goosh69

You're right. Some folks just can't let go. Sounds like deep-seated professional jealousy to me.

This whole thread is unnecessarily mean.

I have had guys show up who are not the guy pictured....50% of the time I send them on their way. 50% of the time they are close enough. They are the ones taking the risk of making a trip for nothing. But I don't like the lying.
 
The problem really is that if they have shirtless or even nude pics - showing up fully clothed as someone else entirely means you have to let them in and see them undressed before deciding. And then it is awkward kicking them out. So I have literally made guys take their shirts off in the hallway outside my door. And still sent them home.
 
Luckily I am a big guy (and I have a metal bat right by the door.)

You can reach via his Instagram which was provided. I've seen him at Adonis LA. Nice body, not for me though. He was polite when I declined a dance.

I just had a not so good experience with Seeking Arrangements.
A fellow Latino who is attending UC Irvine contacted me via SA that he would like to meet me. After a luncheon meeting that was very nice, he started texting me for money. Like money in the 4 figures!
Nothing but a hustler, and anyone who subscribes to SA should be aware that this could happen to you.

But fetishes for non-sexual body parts themselves are not common. Most straight or gay men do not have foot fetishes. It's just a fact.
Far from most. I wish it were otherwise- especially in regards to foot tops. But its uncommon.

Life is short and your time is precious. With 24 hours in a day, average person sleeps 8 hours a day. That leaves us with 16 hours.
A normal job is typically 8 hours of work with an hour commute, and an hour lunch. This leaves us with 6 hours of available time for the average normal model individual to spend on activities beyond what I have already mentioned.
 
- Career
- Body
- Health
- Friendships
- Emotional development
- Emotional growth
- Family
- Relaxation / personal time
- Sleep
- Education
- Finding happiness
 
There is absolutely no way for anybody to work on every thing all at once. You have to pick what to focus on and other things will get negligent. No one is perfect. However sometimes I hear expectations that absolutely blow my mind. Highly educated, ripped body, highly developed emotionally, has a career, hot, and under 25.
 
What.
 
If someone focuses on their career, family and sleep then that normally leaves very little time for other areas, and that is perfectly ok. You can switch out what someone focuses on however the end result is the same... there may be someone who is able to do everything I've mentioned at once but I don't think it is the norm.
 
Point being, why bash someone else's decision on what they decide to focus on?
 
If someone decides they need to focus on body, health, and decide they need to find help with money and use their body and health. That's cool.
 
If someone decides they want to focus on their education and career and decide they need help with emotional development and use their money from the return of their education and career. Go for it.
 
If someone doesn't meet what you are looking for in their focus's. Move on.
 
Telling someone they should change what they focus on in their lives because you think it's the right way or suggesting about other people what they should focus on in their lives because you think you are right.
 
What.
 
Some people totally get it and some don't.

Again I find it hilarious (like laugh out loud funny) that any self-described sugar daddy finds $80 a month expensive. I shit that out after lunch.

as do I.....

Dick pics do zero for me. I need a handsome face.

Dick pics do zero for me. I need a handsome face.

Again I find it hilarious (like laugh out loud funny) that any self-described sugar daddy finds $80 a month expensive. I shit that out after lunch.

But that's all a trophy spouse or SO is, really!

I'm super cynical but at least one guy I met WAS a young guy into dating older guys and money or gifts never changed hands. So it Does happen.
 
However, MOST important of the guys on the site at least want a rich boyfriend, or in more extreme cases are literally rentmen guys I recognize looking for more steady gigs.
 
The former makes them no different than half the straight wives I know in Manhattan- and not a few of the straight husbands. Income IS very highly correlated with the likelihood that a straight person has multiple marriage opportunities. Fact.
 
And a hot boyfriend/rich boyfriend arrangement is better than an escort one.

Does anyone know if Blayne from Thunders and Next Door Male escorts?
 
https://shop.thundersarena.com/collections/blayne

Sure. He still sounds racist. Two separate posts where the only way I read it is "black men from big cities have criminal records." I do not by the way. Not even a traffic ticket, ever.

Nope. I posted your ENTIRE quote. EVERYONE but you thinks it was racist. That says all you need to know.

Sure. He still sounds racist. Two separate posts where the only way I read it is "black men from big cities have criminal records." I do not by the way. Not even a traffic ticket, ever.

Uhhhhh.... you CLEARLY implied black men have criminal records.

Yep. You said BLACK escorts have criminal backgrounds:
 
"Everyone deserves a second chance, even if he is a convicted criminal, which is not the case presented by the OP, but even in that extreme case I would consider the circumstances to make a decision. Circumstances are everything.
Specially those of us who like playing with young black urban boys from the hood, you better have an open mind about criminal backgrounds."
 
I've been with plenty of white escorts, and plenty of THEM have criminal records. A few got to three strikes. But I don't recall any of the threads about them (or other criminal white escorts) talking about their race at all.

Yep. You said BLACK escorts have criminal backgrounds:
 
"Everyone deserves a second chance, even if he is a convicted criminal, which is not the case presented by the OP, but even in that extreme case I would consider the circumstances to make a decision. Circumstances are everything.
Specially those of us who like playing with young black urban boys from the hood, you better have an open mind about criminal backgrounds."
 
I've been with plenty of white escorts, and plenty of THEM have criminal records. A few got to three strikes. But I don't recall any of the threads about them (or other criminal white escorts) talking about their race at all.

Yep. You said BLACK escorts have criminal backgrounds:
 
"Everyone deserves a second chance, even if he is a convicted criminal, which is not the case presented by the OP, but even in that extreme case I would consider the circumstances to make a decision. Circumstances are everything.
Specially those of us who like playing with young black urban boys from the hood, you better have an open mind about criminal backgrounds."
 
I've been with plenty of white escorts, and plenty of THEM have criminal records. A few got to three strikes. But I don't recall any of the threads about them (or other criminal white escorts) talking about their race at all.

Generalizing about black men from the "hood" troubles me. Maybe I'm being overly PC and naive but it smacks of racial bias.

It's really irritating when these guys, like Dolph, advertise for boyfriend experiences but won't do anything interactive like kissing or oral much less the rest. WTF do they think a BFE is? Meeting my parents?

Scottie007 - you seem to have seen a lot of people just yesterday who are "the real deal". You just signed up to m4m this morning, so I have to wonder if you are "the real deal" - or just a promoter.