Mocha but editing a bunch of videos which took me till 230a
 
April 27th Saturday just after noon I get a text "Just a little heads up on my end 7p may be too soon for me to meet . I will be traveling this afternoon."
My answer "I just really need to be crashed out by midnight....." In my mind this is starting to sound a LOT like the previous meeting we had.
I asked "so what do you think is a realistic time for tonight?"
His answer: "9:30-10p. I'm supposed to be getting into Orlando around 745p" At this point I didn't know he was driving and assumed the airlines had really fucked him over.
My Answer: "That's going to be too late. I was really hoping for the whole evening thing"
He offered a prorated all night rate. If I had been on vacation I would have jumped at the chance but an overnight does me no good. He also offered Sunday anytime but there was no way I was going to try to make that work.
At that point he joked that he had something that would keep me up (just to be clear we're not talking drugs here). He said "Florida nights end at 4a LOL"
My answer: (still thinking we're now looking at 930-10), "I'll be ready. We can still start with drinks at the lobby bar. My floor is card access only"
He wondered if there was another restaurant in the area that was open later as he would be hungry when he got there.
At 9:30p I texted him asking how he was doing on time?
He said he was hoping before midnight but was "pushing almost 1130p"
I told I can't go on for a second night of only a couple of hours of sleep.
He texted around 1140p asking if there was anyway we could get together on sunday.
 
Dude, if you'd been driving for 9 hours or whatever you said upthread here do you really think you would have been down for a several hours of time with me?
 
In the meantime having "prepped" my self for what I was hoping would be a wonderful couple of hours enjoying my favorite hobby (black dick), I had hopped on Rentmen and discovered a very hot black top that was nearby and ready. Made the call, he was there in a few minutes. It wasn't the passionate evening I had hoped for but wow did he deliver when it came to black dick. And I was indeed crashed out before 1a.
 
When I mentioned that I had hired someone else I just wasn't thinking about how much that sounded like I was bragging about it. Part of it was to be clear that I had now used funds that I had planned for our evening. I can see where I come off sounding like a dick by saying anything about it.
 
So that's my side of all this. Unfortunately this is now two times that I've really tried to put together an awesome evening and it just didn't work out. I think I'll stick to one hour and done from now on.

Sometimes shit hits the fan. When that happens, it can kill the mood for either party. Maybe the cancellation was justified from a client perspective.

Oftentimes we are at the mercy of the client's decision. It sucks, but that's how this industry works. Sometimes the client is more than accommodating in other circumstances so it works both ways. We just need to hold our head high and surround ourselves with all the amazing clients we can find. In the end, everything works out for the better. I certainly have had plans go awry and have been put in tough situations. I move on and focus on the future in those instances.

What’s good about his FB page is you can see current pix which suggest his ad pix are pretty current and accurate.

Really? Wow! That is very different. There is not any closed-off area but maybe back stage somewhere? Since the club will be torn down soon to build a stadium (again!) maybe anything goes. Maybe the abc board doesn’t care anymore. I’ll check it myself.
DC has gotten so gentrified there are not many areas for sex related clubs left! A lot different from the 80s Marion Barry era

He is visiting DC now. No one has an experience they’d like to share?

I've seen that checking flights for a trip I'm thinking about later in the year. It seems that whether it's a direct flight or one with a connection (no matter how far out of the way the connection is) means less for the price than what they have available. And it's not just AA. When checking fares Qantas will often show me fares from Canberra to LA via Perth and Sydney rather than just via Sydney (that's across the continent and back to travel 250km). If airline elite status matters to you, and the extra few qualifying miles or sectors would make a difference at the end of the year, I can see the point of taking the nutty route you cited if the fare were comparable.

You do know all phones today allow to take, and then keep, a screenshot of anything, right?

It's been mentioned by some in this thread that the escort may be asking to ensure that it's not entrapment or LE on the other end. I can certainly understand that mentality, but it can be flipped the other way. When these escorts start asking for my pics, I automatically assume it's a sting out to entrap me! I could lose my job if it got out that I'm engaging in an illegal activity, so I just avoid the risk. And with this FOSTA/SESTA bullshit impending law, the risk seems even greater for clients now. I have always struggled with how explicit to be regarding my expectations for a session. Someone earlier suggested that being explicit could also explain why the escort wanted face pics. But how are you supposed to ask for what you want and clearly articulate what it is you're looking for without being explicit? When there's this amount of money involved, a client wants to make sure he's going to get what he's paying for.

All I can say is that my best experiences have come from escorts who do not request my stats. If they do, I move on now.

Being turned down for sex by a paid professional has got to hurt.

This has come up a number of times and nobody likes being judged. But the argument that was made here by an escort was that he asked some basic questions in advance to ensure that he would be able to give the client a genuine, sincere experience. If he was not attracted to the client then his response and attention would be faked and not at the level of standards he wanted to deliver. He didn’t claim to be attracted to everyone and, as a sort of disclosure, made that known so as to not take the money of clients who might have a disappointing experience.
 
My response to that is that I’m quite glad that he does that and publicizes it. When he’s passed thru my city I’ve refrained from reaching out to him and wasting the time of both of us. I really, seriously don’t want to meet the guy even if he has no issue with webbed toes.

Agree with you two. If we are paying, they should not care. Some other poster here says he sends a pic of $100 bill and says “this is the picture you’re looking for” or similar.

There’s only 1 TenDeep and that is me. Book now

So you went to a strip club with a black guy and he gave money to non-black strippers - so your point is he should have given money to black strippers? So what?
And lately you find white guys treat black guys as disposable. You mean over the last couple of months?
I think you extrapolate too much.

I just keep asking the stripper "how many songs is that now?" by habit. Somehow doesn't ruin the mood as they are used to it. If the guy doesn't have anything in his mouth and can answer that's enough unless he gets the hint.

Every strip club I know manages to only find 2-minute songs. Maybe 3 if they're feeling generous.
 
$100 for a good long session behind the curtain with a guy is worth it.

"Only a White guy could have pulled off that degree of fakeness." - Mocha
 
Anyone who would post something like that needs to deeply within himself to try to understand how he reached the point where such fatuous generalizations could be entertained, much less posted publicly. I don't want to pick on you Mocha, but really, stop digging!

I believe Mocha is a good example of someone suffering from the Dunning–Kruger effect.

You sound a fucking mess. There is so much generalization in your text that it’s not even worth finishing. This is your experience, no one else’s.

I think the OP’s selection will be extremely limited. If you saw his interview on Trya Banks, Kurt Wild says he is straight (LTR with a woman and 4 kids!) and started in Str8 porn but switched to gay porn bc the money is 10 times better. Kurt is one of a few str8 guys who love to get fucked. So it’s not just the money! I’m not sure if he’d do BFE let alone escort and I don’t think he’s what the OP had in mind. I’d love to hire him though.
There are some str8 porn guys who turn me on big time! Hakan Serbes from 10+ years ago. Johnny Sins and Danny Mountain currently! As was posted they need to do high volume to make $. Sins has done well over a 1000 scenes in the last ten years. At 45 or so he still looks awesome.
There is a British twink with an enormous dick who does both porn as well. Can’t remember his name. I’m not sure he’d count anyway.
Regardless good luck! I think the stripper option will probably be the best.