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The pear shaped loser was in my house. You tell them to leave and call the police if they don't. Like I said I generally hire for massage...so there's no embarrassment for me to explain why this guy's in my house.

Nothing stupid about your reaction you don't know if the guy is going to come and hit you and it's not like you can cal the police
You did the right thing

You brave man.

Nothing stupid about your reaction you don't know if the guy is going to come and hit you and it's not like you can cal the police
You did the right thing

I have walked away a number of times (when I used to hire I preferred going to the escort's place) when the online representation was significantly different than reality.  I had a few dramatic moments, but I think a lot of these guys aren't so delusional that they don't understand why a client would walk away so they just take it in stride.  A few did shout at me as I walked away, though.  I certainly have gone through with more appointments where the guy isn't quite as hot as his photos would suggest but isn't so far from the truth.
 

I don't hire a lot of escorts. (More inclined toward massage pros)..but even with them, if the pix are way off, then I'm not going through with the appointment. I understand that everyone uses their best shots and sometimes you find someone lacking those abs or gaining some crows-feet. So I'm not talking about minor differences. But if you're off by ten years and 30 pounds then you're not worthy of anything but the courtesy of the words: "Sorry. This isnt gonna work".
I remember one guy asked me "what's wrong" and I said you're shaped like a pear and you're clearly a liar. The guy was at least 20 years older than his photos and hadn't seen his abs in a decade of eating cake.
Be prepared for drama, because these types are a little mental.

Wish I had. Guy I found on RM comes into my hotel room and first thing asks for his money. He was really cute, so I handed him the $200. He tickled my chest for five minutes then got up and left. I cursed at him as he walked out the door, giggling. Told RM about my experience and after a few days his ad was pulled, never to be seen again. Boy I felt stupid. I had had a weird feeling when setting up the appointment but ignored it because the dude was beautiful. Since then I have been more attentive to my hiring gaydar and as of yet have not had a repeat experience. Probably missed out on a few perfectly honest providers, but I never want to experience again that feeling of being screwed with my pants on. Live and learn. 

He told me he won't bottom despite his profile showing "versatile".  He said that only means for oral.   That was all I needed to hear.   Pass.  

I've been to Workmen's Lunch several times this year on Tuesdays and Thursdays at their midtown location. Like others have said, it tends to attract a more mature (40+) crowd and the action starts pretty quickly and ends by 1:30ish. I was there on a Thursday about 3 weeks ago and at its peak, there were about 50 guys but by 2pm, there was 10 guys left, including me.

What I like is that, usually, whenever I wasn't interested in someone, they understood and moved on.  What I didn't like is that there are the occasional guys who don't take no for an answer and if you're in the middle of something with someone, they believe they have "the right" to grope and grab you. (One particular regular comes to mind...)
I have seen some younger, in shape hot guys who have been there several times and love the "daddy" vibe. Other in shape guys of all ages have also frequented and have played with average to out of shape guys. I've seen bears, otters and gorillas (oh my!) as well as twinks and twunks. It brings in white collar workers to construction workers in the area as well as tourists.
Like a lot of these places and events, it can be hit or miss.There have been times when the vibe and action was great and other times when it completely sucked.
I've been to one of their other parties, blow buddies, twice. First time was amazing and had about 50+ guys at its peak; the second time, not so much.
In my opinion, Workmen's Lunch is worth checking out a few times if you happen to be in the area and don't want to go to one of the massage places nearby and spend a lot more than the $30 admission.

Well..yeah...that's kind of the whole idea behind a "good party."

If you look like your avatar everything you want! 

What goes on? Full sex (anal, oral) or just jerk off?

Absolutely.
But if you're older and out of shape, youre gonna get rejected by young, hot guys at the better parties. So "Workman's Lunch" provides rhe bottom feeders with more opportunity.

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My guess is its him.   He used to be online non-stop.. sex addict.   I haven't seen him for a few years, but he had a very high sex drive and was a very eager bottom.

I met him recently in NYC. He hosted in his hotel room. As has been mentioned in this thread, he’s very high-end. His pics are accurate. He’s definitely very handsome and has a great body. I had an okay time with him, not great. I’ve met multiple escorts, and like most of them, he was quite “numb” throughout the session. A lot of staring into space, a lot of silence, very mechanical and businesslike. It felt like a transaction, not like an actual hookup. But again, I’ve felt that way with most guys I’ve met. Honestly, I don’t think I’ll see him again for those reasons. But I also wouldn’t say he wasn’t worth it.

I've hired him a few times over the years and each time, he is about 20 lbs bigger.
  He is very shy in person, and very obediant.  He is def. more bottom ( and working on expanding his capacity).
If you are looking for an obediant, good looking fun bottom.. highly recommended!

Age 39 on Rentmen with no face pix.
Which means he's about 48 in real life.
 
 

Well...that was an overnight so probably enjoyed the sex but not his place. NYC is expensive so young people sometimes rent real shit-holes in marginal neighborhoods to save money.

Met him 10 Jul 2020, nice guy and looked like his pics. 
 

We have a private room. With a door 🚪.  We had a bed but most of the customers wanted a couch 🛋️. So we now have a couch. 🤷‍♂️

Does that even exist? And I don't mean a fukn closet. Like rooms with a bed for sex. If a gay stripclub ever gets one, I'll finally have a reason to go to one

So to be clear, this skiny twink wants 500$ FOR DOING NOTHING! I think that his first 100$ should be spent on mirror that works
The pathetic sad truth is that there are guys who will pay for that. No wonder there a world's employment shortage

Yesss it worked

Rugby Ben is a ball of fun. Local guy, central London, masculine, knows his way around everywhere. He's calm and cool and hilarious as hell.  Great bottom too!  Been with him a couple times and with my partner in a three way last month. Absolutely recommended.  
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