BenjaminNicholas

If you give them reasonable cause- any reason at all- they will push it. That's coming or going. Luckily, as a US citizen, you cannot be denied entry into your own country. I travel extensively and have for many years without issue. Global Entry background checks. SENTRI checks. I'm always hyper-aware of what I have on my person, my phone, my laptop, etc. I would suggest to any other working guy who travels to do the same.

For me, it's all about environment. Some places are just naturally sexy to me. That makes it easier for me to go for multiple loads. A couple of weeks ago I topped three solid loads into a guy in 45 minutes. I never really stopped fucking him in-between, so it was constant stimulation for me. Over the course of 4-5 hours, I've fucked and jerked out 6 loads. Those were public/outdoor/locker room or bathhouse sex situations. Like I said, it's all about who I'm with and where I'm at.

I pay for the top-tier Grindr and it's fine for what it is. Never seeing ads was the selling point for me. Worth every penny.

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Shit happens. I believe it was Enlightenment poet Alexander Pope who once said To err is human... To have hard cock, divine. You take a breather, you get a glass of water, you run up some library stairs, you punch a large slab of beef and you get back to it. The more you stress about it, the worse it gets.

There's a huge market for these types of sex play. It's all a branch-off of the dom/sub relationship.

Life is full of side-effects. We've become a society that foolishly avoids any discomfort, even if it means ultimately getting/staying healthier.

Expectation is different than happenstance. Americans- especially untraveled ones- think if they just speak English loudly, they will be accomodated. I see it on a routine basis. I also kinda love it when cultures (French, South American, MX, Asian) don't just roll over and placate.

It can't all be Chaucer. Sometime you gotta just pull out the Shecky Greene material.

They're not wimps... They're just not experienced. And, frankly, smart for backing away from something that can kill another human being if done wrong.

To be fair, you didn't utilize your credit line for what was likely years. That's on you. You can't just get open credit and keep it at $0. That's not the way the game works. And stop using Credit Karma. It's often wrong and isn't giving you an accurate picture of your real score. MyFICO is direct from the sources, all variations of FICO.

Anyone who says this at the end of a session has zero clue what they're doing. These guys won't be in business for long.

Monogamy is an outdated construct. It's also my favorite Diana Ross film.

This is the way. Most, if not all banks, now permanently discard digital records of banking transactions after 7 years. I keep my paper copies organized in storage, just in case.

While it's really a Montreal thing, don't leave before eating your weight in Toronto smoked meat. The deli scene there is *chef's kiss*

There's a wide span of how intense people get into breathplay. Are we talking sleep sacks? I know guys who take it as far as being chloroformed and then wake up in the scene. It sounds like you're just into wrestling maneuvers that involve holds like sleepers. Correct?

There's no one-size-fits-all advice for this. Devil's advocate: Playing it too cool can make you look like a flip flake. Be respectful. Be kind. Be straght-forward. And a compliment never hurt anyone. If you're going into initial communication thinking about all the ways to get a lower rate, you're really concentrating on the wrong end of the horse.

Sorta off topic, but sorta not: When new posters come here, guns blazing and sounding like certain old posters, I'm suspect. ... And so is everyone else. People have been here long enough to spot bullshit. However, there are always going to be newbies who ask genuine questions and need some direction.

She wasn't just 'a' ginger. She was THE Ginger.

Yes.

Either male or female works, as long as they're qualified and understand your goals. A great personal trainer knows a wide variety of ways to get you there (in addition to the right diet). Also, a good trainer will be realistic with you about what you can achieve. I absolutely hate trainers who overpromise.

I like where this is going.

For me, I look at it this way: If I'm charging my clients a premium rate for overnights/weekends/etc, I'm not going to skimp the time frame. And yeah, cuddling is always bueno.

He was a really nice guy. I would occasionally take classes with him at Slimmons years back and it was always a fun shitshow. Simmons seemed to genuinely care about people wanting to improve themselves.

Well, now you have.