caliguy

So, nobody thinks they were soul mates?
 

As a crusty, old Texan told me many years ago, “If it flies, floats or fucks, you’re better off renting than buying”.

He should join this forum and hire from RM like we do.
Drama free and cheaper than marriage! 

If the initial offer was almost a million by Geffen then I'm sure the settlement was way higher. Enough so that he'll never have to suck another old 🍆 again. 🥳
 

He's actually 6'7. He's a sweet handsome guy with an amazing big dick.

Fuck no!
First, who the fuck are you to say that, and what proof do you have? Did we have bad apples? Yes, but some seem to forget that we were actually forced to unite against the AIDS threat because nobody cared, including the government.
Also, it'll help to put things in context. Think about all the rights that we didn't have, the way society and the media portrayed us, the way our families treated us, the way we had to hide who we are so we could do basic things like getting a job.
People see to have this convenient amnesia about how things really were back then and judge us through the lens of how things are now.
Furthermore, even if what you say is true, what's your point? Does that make it ok to be mistreated now? Is that supposed to entitle or justify what they are doing to the "community"? How does that make things look any better?

Did I hear him right? I must have missed the point he was making about how unfair it was that a 20 yo doesn't want to fuck you anymore. 

Great work, Kitty.

This American hero just donated 1000 American Airline miles to military members and their families to keep the rest of the miles he'll never use active for 24 months.
 It feels great to be such an exemplary person.

I knew it would go to...you're just bitter because you're old!
That's why the message resonates so well because it's coming from a guy most would be attracted to. He'd be anything but invisible. Maybe some just would like to see a better world where we're all welcomed and invited and not everyone worships youth. 
Honestly, I don't think you can really have a community when the common denominator is "the only ones I want around are those that I want to fuck the most". At the very least lets stop pretending it's a real community then. More like  a group brought together over common interests. 
That said I was one of very shallow and ageist in my younger days.  Hopefully I've evolved since then. 
 

I knew it would go to...you're just bitter because you're old!
That's why the message resonates so well because it's coming from a guy most would be attracted to. He'd be anything but invisible. Maybe some just would like to see a better world where we're all welcomed and invited and not everyone worships youth. 
Honestly, I don't think you can really have a community when the common denominator is "the only ones I want around are those that I want to fuck the most". At the very least lets stop pretending it's a real community then. More like  a group brought together over common interests. 
That said I was one of very shallow and ageist in my younger days.  Hopefully I've evolved since then. 
 

I knew it would go to...you're just bitter because you're old!
That's why the message resonates so well because it's coming from a guy most would be attracted to. He'd be anything but invisible. Maybe some just would like to see a better world where we're all welcomed and invited and not everyone worships youth. 
Honestly, I don't think you can really have a community when the common denominator is "the only ones I want around are those that I want to fuck the most". At the very least lets stop pretending it's a real community then. More like  a group brought together over common interests. 
That said I was one of very shallow and ageist in my younger days.  Hopefully I've evolved since then. 
 

I definitely regret being a vapid twink in my past. In hindsight, the only advantage of associating with the club's mean girls was the occasional one-night stand.
 
However, I haven't experienced much ageism because I avoid young, gay men, who aren't providers. Most providers are drawn to older men, even if those intentions aren't always genuine. Hey, everyone needs to survive somehow.
 
Unfortunately, spending time with young men throughout my life has resulted in bad habits. For instance, I wish I had an older financial guide in my youth because I'm currently staring at my falling investments in horror.

I agree with him. This so-called "community" is not a community at all. It's more divided and divisive than ever. It's like some people want to steal victimhood for the attention. They want to remove "gay" from existence and our flag as if it never existed. It's disgusting.
I don't see a community at all. The worst part is that the newer generation is trying to tell me who and what I'm supposed to be. So the can go eff themselves.

Being young is cool, profitable, and celebrated in the gay community is what he meant. 
He's talking about the gay community and how it ostracizes you after a certain age or when you no longer fit in. It's about a culture that only worships youth. 
He's right in everything he says. I just don't know what the answer is. 
 
 
 
 
 

When I was young in the 1950s, American men could be persecuted for even being perceived as homosexuals, which is why I never even heard the term "gay" until the first time I had sex with another male in 1960. In the early 1960s I knew a somewhat effeminate young man who had been arrested in a suburban area because the police thought he was cruising (he claimed he wasn't, but he was convicted anyway). Now I can be open about my sexual orientation in a public meeting, can watch openly gay men on TV, and can be legally married to another man. That's my idea of progress.

Being young is cool, profitable, and celebrated in the gay community is what he meant. 
He's talking about the gay community and how it ostracizes you after a certain age or when you no longer fit in. It's about a culture that only worships youth. 
He's right in everything he says. I just don't know what the answer is. 
 
 
 
 
 

Being young is cool, profitable, and celebrated in the gay community is what he meant. 
He's talking about the gay community and how it ostracizes you after a certain age or when you no longer fit in. It's about a culture that only worships youth. 
He's right in everything he says. I just don't know what the answer is. 
 
 
 
 
 

Being young is cool, profitable, and celebrated in the gay community is what he meant. 
He's talking about the gay community and how it ostracizes you after a certain age or when you no longer fit in. It's about a culture that only worships youth. 
He's right in everything he says. I just don't know what the answer is. 
 
 
 
 
 

I couldn't say because I don't know who that is. I came across this and thought worth sharing because I share his sentiment and have experienced this from the "community" myself. I'll let you know if I find out who he is.   

Truth Be Said Us Older Gay Men.mp4

That was a tough crowd. Then again looking at the heavy make up and stretched faces in the crowd it would be hard to tell if someone was laughing. 
Also I didn't even realize that soaps were still a thing. God. Took me back to Days of our lives, Gen Hospital, etc watching them with Mom and/or Grandma as a kid. 

If one could create a venn diagram of members that like Kathy Griffin and also like daytime dramas, it would probably be just me and perhaps only one other.  
So I will share this YouTube video here, of Kathy G. hosting the Daytime Emmy awards.
Enjoy it, OP Sam Hexum!