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I had a provider I was seriously interested in hiring send me a very uncomfortable message, all because I asked another client of his a question about him out of curiosity. I guess the client must of told him what I asked (it was absolutely nothing out of the ordinary, just basic stuff)  

I had a provider I was seriously interested in hiring send me a very uncomfortable message, all because I asked another client of his a question about him out of curiosity. I guess the client must of told him what I asked (it was absolutely nothing out of the ordinary, just basic stuff)  

I had a provider I was seriously interested in hiring send me a very uncomfortable message, all because I asked another client of his a question about him out of curiosity. I guess the client must of told him what I asked (it was absolutely nothing out of the ordinary, just basic stuff)  

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Great advice. This is exactly how I started and I couldn’t agree more 👍

Great advice. This is exactly how I started and I couldn’t agree more 👍

Great advice. This is exactly how I started and I couldn’t agree more 👍

Great advice. This is exactly how I started and I couldn’t agree more 👍

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I would do a thorough search and narrow down your choices to a handful or so. Add those potential providers to your buddy list. For me, this is important because I can see which providers post “available now” and how often. I see it as the ones that don’t post as often, tend to have a comfortable client base built up, and seem to be more reliable and open to conversation (don’t go overboard) when it’s time to make an appointment. Remember, there are probably a lot of people that reach out with no real intention of meeting, which is why some providers don’t want to get into the back and forth. But nothing wrong with asking questions to see if they will be a good fit or not. 

As someone who just recently had their first experience with a man, I will tell you what helped me tremendously. Once I narrowed down my search, with a handful of local providers, who were my type and had a fair amount of good reviews on RM. I checked them with Company of Men, to get some trusted reviews. After they passed that test, I paid for an hour of their regular rate to meet them in person. I only did this with 2 local providers. We had coffee or quick meal, and I was able to ask every imaginable question, and share my concerns about my first experience with a man. It also allowed me to see if we had a connection and real chemistry. I was able to find an awesome provider who has been kind, patient and loving, as I explore my sexuality with a man.This is not a conventional way go, and some of you will disagree with my method, but it sure worked well for me. I wish you the best with your journey. 

I would do a thorough search and narrow down your choices to a handful or so. Add those potential providers to your buddy list. For me, this is important because I can see which providers post “available now” and how often. I see it as the ones that don’t post as often, tend to have a comfortable client base built up, and seem to be more reliable and open to conversation (don’t go overboard) when it’s time to make an appointment. Remember, there are probably a lot of people that reach out with no real intention of meeting, which is why some providers don’t want to get into the back and forth. But nothing wrong with asking questions to see if they will be a good fit or not. 

I would do a thorough search and narrow down your choices to a handful or so. Add those potential providers to your buddy list. For me, this is important because I can see which providers post “available now” and how often. I see it as the ones that don’t post as often, tend to have a comfortable client base built up, and seem to be more reliable and open to conversation (don’t go overboard) when it’s time to make an appointment. Remember, there are probably a lot of people that reach out with no real intention of meeting, which is why some providers don’t want to get into the back and forth. But nothing wrong with asking questions to see if they will be a good fit or not. 

I would do a thorough search and narrow down your choices to a handful or so. Add those potential providers to your buddy list. For me, this is important because I can see which providers post “available now” and how often. I see it as the ones that don’t post as often, tend to have a comfortable client base built up, and seem to be more reliable and open to conversation (don’t go overboard) when it’s time to make an appointment. Remember, there are probably a lot of people that reach out with no real intention of meeting, which is why some providers don’t want to get into the back and forth. But nothing wrong with asking questions to see if they will be a good fit or not. 

I would do a thorough search and narrow down your choices to a handful or so. Add those potential providers to your buddy list. For me, this is important because I can see which providers post “available now” and how often. I see it as the ones that don’t post as often, tend to have a comfortable client base built up, and seem to be more reliable and open to conversation (don’t go overboard) when it’s time to make an appointment. Remember, there are probably a lot of people that reach out with no real intention of meeting, which is why some providers don’t want to get into the back and forth. But nothing wrong with asking questions to see if they will be a good fit or not. 

I would do a thorough search and narrow down your choices to a handful or so. Add those potential providers to your buddy list. For me, this is important because I can see which providers post “available now” and how often. I see it as the ones that don’t post as often, tend to have a comfortable client base built up, and seem to be more reliable and open to conversation (don’t go overboard) when it’s time to make an appointment. Remember, there are probably a lot of people that reach out with no real intention of meeting, which is why some providers don’t want to get into the back and forth. But nothing wrong with asking questions to see if they will be a good fit or not. 

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hi guys - thanks for everyone taking time to post about me. 😀 
Just to reply to @KensingtonHomo - when he first posted this comment someone reached out to me to tell me about it. I was shocked and felt so upset that someone walked away from time with me with that experience, as I couldn't recall it at all. I reached out to him to see what I could do to remedy this and he was kind of rude and snarky in his reply. It felt unfair that I could neither make amends, or defend myself to an anonymous poster so I decided it was best to just let it be. 
However I just recently discovered our communication and now I am able to remember him as well as his husband. Now that I have all the information, I feel a little differently. Let me try to give everyone some context, whilst still maintaining his confidentially and discretion, (two things which can be difficult to balance in order to give context, but I will do my best):
Kensington made clear requests for a firm, passionate and dominant style session. He expressed desires to be tied up and otherwise restrained, double penetrated, and described himself as 'bratty sub' who wanted to have his partner watch him be 'plowed'. He asked me to bring 'Dom energy' and 'take initiative' and that he wanted me to 'be running the show'. He also complained that he had been let down by previous providers who were unable to meet these expectations, and about how that bummed him out.
These requests guided how I approached the session, with an understanding that strong dominant style was specifically what was wanted. 
Whilst it should appear self evident, let me confirm that he is correct that any discomfort experienced was not intentional. At the time it was downplayed and he had explained this had happened to him in his personal life previously as well. I can say that as a bottom, the situation has happened to me before also - so I took him at his word. I am glad to read that he has since sort of softened the language of later posts to describe it as 'over enthusiasm' instead of 'overly aggressive', which I think is a more accurate term. To be clear, I didn't just jam it in and pound away like a jackhammer with no lube or care in the world for his comfort and pleasure or with agenda to make it painful. 
He has mentioned here and on other threads that they were charged full price with no discount for the hour. He is forgetting that he had already received a reduced rate as I serviced both him and his partner. For transparency, they both participated and were charged the equivalent of a single client session, rather than a higher couples rate - which at that time ended up being only $150 each, and they did both stay for the full appointment.
I regret that 2 years later you felt the session was not to your liking to the degree that you would be compelled to come on a public forum and warn people of danger, recklessness, injury and harm to deter them from seeing me. It feels unfair and disproportionate to the actual events. While I respect your right to share your perspective, I also want to ensure anyone reading this understands the full context. I believe it is important for prospective clients who do read this to understand that the approach I took to our session was directly based on the instructions you provided. My practice is built on listening to clients' needs, honoring confidentiality, and delivering professional service.  I will continue to do so moving forward. 
I wish you well. 
 

I agree with the other positive comments here. I highly recommend.

Ahh, I did have the terminology wrong lol. I am not looking for a woman masseuse but indeed a masseur 😉 

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