DMonDude

In my experience, providers his age are INCREDIBLY flaky. I have one who is a regular now, but the first few meets were a mess (i only stuck with him because he has a hyper specific appeal and scratches a really specific itch for me that i don't find in other providers often). I've gotten to know him over time and yeah guys this age are having a very hard time getting going in our current society. They're doing anything they can to make money, they're dealing drugs, they are providers, they've got multiple day jobs while still finishing college, they're trying to blow up on Tiktok/Youtube/Twitch (which their generation sees as basically the only way out of working a 9-5 till they die, which is not even entirely wrong these days). Not saying that means you have to put up with it, but just providing context i guess.

From what i've read/heard. In the U.S. at least, police are largely not concerned with this stuff unless it's tied to other crimes like drugs and human trafficking. It otherwise isn't worth their limited time and resources. Especially now days that it's moved online and isn't a provider on the street in public (which can tie to public indecency and what not) like it used to be back in the day. Unless there's some new Satanic Panic around sex work, there's not going to be enough public pressure for government/police to want to go after that many random individuals. Kinda the same as before Weed got legalized, they'd go after you if you were being stupid/obvious about it or were selling/buying alongside more illicit drugs but they never had the time or money to go after every random stoner/dealer who didn't do anything else wrong.

Definitely would hire. As much as i love topping and bottoming. In my experience, the vast majority of top/bottom providers give terrible/very short duration head and rimming (if they even do it at all) because in those scenarios its all about getting to the anal. And sometimes just getting really good head or rimming would be nice, though realistically i'm not entirely certain i would pay the same price for side play as i would for full service.

I just use my real phone/number. When i was new to hiring, i got a lot of "i ignore Google Voice/VOIP numbers". And i also saw/knew providers generally aren't using encrypted apps like Signal because most of them either still require a real number or it's so secure/encrypted that everyone has to be using the same app because it doesn't support SMS (like Signal now). So eventually i gave up and just started using my real number. But the Burner app mentioned in this thread sounds promising. I might give that a go as my go to for new providers and then save my real number for trusted regulars.

You'd be surprised what some people will pay. If he's charging that, it's cause people are paying it. I worked with one provider who i actually ended up vibing well with and we hung out for a couple hours after our session. He told me a story about a celebrity who hired him and gave him 10k for spending a week with him. There for sure are guys operating on the very high end of this stuff. It made me feel like such a peasant in the moment 😂

Hey guys. I'm new here, this is my first post. Been using this forum as a guest to get anecdotal reviews on RM guys for a couple weeks/months now and figured I'd finally get an account and contribute. I found this guy on RM the other day and also was curious/skeptical of his profile and then found this thread with no one having worked with him yet. Decided i would be the one to take the plunge and report back (as many of you have done on other threads like this that gave me the confidence to try a certain guy i was curious about). You'll see my review for this guy pop up on his page soon if it's not there already (same screen name as here). I initially was attracted by his photos, of course. But his profile raised a lot of red flags to me. Super short bio/description, newer profile, photos not verified, similarly toned reviews like you all have pointed out in short time span, and when i messaged him the rates he quoted me seemed suspiciously low/affordable for the customizations offered (said yes to basically everything and all was included in the base rates he initially gave!) compared to others in L.A. His responses via text sometimes read like ChatGPT or call center canned responses and someone who's first language isn't English. Which is of course totally ok! But in context it didn't help ease how suspicious it felt lol. In the end though. I saw him last night. The pics are him/accurate, he did what he said he would for the rate he said he would, he was very cool/chill with me being very late due to unforeseen circumstances and still gave me the full time i booked with no rushing or attitude, and i had a great experience. Feel free to message me for more details, but yeah i'd say go for it if you're interested in him. Before he realizes he could/should be charging more 🤣