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I'm on the fence. More bad apples than good ones, but I've met real potential compatibles. And I clearly don't work for SA. It's just like subscribing to lots of premium cable and streaming services when you don't actually watch that many shows. You want to have them just in case.

I've had my "Sugar Baby" living with me for over two months. Lovely young man, who had been abandoned by his conservative Catholic family for being gay. He's been a rewarding addition to my home life. Couldn't be more pleased at my decision to welcome him into my life.

Thanks for chiming in Parker.
 
Can I suggest that you put in your ad that a 10 percent deposit is required upon booking? Not only will it avoid wasting time on clients like me who refuse to pay a deposit and allow them to skip to the next ad, but will also save you time from answering ads from clients who refuse to pay a deposit or may be flaky and have no intention of meeting from contacting you

I'm on the fence. More bad apples than good ones, but I've met real potential compatibles. And I clearly don't work for SA. It's just like subscribing to lots of premium cable and streaming services when you don't actually watch that many shows. You want to have them just in case.

Sigh. I thought he'd be a hot guy into indy rock.

The pictures are not him. I messaged and asked for face pictures. In his defense he did send real pictures of his face, but the face he sent me is not attached to the body in the ad.
Not an unattractive guy at all, but not the same body or even close. He insisted he was the guy in the ad so i asked him to send a shirtless picture with face. He did, but it was a posed modelling shot where he was naked, shot from the side, and covering up all of his body with his arms. "Dude. I believe thats your face. So Just send me one of the pictures in your ad without the blurred out face!" --- and silence.
Fake pictures

Well, in that regard, I am very lucky. I had the fortune to find a bf with amazing feet. While he's not into feet himself, he totally gets off on letting me worship his. It's a dream come true.

AND who sexually ENJOY having their feet massaged or worshiped. As opposed to allowing you to do it. Or just liking massages.

I agree. we have the same taste. Makes it even more complicated. I have no problem meeting very attractive guys. But, try finding very attractive guys with very attractive feet. It's easier to find a fax machine.

It's the most COMMON fetish but fetishes themselves are actually not that common.
 
I could find lots more guys into being feet BOTTOMS than tops. But I am just not into unnatractive guys with nice feet. I like ridiculously hot guys who also have nice feet.

I been with over 200 guys in my life, and maybe ten said they'd been with more than one other person who was a foot bottom. And only about 5 true foot tops.

And your point? Gay men and straight men alike mostly ONLY date and marry people who meet some exhaustive list of physical attributes. That is somehow better than dating or marrying someone who makes or has money? Plus looks fade. Money earns interest

Half the straight couples I know here in NYC are a much wealthier spouse marrying a much less wealthy one. And not just second wives - first husbands. And the other half of straight marriages I know personally of here are two high income people married to each other. The idea the wealth and income does not factor into literally millions of marriages is laughable.

He may have stolen someone's pics but that's not River.

BUT, gents, not saying either of you have done this at all.
 
There have been posts on this Forum where guys who've had a session with a non-pic'd (or similar pic'd) gent. Looked sorta like the ad, but not exactly. REALLY?
 
They've had no issue. Horny for dick, I suppose.
 
If it ain't who I was expecting, face, body, dick-wise, he's a goner.

....Of course "the guy is real." His pics are fake. You think I don't care what his actual FACE looks Like?!?!!! You don't think the actual model who's face is being used is fine being in an escort ad!?!?

And this whole notion that having HIV is no big deal is BS. Sure SOME people live with it. BUT
you're unambiguously healthier without it. And there is more than one strain , and not every one reacts well to and/or can afford the various medications.

OR...if you can pick a mate for physical traits that are largely or entirely immutable, or "intelligence" or sense of humor - also difficult or impossible for some to change- why not pick one for money?

And your point? Gay men and straight men alike mostly ONLY date and marry people who meet some exhaustive list of physical attributes. That is somehow better than dating or marrying someone who makes or has money? Plus looks fade. Money earns interest

I bought a shirt online last week - specific pattern, 100% cotton. The shirt that showed up was a cheap poly-blend, slightly different pattern.
 
But, hey, the shirt described and pictured online was a reasonable representation. And the seller was just being discreet; he didn't want his friends and family members to know he sells garbage.

I started this thread. I saw Alfie at nude party and he was nice and fun. I had several great lap dances with him. He was very receptive. I just left without discussing a further meeting with him. Maybe I'll go see if he's there on Sunday.

You're right. Some folks just can't let go. Sounds like deep-seated professional jealousy to me.

This whole thread is unnecessarily mean.

I have had guys show up who are not the guy pictured....50% of the time I send them on their way. 50% of the time they are close enough. They are the ones taking the risk of making a trip for nothing. But I don't like the lying.
 
The problem really is that if they have shirtless or even nude pics - showing up fully clothed as someone else entirely means you have to let them in and see them undressed before deciding. And then it is awkward kicking them out. So I have literally made guys take their shirts off in the hallway outside my door. And still sent them home.
 
Luckily I am a big guy (and I have a metal bat right by the door.)

You can reach via his Instagram which was provided. I've seen him at Adonis LA. Nice body, not for me though. He was polite when I declined a dance.