Nue2thegame

It’s a good start for what you want if the masseur offers nude (him) massage. Then you ask him what his ground rules are.

And on the positive side?……..

On the other hand, OCD (Orange County Direct), the alternate proposed IATA code for SNA may not be what you’re looking for in a masseur either.

Some clients view the appearance of an erection as an emergency needing to be dealt with ASAP. Or so I’ve been told by more than one provider and that may be adding to the sense of urgency for same day dates. Cruising might be a better option for them. I’ve almost always planned at least a day in advance which has generally been ample time to line up the date of my choice.

“Tina” , for those of you, like me, who are unfamiliar, is crystal meth. I had to look it up. I’d probably cry, too if I was on the receiving end of a long session with it. It sounds like you may have fallen in with the wrong crowd, Braziliancutee. Hard to believe that the majority of Londoners could be users.

“London Strokes”??

But do you really believe he’s 30?

Several name changes + deposit requirements are too many red flags for me. Next.

But I neglected to mention that I always bring 2 paper bags on the date. One for his head, if I’m unpleasantly surprised and one for both of us if he’s REALLY ugly.

While I prefer to see a face pic in advance, I can readily understand why an otherwise desirable provider may elect not to post one. Requesting one usually invites the “I’ll show you mine, if you’ll show me yours “, which I’m unwilling to do. I have waived my preference to see a photo when there is a favorable “reliable” review commenting on the face. Even though this is subjective, it’s worked well for me so far.

Three very different states with which I have some familiarity. The different locales in Texas and Florida, in particular, differ widely in vibe, climate and culture. If your work is portable, I’d try a 3 month stint in a place of interest first and see how you like it. I’ve moved a fair amount and am always surprised that things are often not what they seemed to be from afar.

Bump. He seems to have a mixed history. Positive Legacy reviews here 2015-2016, then two negative ones (see above) + 89 RM reviews (overall 4.8), most recent 12/2024. Anything current?

Perhaps my expectations are lower but Response # 2 seems to be the norm for me. My initial message is generic, non-specific. Most providers seem to be very guarded in their initial responses and I have not found that to be consistently predictive of what they’re really like.

Ahh yes. I’ve been 39 for quite awhile now.

For the gift, are you thinking about a bus ticket?

In the larger metropolitan areas, there are too many options to have to tolerate this nonsense. Research is your best friend. On the very rare occasions that I have walked, I felt that I was doing a service for the brotherhood and hopefully modifying future behavior on the part of the provider.

Gay sex is readily available but I suspect they attract two very different groups that probably doesn’t have a lot of cross over. People may prefer hiring, if they can afford it, for a broader and more certain selection, no strings and potentially greater discretion. As an old football coach once said, “if it floats, flies or fucks, you’re better off renting than buying “.

Sometimes it can just be really hot sex.

I’m going to use part of my $2000 Tariff Dividend to see him

This one is very real. He’s been in Fort Lauderdale for a while now. Has a nice, upscale, immaculate apartment with all the expected amenities. Very attractive but somewhat shy. Pictures are accurate as is his self description. His 34 RM reviews seem to be spot on. A cock watcher, not a clock watcher. Highly recommended.

Good luck with that. You and I aren’t 24 (or 29), I’m pretty sure, and we went to a different school. Somehow 20 somethings learned to communicate and even sometimes get laid, I’m told.

Hey, it happens. Unfortunate for all concerned. I wouldn’t give up on the hobby but pick a site with legitimate reviews, like this one or even a well reviewed provider on RM and try again. You also need to develop some patience- something that I didn’t have a lot of at 24. Your poor guy probably isn’t cut out for this business but learned a valuable life lesson. You should get back on the horse and look forward to much better times ahead.