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20 minutes ago, mtaabq said:

All right. Well, that’s good to know. Thank you. 

an escort who contributes on here got arrested for prostitution in 2004. I know of other cases. 

7 minutes ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

Same here

It might be safe(r)for clients. I guess they usually arrest escorts. 

3 minutes ago, mtaabq said:

I’m genuinely interested in the 3 areas you mention. Are you saying we have to be more careful in those areas? Why is that? What should we be watching for?  I’ve never had an issue in Vegas, but I am using the internet and staying in hotels considered a bit more “upscale” and secure. What is it specifically that we need to be aware of in Oklahoma? Thanks for anything that you can add. 

I know plenty of folks who got arrested in Vegas!

in your place I simply wouldn't hire in those cities. 

1 minute ago, pubic_assistance said:

Well...no.

Thats not what I said. 

I said that trans people arent necessarily homosexual so they aren't part of the LGB community. There are men who are cross dressers but straight and Trans people who identify as heterosexual because they switched their gender so they wouldn't be considered gay. 

This is too much for me!

I remember a time with only 2 genders and then I realized I was one of "the gays"....

53 minutes ago, BOZO T CLOWN said:

touché @pubic_assistance !
Bozo has read hundreds, if not thousands, of your posts. You speak your mind in a clear, concise, and thoughtful manner. It may irritate a few because your views aren't in 100% in sync with theirs so they target you with the scarlet letter H.  Too bad...  for them. 
Bozo has never read anything you have written that could in any way be construed as homophobic or homophobic leaning. Not even close.

And to respond to the remark that "our community is under attack", the gay community has never been more diverse, vibrant, and alive. No gay person that Bozo knows shares that opinion. Bozo isn't a victim and he doesn't play the victim card. But that's a discussion for another thread.

BTC
🤡

Yes, we gay men are financially savvier by default, believe in personal responsibility, turning our friends into our own family if not accepted by them, move from a small town to a bigger city to pursue happiness, etc. 

I'm proud to be one of those who helped gentrified the city and brought back Logan Circle.

4 hours ago, coriolis888 said:

My final contribution to this matter is to copy what I just found on Google with respect to legal various states having different criminal laws for those who fail to disclose their HIV status:

It can be illegal and result in felony charges in many US states for an HIV-positive person to solicit sex as a prostitute and claim they are HIV-negative, even if no transmission occurs. This is because some states have laws that criminalize HIV non-disclosure, especially in the context of sex work. 

 

Elaboration:

• HIV Criminalization: 

  Many states have laws that criminalize the transmission or exposure of HIV, or the failure to disclose one's HIV-positive status to a sexual partner. 

   
• Felony Charges: 

  In some jurisdictions, engaging in sex work while HIV-positive can elevate a prostitution charge to a felony, regardless of whether HIV is transmitted. 

   
• Intent to Deceive: 

  Claiming to be HIV-negative while soliciting sex, even if not explicitly intending to transmit the virus, can be seen as an attempt to deceive and defraud, which can be a separate charge. 

   
• No Intent Element: 

  Some felony solicitation statutes do not require any intent to transmit HIV or any activity that could transmit the virus. 

   
• Aggravated Prostitution: 

  Some states have specific "aggravated prostitution" laws that criminalize sex work by someone who knows they are HIV-positive. 

   
• Potential for Severe Penalties: 

  Depending on the jurisdiction, these charges can result in significant prison sentences, even if no transmission occurred. 

   
• Varying Laws: 

  It is important to note that laws regarding HIV non-disclosure and its criminalization vary significantly by state. 

Thanks for the information!

I wonder if nowadays when there's a pill and an injection to prevent HIV those laws might be considered obsolete especially among gay men. 

8 hours ago, BrickBuilder said:

I have not been on this site for a bit because of the "Mean Girl" / "Toxic" attitudes here.  When I logged out I used other phrases but I will go with these.  Members attacking other members or providers...just sad.   But a friend sent me the link this thread to me and I immediately burst out laughing.  

So I will name the mean girls (see below).  Members that feel they have the "right to make you provide gory details" if you disagree with them, or through subtle jabs take aim at you, or come after you with the reactions.  All the while proclaiming their innocence or posting about "theoretical situations" or using CoM as their own personal Facebook pages or commenting negatively on providers that they have never met and hired.   Then when you reach out to the moderators they don't even acknowledge that you contacted them (plausible deniability I am sure).

Ali Gator - Mean Girl

PhileasFogg - Mean Girl

Public Assistance - Mean Girl

Vegas Millennial - Mean Girl

Archangel - Mean Girl

+ all the other members that attack provider's weight or build or or height or hair or age or tattoos or anything else they don't like about him.  Or attack a members view or opinion that is stated in more plain or generic terms or without the gory details.

Your turn.

@Ali Gator I appreciate his contributions about "show business" (I wonder if the term is still in use), his "venting" about working with millennials, and the details of his interactions with masseurs. Certainly, working guys COULD learn a lot just by reading him.

@pubic_assistance is always honest about his opinions, life, businesses, appearance, hookups/hires, family, etc. He's consistent!

@Vegas_Millennial is also honest and shares good information about business and his MANY encounters with escorts. He could write a book about his sexual life.... 

I constantly disagreed with the last 2 members above on a certain subject that we can't talk about anymore in this forum, but they were around 80% factually right in their arguments and that's saying a lot about the other side. 

@PhileasFogg and @Archangel I don't know much about them, I usually agree with them.