BenjaminNicholas

I believe that an escort has the ethical obligation to reveal their HIV status as a client has to reveal any relevant medical condition they might have (including HIV). It prepares everyone for the experience. Actually, and I am not sure if this could happen in the real world, would an escort look up a particular medical condition so they know the basics and feel more comfortable with the client. As a client I always make sure I make sure I tell what the relevant facts are and what a working guy should do in particular situations regarding the medical condition. It also makes me more comfortable. The only problem I always have is when exactly to present the facts.

You mean just one shot (squeeze) and just like Guy you’re good for the whole day?
 
 

 
Gman

Actually, don't ever do that. Constant body heat and pressure of sitting on a wallet is as bad for a condom as using a petroleum-based lube.
 
Other advice here has been solid: Find a doc you can speak openly with, get on PrEP, find your comfort level from there on out. While there's no 100% risk-free way to have sex in this particular day and age, you can make sensible choices to limit problems. It sounds as if you're on the right track.

I hear his hair is insured for $10,000
 
I hear he does car commercials... IN JAPAN.
 
One time, he met John Stamos on a plane and he told him he was pretty.
 

Respectfuly, I do not think this is good advice. @cautious needs to move on, instead of stalking the guy.

It's not that you shouldn't get attached. It's that you need better judgement as to who to get attached to.
 
When you keep lobbing a tennis ball to a partner who doesn't return the serve, that says everything. You're chasing him, but clearly he's not returning the favor. If I were in your shoes, I'd stop communicating entirely and see what he does: That will tell you everything you need to know.
 
I get wanting that special connection. We're human and unless you're a completely damaged person, we're wired to want to find a common ground and mate. As others have already suggested, don't let this keep you from moving forward.

I hear his hair is insured for $10,000
 
I hear he does car commercials... IN JAPAN.
 
One time, he met John Stamos on a plane and he told him he was pretty.
 

I hear his hair is insured for $10,000
 
I hear he does car commercials... IN JAPAN.
 
One time, he met John Stamos on a plane and he told him he was pretty.
 

I hear his hair is insured for $10,000
 
I hear he does car commercials... IN JAPAN.
 
One time, he met John Stamos on a plane and he told him he was pretty.
 

I hear his hair is insured for $10,000
 
I hear he does car commercials... IN JAPAN.
 
One time, he met John Stamos on a plane and he told him he was pretty.
 

I hear his hair is insured for $10,000
 
I hear he does car commercials... IN JAPAN.
 
One time, he met John Stamos on a plane and he told him he was pretty.
 

I hear his hair is insured for $10,000
 
I hear he does car commercials... IN JAPAN.
 
One time, he met John Stamos on a plane and he told him he was pretty.
 

I hear his hair is insured for $10,000
 
I hear he does car commercials... IN JAPAN.
 
One time, he met John Stamos on a plane and he told him he was pretty.
 

A little squeeze on the right spots and you're nearly back to virgin status...
 
http://limeschopped.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/item-lemon-wedges.png

A little squeeze on the right spots and you're nearly back to virgin status...
 
http://limeschopped.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/item-lemon-wedges.png

It's not that you shouldn't get attached. It's that you need better judgement as to who to get attached to.
 
When you keep lobbing a tennis ball to a partner who doesn't return the serve, that says everything. You're chasing him, but clearly he's not returning the favor. If I were in your shoes, I'd stop communicating entirely and see what he does: That will tell you everything you need to know.
 
I get wanting that special connection. We're human and unless you're a completely damaged person, we're wired to want to find a common ground and mate. As others have already suggested, don't let this keep you from moving forward.

It's not that you shouldn't get attached. It's that you need better judgement as to who to get attached to.
 
When you keep lobbing a tennis ball to a partner who doesn't return the serve, that says everything. You're chasing him, but clearly he's not returning the favor. If I were in your shoes, I'd stop communicating entirely and see what he does: That will tell you everything you need to know.
 
I get wanting that special connection. We're human and unless you're a completely damaged person, we're wired to want to find a common ground and mate. As others have already suggested, don't let this keep you from moving forward.

A little squeeze on the right spots and you're nearly back to virgin status...
 
http://limeschopped.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/item-lemon-wedges.png

It's not that you shouldn't get attached. It's that you need better judgement as to who to get attached to.
 
When you keep lobbing a tennis ball to a partner who doesn't return the serve, that says everything. You're chasing him, but clearly he's not returning the favor. If I were in your shoes, I'd stop communicating entirely and see what he does: That will tell you everything you need to know.
 
I get wanting that special connection. We're human and unless you're a completely damaged person, we're wired to want to find a common ground and mate. As others have already suggested, don't let this keep you from moving forward.

Some people just don’t have the communications skills/confidence, especially when serious things need to get discussed. Unfortunately a huge portion of society would stick their heads in the sound and “ghost” when things get sticky.
 

This, good advice. Most times my attachment judgment is impeccable, other times well.....
 
P.S. and yes don’t beat yourself up

I don't trust a gay man who can't properly spell Baccarat
 

It's not that you shouldn't get attached. It's that you need better judgement as to who to get attached to.
 
When you keep lobbing a tennis ball to a partner who doesn't return the serve, that says everything. You're chasing him, but clearly he's not returning the favor. If I were in your shoes, I'd stop communicating entirely and see what he does: That will tell you everything you need to know.
 
I get wanting that special connection. We're human and unless you're a completely damaged person, we're wired to want to find a common ground and mate. As others have already suggested, don't let this keep you from moving forward.

It's not that you shouldn't get attached. It's that you need better judgement as to who to get attached to.
 
When you keep lobbing a tennis ball to a partner who doesn't return the serve, that says everything. You're chasing him, but clearly he's not returning the favor. If I were in your shoes, I'd stop communicating entirely and see what he does: That will tell you everything you need to know.
 
I get wanting that special connection. We're human and unless you're a completely damaged person, we're wired to want to find a common ground and mate. As others have already suggested, don't let this keep you from moving forward.

It's not that you shouldn't get attached. It's that you need better judgement as to who to get attached to.
 
When you keep lobbing a tennis ball to a partner who doesn't return the serve, that says everything. You're chasing him, but clearly he's not returning the favor. If I were in your shoes, I'd stop communicating entirely and see what he does: That will tell you everything you need to know.
 
I get wanting that special connection. We're human and unless you're a completely damaged person, we're wired to want to find a common ground and mate. As others have already suggested, don't let this keep you from moving forward.