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this is a very interesting situation. As a 65 year old man of size - I describe myself in my first communication with a provider - as such 65 yr old blonde bear 120KG clean shaven looking for ....... a 2 hour meeting on Tuesday night if you can host that would be great ..... First up it gives them to opportunity to say no - it won't work, or ghost me, or start a conversation along the lines of that works for me, I note your interest in bondage or ws etc and go from there. When I am hiring I don't care how they act as long as they get into it - satisfy my needs and its a cordial pleasant meeting. Equally if I am in an expensive restaurant I want the waiter to tell me what the side dishes are, his recommendations and share his knowledge about the French burgundy I am considering ordering - does it go with the fish etc (and we know red does not normally ). Its a service I am paying for and I expect the provider to be able to provide a good meeting based on ABC and D and do it with a smile on his face, some sexy sounds of appreciation and groans when he cums. The provider has chosen his line of work - the rest does not matter to me. Because of my approach and vetting I am rarely disappointed

Me too - anytime you want to - but I am guessing we are different continents ......... my nips are standing to attention and my balls are quivering just thinking of it ........

I guess you always have a belt with you. - so you could spank my ass in any situation...... not just when we are in the playroom ...... when you might use the belt and a flogger and a paddle - and alternate - my skin is tingling just thinking about it

I had a sensational massage with a happy ending, in Sydney many years ago. As I was undressing he sat down and put on some advanced running shoes, he said it wasn't a kink, he had been suffering from some back issues, and was advised by his medical team to wear shoes while massaging, his back issued went away. Apart from the occasional glimpse of his feet or footwear if your eyes are open when he passes by your head, the shoes make no difference to your enjoyment. Many masseurs start with shorts or underwear on which they remove at some stage during the massage, and suddenly you become aware of it ........ works for me

sounds great - I am sure this would be an amazing discussion -- what are your fantasies - and congrats on discovering men - I have never been with a woman - but men are amazing

Haha - he is such a wonderful husband - he's not for sale. - and no one could afford him ......

My husband and I started planning out retirement about 15 years before we made the change. I can remember asking the question - once when we were on vacation - "what do you see retirement being " ? the response was 'living like this" we then had a checklist of all the things we needed to be able to access in retirement. close to a beach close to An airport close to an alternative transport option great medical facilities some culture . I knew that we needed to move out of Sydney (big city) to make the most of the difference in property prices. I was on vacation when I found where we live now. I did lots of research. I sold my husband on what I had found. The pandemic stopped us discovering it for a year or two. Some things happened in my husband's workplace - and covid made us speed up the process. We found what we wanted off the plan, put a 1K refundable deposit down and went home to renovate and sell our Sydney home. So start with your wish list and work it out from there ..... Take your time - as the rest of your life has to be almost perfect

Booking.com has always been a go to for comparing nights. Recently I joined a travel club which can give me up to 82 % of the rate offered on Booking.com. Not every booking but I have seen some great rates. Life is always about finding the improvements

I live in Australia and travel - I find that RM works best, although some places do have a more local source. Australia has a site called Locanto - which you can find some male massages and maybe more - search male massage or male escorts for men a simple google search or chatgpt search should answer that for you

Well yes it maybe cruel, but its better to be rejected when you make the first enquiry rather than be rejected at the door (and that has happened). I like to find a solution to every problem. Problem is as a larger man - not everyone is attracted to you - but then everyone regardless of their physic is not attractive to everyone. When I hire I want bang for my buck - if its not a fit - its not a fit and I would prefer to not waste time on those who are not a fit. Is it cruel to go shopping for something you want - say a car - and finding the one that really suits you - are the other cars you reject suffering because the process of elimination is cruel. Jay-lucas I thank you for your empathy - but I do not see it as cruel, its part of the due diligence you should do when you hire someone. I have had escorts tell me that I am a great client as I am respectful, honest about what I want - show up on time and pay the agreed amount (here in Australia tipping is not part of our culture, but sometimes I tip) but the greatest compliment you can give an escort is hiring them again

Yeah it was certainly one of those hirings that stays in the wank bank ..... It was not quite what I expected but totally enjoyable

I had an interesting threesome - I had been checking out a hot provider in my town (he no longer advertises. He was definitely a hot leather man master , we set up a time and my instructions were to arrive at a st corner ring him and he would provide directions. I was also directed to have the fee in my right side pocket. Arrived at the intersection rang, got told to go to a roller garage door. - slide it up, walk inside, turn around slide the garage door down and stand with my hands above my head facing the garage door. I did - and heard his footsteps - and them the feel of is body pressed against mine. He removed my glasses, slipped a eye mask over my eyes and told me to follow him. I ended up in a room with him, still blind folded, although I could see a little out the bottom of the eye mask. we had some conversation, we had already talked about what I wanted and limits etc. he then said he had not mentioned that he had a hot blonde Russian body builder as a slave and was I happy for him to join it. Of course I said yes, He said - Ok will go and get him. I could hear the conversation, basically yes he is happy for you to join in. So in comes the two of them, master fully clothed in boots jeans and a harness under a leather jacket, studly slave naked except for a collar. I was ordered to do various fun activities like kiss the slave, bit his nipples, play with his cock, suck his cock, then the play turned to the master who wanted his cock sucked , some spanking and flogging continued, with what I could not take the slave getting, It was a hot session ended up with a wild sharing of hot loads. Sometimes you just have to go with the flow - this one worked out and was excellent. I had another with two hot escorts in Melbourne, I had contacted both of them separately and had some detailed conversations with the more kinkier one first, but I was very attracted to the physical appearance of the second. The second one mentioned that he did 3 sums with number 1 so I explored that option. Number 2 said he was not very kinky but when he was in a 3sum with number 1 he got more kinky than he usually was. So the night happened, I was in Melbourne and staying at the Gatehouse - a guesthouse with 2 sling rooms that you could rent for the night, or hours, I was staying there. That night was more than I could have hopped for, as both men were sexy, in different ways and we had lots of fun, and they had some fun with each other too. That one will be a repeat sometime. Try it - the real secret is communication.

I am a large chub /bear. I always ask the question when speaking with a potential escort, I describe my height and weight and ask if they are good with it. Some have said - no we are not a fit and that cool. Others have been fine - and they are the men who get my $. I have to say honesty works and I rarely have a session where I don't enjoy myself. However that poster who gave such amazing advice like, loose weight, stop hiring is just an ass. Providers if they can manage us earn a lot from us, as we are unlikely to get picked up in a bar or at a bathhouse. So we choose to hire ......

We did a world cruise earlier this year 2025, starting from Southampton UK and returning there. My husband who lived in the USA for 13 years, and had a valid green card then!! At New Yorks Brooklyn cruise terminal he was pulled into secondary, because on the front screen the officer could see a valid green card (sic) and a valid esta. Now a green card becomes invalid after 12 months absence from the USA. Husband left in 1988 and had never returned. The officer at secondary stated that their systems are old and clunky - think DOS After digging down thru various screens he found the green card expiry date, and it showed as expired. Asked a few questions about why he left the USA in 1988 and returned to his native Australia, and said he would put some notes on the system explaining all of the above BUT to expect to be sent to Secondary on every entry to the USA. After cruising to Colombia, Panama Canal, Mexico we arrived in San Francisco, same situation - but a bit easier. My side thought was if the Immigration system is so damm clunky how does ICE work out who is illegal or overstaying? Talking about biometrics, we met two beautiful men from Palm Springs who did San Francisco to Southampton. They mentioned they were not going to get off the ship during out 2 day visit to Singapore as they feared the biometric systems being used in Singapore. Photos and fingerprints ...... I said well we do that evertime we go into the USA, and did you see the cameras when we got off the ship in Hong Kong, almost every country is doing photos and fingerprints. They were very surprised to discover that what they feared was being used in the USA but not for citizens. BIG Brother is everywhere the only issue is how they use the data .

I certainly love a good spanking - but I am in Australia so cannot help out