SecretProvider

Wrong. Client's who don't waste my time, and actually HIRE me - we have a great time. There has never been a post that I have complained about clients I have actually spent time with. Once again - this thread is not about CLIENTS. it is about people who view profiles and get blocked. Someone asked why it happens - I reply : because it's annoying. These people are not clients - Client's are people who have hired. If you are doing this - you are not a client, you are not paying, so you can have a FULL REFUND if that makes you feel better.

Because in your OP you are suggesting that providers should give clients their time for "relatively free". I don't know how long you have been in the game, but 'companionship only' time is quite often more strenuous than a sexual event. it can be very taxing. After posting this, clients will be reaching out to providers and saying "well you should be spending all night with me because I hired you for one hour for sex and now I want someone to go to dinner with, and a walk through the park with etc etc. and Elite said it should be free." I charge for my time, and what we do in that time is up to the client. My hourly rate decreases for longer bookings.

don't ask questions if you don't want an answer. I am telling you: it's annoying.

here is the thing - if you look at pages 100 times and you don't book, you are NOT a client, and you will never become a good client. Advertising research suggests that when someone has viewed a webpage only business 10 times, this is the most likely time that would convert to a sale. SO going over this by ten times the amount shows it is never going to happen. I would feel annoyed. How would a restaurant feel if a customer came in and dined once, then come back every day and just looked at the menu.

100% strange which is why I sense he is not telling the full story.

I would never see a client who leaves providers 4 star reviews. bad reviews are fine - I have never got a one star review, but I imagine they only are given out when warranted. But if someone was leaving 4 star reviews, it massively and disproportionately impacts my business - it brings down the average rating and takes YEARS to build back up. a lot of people search and see only 5 star reviewed providers. Leaving a 4 star review is really damaging and shows you to be an overly fussy client who would be hard to please.

I block people I have not met if they view my profile 100s of times and never book. And I also block people who reach out three times and don't book.

I've had clients book overnights and get me to sleep in separate bed - mostly because they either snored./used a CPAP machine, or slept with tv/radio on (which I can not do) WE still snuggled until it was sleeping time and then in morning catch up again as soon as we wake. re: your fetish, I have had a client who specifically had a "free use' kink and wanted to be able to enter me when ever he wanted - including while I was sleeping and we consented to it first. To each their own.

do you mind if I ask how many providers you have reached out to? I'm just curious.

you are not speaking for all escorts and you are not putting yourself in the best light here. You have mentioned that 'even nice young and good looking' clients are paying your rates, which suggests that people who do not fit into that category will not get the same price or service from you - which is a sure sign of a bad provider, and I would assume that many clients do NOT fit in that category who read this will be disinclined to hire you. so great job there! Just state your price and if it doesn't fit the clients budget, wish them well in their search. Arguing here like this is not making you, or us, look good.

yeah I have had friends have charges reversed on the apps after the booking was done. I am lucky that that has not yet happened to me.

what made 2012 so successful?

Yes but lawyers and doctors have back to back clients, 10-12 hours a day. A lot of providers inflate how busy they are and how many bookings they have (even amongst each other) but none of them have 8 bookings a day, back to back. None.

I NEVER SAID THAT! I said the other guy was simply better looking! 😜 I eat well, work out and get hit on regularly when I am out. Thanks for the kind words. However compliments will not encourage me to reveal myself (today). I like being able to finally comment here and speak openly and honestly and give a perspective that providers who do contribute are not able to. The input has not always been well received. I completely agree and in my personal life I tend to go for non model types also.

This is true for me - I charged less, and under market rates when I started. It wasn't until I did a booking with another provider who was more experienced and objectively much better looking than I, and as we left we walked and talked for a bit. When he learned I had been paid 150 less than him he took the money out of his wallet and gave me some of his money to make it so we both earned the same amount for the job and said "don't charge less than market rate. you ARE good looking enough. I have seen you work, you are worth it." I explained I thought I would also get less clients, and he said "Yes, you may lose some clients, but the ones who scrimp and bargain are always the worst clients anyway. And the amount extra you get by charging the market rate will make up for it." I took his advice and I have found it to be sound.

no. I wouldn't cut the time short either. the time starts when the client arrives.

its true most providers would never sleep with clients unless there was a financial incentive. That is the reality. However a good provider will make you feel wanted. That ability is what separates the men from the boys.

You gave a gift with expectations, which is never a good thing to do. He is not out clubbing and partying. 30 min late when he was WITH FAMLY AT CHRISTMAS is not a big deal.

this is 'bang on the money'. wise words.

I wont see clients, especially new ones generally after midnight. They are always drunk/high and it's a more vulnerable place to put myself in. My safety is paramount. When they are in this state it is harder to satisfy them also, too drunk to get hard etc.

as a provider: I prefer cash. There are always ATMs and banks around. The alternative that I offer is cashapp, which is complete anonymous and you can put any name on it, or Venmo which I was able to set up with my work alias. All three of these methods provide discretion for me and for my clients. Zelle, PayPal, Apple Pay - it all shows full names, and I don't want your name on my bank statement and visa versa.

its probably the part of the profile that we put the least amount of effort into for the reasons mentioned above.

I am happy to answer any questions you have buddy - DM me.

if it was at the level that it could work within the nuance required, I would love this. The problem I would foresee is - we need to read through all the messages and get a gage of the vibe before the meeting. Could be an issue if the AI doesn't truly reflect how we are in person, and AI is an 'everyman' while we are all individuals. There isn't really a way to implant our personality. Secondly, a large number of times we don't realize the person is a time waster for prankster until we arrive at the hotel, or we are ready and waiting in our hosting capacity and the client ghosts. Either way, it would have to improve a lot, but how cool if it was able to handle even just the basic enquires!