BenjaminNicholas

Any major hub is going to have problems, some handling WX/MX issues better than others. LIke today, DFW is absolutely fucked on the weather-front. They just don't have enough de-icing equipment to get things turned quickly. I saw this Texas cold front coming a few days ago and switched my flight away from DFW. ORD on the other hand could handle this with their eyes closed. AA has turned CLT into a hub that's taking on a lot more traffic, so delays go up. The takeaway here is that you can't realistically always avoid delays or cancellations. You can, however, be prepared in the event they happen and have a pivot ready to go.

This reminds me of old-school theatre friends who still say 'gypsy robe ceremony' or 'gypsy' (in regards to an actor who's touring or going from show to show). Someone recently said it in mixed company (younger/older) and you could have cut the politically-correct tension with a knife. Like a good Catholic, I quickly changed the subject matter to the weather.

HBD!

This is a good idea. Cupula could easily work for a small group, as well as provide individual room privacy so everyone can come and go as they please. It's also a short walk to the bar scene.

Agree about Chow. It's been there forever for good reason. Pearl River Deli is great. Jade Wok. Zen Mei. Phoenix Bakery for the really good stuff

I contend that It doesn't usually matter what an 'I'm into' states. That's not a free pass for most escorts. If it's a kink, you'd be smart to discuss it beforehand so you're both on the same page.

Sorry, gotta edit this one. Susan Stroman. She's also (still) working on getting a Crazy For You revival back on Broadway. And it's not Colton Ryan, but Conor Ryan who's the current Christian in the Moulin Rouge national tour. Colton is an entirely different fella who's doing NY NY.

Ask beforehand if it's something he's into. In the moment is never a good idea with an escort.

They're selling this hard as the 'gay real housewives,' but there's zero about this show that's glamorous, wealthy or fun. And it doesn't help that Todrick Hall has a terrible reputation in various communities. This won't help. This is quite a bit like when Logo tried The A-List. I can't see this lasting more than a season.

Pastina was a staple in my house growing up. It was made for whomever had a stomach ache, as it was bland and easy to digest.

Ridiculing is far different than absurdist humor. I was firmly on the side of the absurd (as per usual).

I think it would be comically amazing if this guy shows up wearing a t-shirt with muscles printed on it.

A bit off topic, but Hooboy and I used to have a nickname for Club Houston... 'Grandma's' I hear they just finished a remodel and that it's a nice new design. It was never beat-up to begin with, but it's nice to see the owners keeping up with it. Agree about the crowd. They're fun and ready to play. I was thinking of making a trip to Houston soon and visiting, as I haven't been back to Club Houston since before COVID.

Not sure if the design is still the same, but Steamworks Chicago used to have a perfect gloryhole setup. Guys getting blown are on a upper riser with a forward view of five screens playing porn, while lower are the holes, allowing the other guy to get the job done without having to kneel or bend over. Basically, they're ergonomical gloryholes. Everyone stands up. Good memories

This is sage advice.

Financial domination doesn't have to include physical or verbal domination. And yes, you can find a trustworthy escort who understands this kink and can play along accordingly. Do your homework. Be super clear about expectations and how far you're wanting to take the scene.

Quite right. For some, it wins out much more quickly. Bitterness tends to weather a person. This isn't really a discussion about looks, as clearly Alam is keeping himself together. What we're talking about are people's shitty behaviors because they feel protected by anonymity. We can all be better people. It just takes stopping for a moment while you're IN the moment.

And the way you stated it and handled it in this post was mature and straight-forward. You didn't go for the low blow. You didn't act like a petulant child. I'm fine with all of that (and sorry he stood you up, twice). Like I tend to tell people, it's not what you say, but how you say it. You kept it classy sir. Most of the people on this thread who are taking the cheapest shots haven't seen him, nor have they even scheduled time with him.

Correcto. Escorting in the truest sense of the word is highly skilled job. Far too many people think it's just fuck-money-go-repeat. Sure, it can be that, but that's the kind of grind that quickly takes a toll. You can be the sexiest guy with the best body and biggest dick out there, but if you can't figure out how to verbalize and connect with someone for time you're not in the bedroom, you've painted yourself into a corner and are really only good for one thing. That one thing doesn't always keep people coming back again and again.

Your expectations aren't out of line, but clearly research on picking the right escort might need some tweaking in the future. The sentiments you shared here, share with future guys you want to spend time with. Be super straightforward about your wants and needs. A quality guy is going to appreciate that and make sure you have an experience, not just a fuck. In the beginning, it's some trial and error. Not every escort is able to quickly form bonds with their clients. That's a real talent.

I really thought this was going to be a discussion about people who constantly cough through theatre and symphony shows. I was wrong.

Unless he's done something to personally spite you, the level of bitterness by some here is odd. If they aren't for you, move on. Putting constant negative effort into something just to make yourself feel better is the key trait of the brave keyboard warrior and classic internet troll. People here have met with Alam and clearly enjoyed their time.

Too many people sign up for cards based on what perks they THINK they'll use (or, the cachet of the card). You've got to be realistic about your spend and how valuable a card's perks are to you, specifically. I read through a ton of posts on reddit's CC subs and it's telling to see people drop the card in one year, usually as soon as the yearly fee hits. It's nearly a churner's mentality, but without really fully exploiting the points or perks. I'm not usually a spreadsheet kind of guy, but for the credit cards I use, it benefits me in keeping up with getting the most out of the plastic I'm using. Re: Amex... I've never had an issue anywhere with it being accepted. They also have some of the best customer service in the industry. Amex's concierge has pulled some rabbits out of hats for me when it comes to last-minute reservations and tickets. I consider it a card I'd never not have in my wallet.

Cars, whether leasing or financing, is a rough go at the moment. As others have said, if you have the cash to pay in full, that's the way to go right now. I just bought out my lease because the car has incredibly low mileage and the calculated residual now gives me a huge amount of equity. That's rare for a lease.

He was hanging in a side room.