natmas02

This is absolutely insane lol no, don't send letters to people asking to hire them for escorting. Leave strangers alone if they are not communicating with you. 

I saw him in Houston - very much like his pics but shorter. Very handsome and muscular body. 
 

great time but he has very limited English which I think is why people have a hard time getting to him. He also lived out in Houston suburbs so the drive to inner loop can be huge pain depending on the time. 

Just saw him tonight. Started off good and then ended badly. 
 

- handsome and great body, but the pics are definitely outdated. He looks older but still good. 
 

- very enthusiastic and was friendly during. 
 

Then came the finale lol. We agreed on three hours and he packed up his clothes and left at 1 hour and 46 minutes. When I asked him about the final hour he just said “sometimes we just end early” which was not the case on my end. I paid upfront (which I know - it’s a no no on here). He then ran off to avoid speaking to me at the end and then blocked me when I texted him amicably if there was a way to work it out. 
 

oh well. Lesson learned. 

Gorgeous guy. I’m betting he’s charging 4-500 an hour for muscle worship lol but good for him if he gets it. 

3 hours ago, thedanNYC said:

So he gave you what you paid for, but your experience soured anyway? Maybe he was trying to keep it moving so that he could move on to giving someone else what they were paying for, on time. Some of y'all are hard to please.

or since the normal rates nowadays are 3/400 dollars an hour, providers should and can afford to have a ten minute break in between sessions to clean up real quick and get ready for the next client.

I'm not asking him to stay way over his agreed time (and if that happens I properly tip well or adjust the payment based on the agreed rate) but if I'm doing an incall I am always fully dressed and out the door within a few minutes. If it's an outcall to me then do a quick shower right when the hour is up and then get dressed and head out as I'm also gladly paying for his uber/lyft back to their hotel or to the next client. Just like any other job, there's set up time you don't get paid for in order to get ready to work. I essentially paid $50 for him to shower and get ready to go. There's plenty of other great escorts that don't do that. 

I just saw him in DC in Thursday evening. Absolutely stunning in person - very much looks like his photos and very handsome. However, he's a clock watcher and has a hard out when the time is done - when :50 on the clock hit he got up and started to get dressed and left when the hour hit. I still had fun but that kind of soured at the end. 

I just looked - his ad shows up on my side of rentmen in DC still

I saw him Friday night in DC, I think he’s based in Boston. I had a great time - he is tall and had a hot nerd/jock vibe going on and great sense of humor. I’d hire him again. He’s in town until Monday.

He’s newish to escorting so I don’t think he understood how the profile name changes were a red flag. I think he just had a hard time settling on a name lol

I saw him Friday night in DC, I think he’s based in Boston. I had a great time - he is tall and had a hot nerd/jock vibe going on and great sense of humor. I’d hire him again. He’s in town until Monday.

He’s newish to escorting so I don’t think he understood how the profile name changes were a red flag. I think he just had a hard time settling on a name lol

He used to advertise under a different name (which i forget what it was) but I remember he had positive reviews from members of this form.

Uh - I thought he got married to a guy last year or two years ago? Jeez.

He's taking a break from RM because he can't keep up with the messages. He's only one person - and it also doesn't help that people on here go straight to "fuck him, he's ignoring me" instead of remembering he's highly in demand and he can only do so much to keep up with all of his inquiries.

lol so we're using this forum to post fantasies now?

Ad's real. Hire him while you can!

I’m sure he avoided this post when he saw how hot a fucking mess it turned into like everything else on here.

Yeaaaah - I don't know how this post devolved to this level, but both of y'all need to chill.

So he's coming back soon - He got in touch with me the other day and gave me permission to post. He's planning on coming back to Adonis in LA in April or May and start seeing clients again soon. He just had to take a break from the biz. You guys better start waiting in line.

It went OK. He is a VERY nice guy and has a body that would stop traffic. He was a great kisser and he bottomed for me. But to be honest I don’t think I would hire him again. He was not very aggressive and I had to initiate most of the action. I expected more for $350 an hour. Not my normal experience when hiring a porn star.

Thanks for taking one for the team. In his porn scenes with Lucas he doesn’t seem particularly aggressive either so I’m not surprised.

I’m going to temper the worship session with a dose of “other viewpoint” reality. Yes he’s a sweet guy with a very nice personality. Nothing fake about him. But when I saw him my dick went limp. He’s a bit older than my usual hires and with a deep “straight man” type voice (even though he’s of course gay) and bodybuilder build. A bit older and very straight acting (think wrestler) bodybuilder will appeal to most guys on here as exemplified by the near universal adulation of him. He has such a great personality that I could imagine hanging out with him on a friend level. But I had zero physical attraction to him. (I’m not attracted to the body builder build).

 

Of course no one can be everything to everybody. Just voicing the other perspective. His appeal isn’t for everyone no matter how great it is for most. And that’s no swipe at him—no one can appeal to everyone. But he wasn’t for me.

Why did you hire him if you're not attracted to his body type? Makes no sense.

https://rentmasseur.com/MasseurIan

Ian is strictly therapeutic (although he does the massage naked and he is extremely handsome with an amazing body) not MT, not HE. But he is trained and does a great job.

He was advertising for the past couple years on m4rn. He just decided recently to drop it and get on rentmen.

 

Exact for a brief sabbatical... he never left.

Do you know what hiatus means? I never said he left escorting. His m4rn ad was down for several months and he was not advertising.

https://rent.men/TristanGaul

After a long hiatus from advertising, he's back in the DC area. One of the best bottoms with an awesome body to boot.

I know the chorus of "the client is always right" has chimed in, and what I'm about to say is going to go against the grain. From what you've written, I fully understand why the scort would be apprehensive. These guys are in a precarious situation. They face the prospect of being set up for prosecution, they get calls/messages/emails from all sorts of people who will never follow through, but think they're entitled to know intimate sexual details, often just because knowing those details get them off. I interpret what he wrote to you as sincere, thoughtful, and, dare I say, bordering on kind. He's tried to accommodate your issues. No need to trash him.

I agree with you up to a point. I think that the escort could have just said "I apologize for not replying back to your texts, but I've been having trouble with a high number of strange communications the past few days and I am currently not using texting. Would you like to set up a meet? I can communicate via email" to get the point across without going into venting. Venting about other clients or issues with booking other clients is a big faux pas if the escort is actually talking to a serious client. Most clients don't want to hear about other clients.

But I can appreciate the honesty. And his venting was in a respectful manner. I think in this situation it's just poor communication skills on both the client and escort lol.

The downside of seeing a regular often over time is that familiarity can sour what was once a totally satisfying relationship. The sex can become mechanical, routine and no longer exciting. After numerous meetings, you're bound to learn much about each other's personal lives, which tends to destroy the fantasy aspect of what hiring an escort is all about.

You got a point, but I don't think learning about each other personally is a downside (unless the escort is a hot mess in his personal life or if the client starts developing romantic feelings) and like everything, it varies client to client. Escorting is about connections after all - a lot of just want the sexual connection but there's also the whole "boyfriend experience" that a lot of us hire for both sex and emotional connection with another person as well.

I think at some point in having a regular you're going to end up having to talk about your real life after a period of time, you can only shoot the shit and talk about mundane stuff for so long before it gets even more mechanical.

When you find a regular and you are satisfied by the repeat experience, there is nothing better. That is my preference. You have to make sure the boundaries that your are both comfortable with are in place for a repeat - I've had some unfortunate experiences where those boundaries were not respected and it soured the relationships. You can probably guess what I am referring to; becomes too clingy, becomes entitled, etc.

@KeepItReal I had a bad situation with a regular who became extremely entitled. We started off great and then he would ask for money in advance to help pay for bills, etc as he stopped advertising and would put it towards our future time and then unfortunately he took advantage of me and I got burned. It was a very expensive lesson learned for me - at the end of the day, we can enjoy each other's company all we want but it's still a business transaction.