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They met in college and are from different places and sects- definitely not an arranged marriage.
And yes, I know I personally would not be physically capable of having sex with a woman… I am very grateful to live in this era/culture.

Politics @Simon Suraci ?

Thats a no, no.
If you get to spew your political opinions then we all need to have that same right...which we don't. 

Nice guy, but definitely YMMV.  Saw him in SF several years ago before moving to Denver.  Vibe just wasn't there between us.  Was not worth a repeat experience for me.  

I don't mind when providers contact me, especially if they are traveling and letting me know their schedule. It's helpful to me and good marketing for them.
 

Someone with a lot of time on their hands and/or skill with efficient analysis of websites should track the "BenSash" reviews, cross-referencing the locations of the supposed reviewees...

positive endorsements from "known and trusted" forum members......and from insatiable "BenSash", too!! 

That is uncommon but it means that I will not repeat with that provider.

I saw him in Palm Springs last spring.  IMO he's not the guy in the pics, but he is gorgeous with a great body.  The undressing ritual is about as sexy as getting undressed in the locker room next to somebody else. (if you want a real undressing ritual see Nate/Steve).  
As I recall the massage was fine and there was some mutual touch with happy ending.  
In Palm Springs he hosts at his home where he lives with his husband - who I did meet.  It did not weird me out, but others might not care for that. 
I would probably see him again if the price was reasonable (it had risen to $300 when I saw him), but IMO there was nothing there to make it worth the extra $100 - $150. 
Not sorry I went but won't be repeating. 

My first overnight with a provider was years ago after the second time for an evening 4-5 hours, I decided to try an overnight and it was wonderful. He was more relax, no rush, time to inspect the good, expected services and delivered all the good. 3 rounds of sweaty exercises during the night plus morning fun in the shower. It breaks some of the barriers and the providers might allow certain activities which he normally doesn't. 

Been seeing this much older gentleman in the past 4 years. He is a fantastic person, well maintain muscle, nice tool, with great energy and wonderful versatile guy. After two rounds with sweat and acrobatic moved, he wore me out every time.  

Do you have any rough idea about the rates that you'll be comfortable with (for texting / chatting / video gaming, etc.)?  And will the rates vary based on the locations of the providers?  What you are asking for, in a strange way, is analogous to work-from-home arrangements.  We all know people who WFH receive less compensations than those who have to work at the office (just like in-call and out-call rates are different).  It is then determined by geographical and other cost-of-living factors.  I think setting up an agreeable rate and acceptable parameters for the interactions may be challenging.

Yes, but the opposite is also true. If the provider is looking at the wall, I prefer not to see. 

Saw him recently. He was very sweet and sexy, but I could tell he was not the same guy in his profile.  I think the muscle and appearance wise he is better, but I personally was expecting to see a guy of bigger frame. 
 
On the massage part my preference is more deep and sporty; which was not his style. He did oil himself up and did some  body-to-body rubbing. 
 
To me, his rate is a bit too high for the service he provided. Unless you are into hot Asians. If that’s the case, I would at least recommend you to try once. 

This issue has been discussed before. Here's one example:
There's a syndicate of Chinese masseurs who travel to various cities. You're never really sure which of the many guys you'll meet. The photos are all similar and don't show clear faces. 
I'm sure some type of massage is provided. But I suggest that you proceed at your own risk. 

I don't understand why Masseurfinder is still in business.  My understanding is that related site Massagefinder is for non-sexual therepeutic massages, while Masseurfinder seems to have this intentional ambiguity about what might be available.  Why would a provider who offers MT and HE have a profile on Masseurfinder, when it is expensive, allows limited photos, and the search function is not client-friendly?  Why not just have a profile on Rentmasseur?  Some providers list on both Masseurfinder and Rentmasseur.  I don't get it.

Used him before. He's very sexy and 100% worth the investment. I definitely recommend. 

If the opportunity was ever real.

Jussie Smollett syndrome.

I don't understand why Masseurfinder is still in business.  My understanding is that related site Massagefinder is for non-sexual therepeutic massages, while Masseurfinder seems to have this intentional ambiguity about what might be available.  Why would a provider who offers MT and HE have a profile on Masseurfinder, when it is expensive, allows limited photos, and the search function is not client-friendly?  Why not just have a profile on Rentmasseur?  Some providers list on both Masseurfinder and Rentmasseur.  I don't get it.