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15 hours ago, viewing ownly said:

It used to be when people wanted a good recommendation, some information was given as to what they are looking for, be it body type, race, height, and so on.

I'm seeing lately far too many people just throwing out random cities - big ones - and asking for who the best person is without knowing at all any kind of simple details to be able to offer up some help. 

In the meccas, there really is someone for everyone. In Minot, for example, you may have to settle for whoever is breathing. 

and yet in NYC we constantly here complaints about the lack of enough service providers.

When an escort advertises as a top "why doesn't he bottom?" or when says that "for this he only bottoms", "why doesn't he top?".

OP note: she's doing nothing but drawing more attention to her relationship with natives!

“I paint the world as I see it,” Namatjira said, in response to Reinhart’s reported attempts to have her portrait taken down, in a statement shared with TIME by the NGA on Thursday. “People don’t have to like my paintings, but I hope they take the time to look and think, ‘why has this Aboriginal bloke painted these powerful people? What is he trying to say?’” 

“I paint people who are wealthy, powerful, or significant—people who have had an influence on this country, and on me personally, whether directly or indirectly, whether for good or for bad,” he said.

1 hour ago, maninsoma said:

I find that when I sit down, the area around my ankles shows.  Not that that means people are looking, but that part of one's leg is visible unless one wears pants that are so long that they still cover the top of one's shoes while sitting.

If they are walking by or even if they are seated they're not looking either.

An escort friend told me: "the 2 best things about aging are the accumulation of money and the increasing number of young/er guys". 

On 5/5/2024 at 7:56 PM, augustus said:

It is astonishing how people believe the propaganda that inflation is the result of the greedy farmers and the greedy businessmen and supply side disruptions and whatever crap is told them.  Inflation is caused by excess money printing to finance large government deficits and it continues unabated to this day.  

I remember once we had a surplus... After that 8 years of spending like a drunk sailor... 

Did we try to print our way out of Covid-19? Wasn't that in 2020?

26 minutes ago, maninsoma said:

This is a stupid thing to be concerned about.  Are there really that many people looking at the type of socks other people wear?  I can tell you that I don't even notice someone's shoes or socks unless there is something unusual that calls attention to them.

I used to wear ankle socks a lot about 20 years ago (when I was 40-ish), but I have almost exclusively worn ankle socks for the past decade.  This isn't due to chasing a trend but rather more to do with feeling okay about wearing the same socks when doing things other than exercising.  I do think it looks weird to wear ankle socks with long pants, particularly in an office environment.

I really doubt that most men over 40 are wearing ankle socks.  Haven't crew socks been more-or-less the norm for a long time?

with long pants nobody will notice what kind of socks you're wearing in the office. 

I wear both types of socks with shorts and long (normal) socks with pants. 

16 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

Hideous.

It looks like his head is swimming in afterbirth.

 

28 minutes ago, Danny-Darko said:

While I agree with you that ideally it would be nice to have sex with somebody that is attracted to guys, in reality at least in my case, it puts them in the same position as you mention the "bi" guys. Because most gay gays don't want to have sex with old out of shape men. So even if they are same sex attracted that doesn't help me any. So the bi/gay4pay thing is not an issue for me. 

Especially when it comes to the BFE. 

1 hour ago, pubic_assistance said:

Most of the guys who have sex for money aren't actually into it.

Gay or bi.

I would suggest that 50% of your bisexual hires were gay4pay and not actually bisexual. ( I know it's a blurry line ).

Agreed!

Besides some guys claim to be bi because some clients see that as more masculine.

On 5/11/2024 at 9:39 PM, Rick M said:

I don't want to sound unfair or damning by categorization, but a recent experience leads me to revisit the subject of my sexual compatibility with guys who call themselves straight vs. bi vs. gay. First of all, my own encounters have forced me to conclude that straight men cannot pull off a convincing scene with gay men--it's a wasted effort when they try to emulate a level of intimacy greater than posing, looking pretty, or getting their cocks sucked. A real difficulty arises in judging bisexuals... Unless one has done the deed with a bi individual, one can't predict how rewarding a fuck will be.

The data I've accumulated suggests a flake rate of roughly 50%. Sure, there are gay providers who are flaky (unreliable, not in the moment), but I get the sense from them that they are having a bad day, or they are fried from drugs. Half the bi guys I've met exhibit deep-seated, perpetual wishy-washiness: they want your money, but can't bring themselves to put in the grunt work to earn it. Latest example: a simple request for phone sex. The provider set up a time, then canceled. Renegotiated, then postponed over and over. Came up with excuses involving his dog or muddling his massage appointments. I had to give up on him. There are hints in his RM profile and related media that he is more of a ladies' man, anyway. 

Therefore, in the future I will be scrutinizing and (if I can) screening any prospective escort, for either a physical or virtual engagement, who lists that nebulous middle ground as his orientation.

My sincere apologies to any dualists reading this who take pride in satisfying their own sex.

23 minutes ago, SouthOfTheBorder said:

the same, but different 

Lauren Sanchez - 2024, White House State Dinner for Japan 

Somehow reminds me of:

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12 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

I read the list of closings.

It's interesting to note that there's a duality to the types of communities they are pulling out of.

Firstly and more obviously they are exiting a lot of struggling middle class communities..but interestingly they are also pulling out of several upper income communities. I am guessing those locations struggle because there is too much competition from ACTUAL seafood restaurants. The others are simply a victim of the collapse of the middle class in the United States.

Great analysis!

Red Lobster is closing nearly 50 restaurants. Here's where they're located.

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The struggling restaurant chain is moving to cut costs by shuttering restaurants in 21 states.

On 5/12/2024 at 11:41 PM, francisssgorg said:

Ok, so I'm not really a grindr user, probably only for less than a year now. I just started using it since when I moved here in the US. Finding hook ups is hard especially to an asian guy like me. And I'm the type of person who doesn't send face pic for two reasons: first, I'm paranoid about everything concerning privacy. Even if it's like an expiring photo or something. And second, I have a lot of body insecurities, from head to toe. 

So, finding somebody who would agree to meet up anonymously is like very rare. And I chatted with this one guy who seems to have a decent description in his profile and he's black. I've never had a BBC before so like my excitement is through the roof. My first rookie mistake that day was agreeing to meet up in his place and not mine. My thoughts are like, what if he's a scammer or thief that can rob me? Somethin like that. So he told me his address, and when I got there, it seems like your typical grandparent's house. When I saw him, he looks decent and like your typical bear body type. So when he saw me, he didn't say anything at all, he just signaled me to keep quiet and go straight upstairs. That means he lives in his parent's house.... And ok I entered the door, which btw is unhinged from the wall, and I saw this horrific dumpster like garbage everywhere. It seems like a college dorm room x10000 omg... He said sorry for all the mess and I was pretending to be ok. But it's like a huge turn off for me. Luckily when he undressed, that's when I saw his huge snake, like porn like dick. I'm afraid that I couldn't DT it. I'm a side btw. And it's directly posted in my profile that at most, I do everything except anal, receiving and especially giving. I discussed it with him prior, but still, black guy like him with that kind of dong, must have high hopes at the back of my mind. When I first sucked his dck, it had an unpleasant taste to it, but I kept thinking that I dreamed about trying a black dck before so I should just suck it up, literally. He said I should undress too so he could suck my dck, but I said it's really asian size, and I wasn't getting hard because of all the mess.. So when he saw it, he kinda got disappointed. My personality is, I'm a people pleaser, so when I saw his face, I just suddenly offered to do more kinky stuff like rimming him... So he turned around and he had a really huge ass, like you could really get suffocated. And yes, I tasted sh*t, and almost gagged.... Oh god, I said to him, can you maybe wash your down there for a bit.... So he went to the bathroom and when he got back and I continued rimming him, it still tastes like sht mixed with like an old spice cologne or something. Then I asked him, did you put something in there? And he said he used an old spice type of body wash..... Oh god, I just said to him, maybe you could turn around so I could continue sucking his dick.... Luckily, I think my mouth already got rid of all the musty odor and weird taste from his dck, so like back to a regular tasting dck. Yeah, then he probably got turned on by that so he started forcing me verbally to be anally fckd. It was like a good 15 mins before he gave up... I mean, even if I agree, hypothetically, to get drilled that day, a lot of messy stuff had already been done that was kinda of a turn off for me. So I went back to sucking his dck and him watching a porn in his phone, when all of a sudden, his phone rang, I think it was like the bank calling him and literally the girl on the other line said he had to pay like a negative balance or something from his credit card, which he declared missing. After the call ended, he started kissing me and asked if he could borrow some money for me... At this point I thought, I might get beaten up if I wouldn't give him any money. But I said, I just paid my bills and had sent money to my parents etc... He was asking as well if he could live in my place temporarily, which I said is impossible because I have a roommate... So he went back to concentrating on his porn and me getting him off. After that, he insisted to cuddle and started asking me again about borrowing some money, which at this point, I just made up some stories just so he could get the hint that I am not gonna lend him anything. When I went home, we just texted our good byes with each other and all that thank you stuff but like 3 days later, he texted if he could meet up again. Btch I blockd him.. I can't. We both got disappointed. 

First of all thank you for being honest!

Now.... you need some tough love. It's time to man up and face the world out there in person or through the apps. Get some selfies, someone out there wants you and you want him. 

10 hours ago, SouthOfTheBorder said:

thanks for reminding me why I don’t use the hookup apps.  

it seems like for the hours & hours guys spend on those apps - they are relatively few good outcomes.  and yet, everyone is up to give it another shot, expecting something different ? 

I agree but the chances of a good outcome depend also in how you look and what kind of expectations you have about those who want to have free sex with you.

I also don't use apps, that's why I hire.

9 hours ago, ShortCutie7 said:

The waste of time (and phone storage) is why I deleted Grindr a few weeks ago and Scruff a few months ago… just not worth it. 

Even younger in shape guys realize it's a waste of time or just a matter of getting lucky, I know guys who only use it while on a trip, the chances of getting laid are way better than at home. 

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1 hour ago, Wanderoz said:

I'm sure I've seen these photos before under another name, but can't recall it.  States he's East Euro. Anyone have info or experience?

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5 hours ago, Frankcal said:

I see side as different from oral. Do I have this wrong?

3 hours ago, 56harrisond said:

 

 

As Jamie21 noted up thread, Side is more encompassing than just oral, oral is a part of it.

3 hours ago, MikeBiDude said:

You may not have it wrong…but the urban dictionary link clearly included “fellatio”. My understanding is everything vanilla leading up to but excluding penetration.

Kissing., cuddling and oral....

45 minutes ago, Simon Suraci said:

I love fat bastard! He needs a show of his own!

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1 hour ago, KeepItReal said:

I guess that is possible. Have been a condom user for many (many!) years and as long as you stick to newer, thinner condoms in the right size, the sensation is almost exactly the same.  Went bare for about a year while in a mutually committed monogamous relationship and did not find the experience enhancing or better in any way. 

Of course CutlerX can charge what he wants - but will be a hard sell on me. Just like a recent companion who wanted to charge extra for kissing. Sorry, not this customer. 

I can't stand À la carte escorts either. 

On 5/5/2024 at 7:28 AM, FrankR said:

I dont understand - how does a condom require more effort? 
I thought bare required more effort (aka clean up after). 🤔

it requires more effort to keep it up.

CutlerX asked a forum poster $100 extra to wear a condom.