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I don't think anyone here thinks physical assault is okay for any reason. I think there's a group of people on this thread saying this guy acted more-or-less as advertised, with only a small amount of 'reading between the lines' of what's in the ad. Easy to fix next time around!

There's very little shit-talking going on. 90% of what providers complain about is having their time wasted/stolen.

I can definitely understand your concern--It's a risky way to play. I agree doing a FaceTime could help reduce the risk, although I wouldn't necessarily rule-out providers that won't do that (see other posts about why providers avoid calls). The times that I've done this as the first meeting, it was arranged as a 2 or 3 hour booking with an option to extend. You agree on the price of both scenarios ahead of time. From the provider's perspective, a firm commitment for a nice long booking at the end of the day isn't much of a risk. That's basically the best use of an evening for a provider. The only better scenario being an overnight, but those are unusual gigs. And if the provider any good at all, they'll feel confident in their ability to convince you to take option B 😉 From your side, if it's not what you hoped for, you just don't take the option.

I completely agree! It's definitely a fad I don't understand (as a spectator sport). If someone wants to edge me, I'm all for it. I'll add that I've been approached by photographers that have a side-hustle running an OF page, and that's what they're asking to make with me. I guess they know the market.

Wow, I have some really good ones.... That hardly anyone will ever see 😭

What do you mean by 'full reviews'?

I'm curious: Are there actually any legit escort services these days? I figure if they do exist, someone on this forum must have done business with them.

It really is the only job I can think of where people expect you to be on-call ALL THE TIME. Even ER doctors are only on the hook for a defined period of time where they can be called in.

Really?

Voice isn't any more private than e2e encrypted text like WhatsApp. Basically, governments will find a way to read it if they want either way.

Absolutely, this! In the end, it's still a time=money thing. For a phone call, I need to drop everything for an indeterminate amount of time--Time I won't be getting paid for. And to @SecretProvider's point, there are lots of fake clients out there that are just trying to get free phone sex. My rule is I'll do ONE 15 minute call if a client really wants to get a feel for what my 'vibe' is like before committing to a booking. But that's it. Most providers I know won't even do that much. And by the way, back in the phone days, you would be calling some agency to book, probably talking to some frumpy old lady, not the provider directly. And that lady would be getting paid to answer that phone.

I kinda wish there WAS still such thing as agencies. It would be so nice just to do the actual appointments and not deal with bookings and payments and all that. But yeah, in this case, I'm thinking the 'Angelic Boy' doesn't really exist.

Toilet selfie. Hot! 🤨 There's two kinds of escorts: One type that's actually gay, and has the 'skillset' for this kind of work. And then there's the gay-for-pay 20-somethings who thought, "Hey, I have abs! I should be getting paid for that!" This guy is so clearly the latter. If y'all wanna keep hiring them, go ahead, but it takes a ton of self-confidence to hook up with someone like that and have a good time. There are definitely a few folks here who seem like they have that... but I suspect it isn't the majority by a long-shot. It's not because of the bathhouse. It's not because of the advanced payment.

Don't you clients ask one another for info all the time? I'm surprised anyone hires without first reaching out to a reviewer or two.

Nope. Serious ones know the rate is the rate.

My number 1 red flag for scammers is when then agree to book you, never having asked about rates. Serious clients always ask, even the really rich ones.

DZN is the SUPREME COMMANDER 🫡

Also, if any of you who aren't providers might wanna come hang out too, it could be more of a CoM mixer.

I'm pretty new, so I can't speak to the slowdown. But my hooker friends all say it's gotten slower. All of my in-person interactions have been lovely. Online is another matter. It seems echoing some of the stuff other people here have said: people tend to forget that we're also humans with feelings, loved-ones, and a life outside of this. Nothing worse than telling your friends to go have fun without you, and then sit at home alone because a client ghosted 😔

Staaahp! All this verb conjugation talk is getting all hot and bothered 🥵

Is this question about whether tipping will make an escort more likely to keep you on as a client? Skip the tip, hire me a third time! I think we'd all rather have a client who hires us more often than a tip.

That sounds really fun! Especially since they'd have to guess where my tickle spots are 🙃

Sniffies has really aggressive anti-spam features. If you say escort, gen, rate, ... anything like that, they delete the message. It's frustrating because sometimes I see people suggest that kind of arrangement, and then you have to have the conversation in h@çk3r script.

I gotta say, it's refreshing to see that [most of] y'all have some criteria other than JUST physical attributes!--Like OP said, not typical clients 😍