julius

I’ll weigh in here on something. Few years ago, without putting too much of his business out there...A big named escort from Boston had a brush with the law completely non escort related; body building related. As a result of their grab- they had his phones, computers all that- but they didn’t give TWO shits about chasing this down. They had it on a silver platter- saw the big picture....but they didn’t care! Bigger fish to fry!
 
Police Didn’t act on setting up a single client, nor flipping any additional crap on him, even misdemeanors just to pile it on. They were there for the juice, and they left it at that.
 
And to his credit, he could have set up people above him, below him, and clients to probably spring himself or reduce charges but instead he kept quiet and did the right thing. Took a pretty raw/harsh deal to, but he’ll get spoken of positively till the day he dies for his honesty / loyalty at least!
 
But again, circling back- I wouldn’t panic. Completely unrelated to you- what state, someone asked too- unless it TN or AL or some bored Bible Belt state...fairly sure it won’t matter.

I REPEAT A HOLLYWOOD STORY I'VE POSTED:
During the making of "Some Like It Hot" Tony Curtis and Jack Lemmon complained bitterly about the constant delays by Marilyn, they often sat around hours in uncomfortable drag waiting for her to show. Director Billy Wilder's response?
"I got an aunt in Poland never been late a day in her life, we could get her".

To each his own, of course, but I would hate for people to take away from your statement that #1 - Bruce Beckham - is not hot in person. That was not my impression at all when I first met him; if anything, I was taken aback that he lived up in person to his photogenic promise. If he's not your cup of tea, then he's not and that's that. But if he is, I promise you won't be disappointed meeting him face-to-face.

To each his own, of course, but I would hate for people to take away from your statement that #1 - Bruce Beckham - is not hot in person. That was not my impression at all when I first met him; if anything, I was taken aback that he lived up in person to his photogenic promise. If he's not your cup of tea, then he's not and that's that. But if he is, I promise you won't be disappointed meeting him face-to-face.

To each his own, of course, but I would hate for people to take away from your statement that #1 - Bruce Beckham - is not hot in person. That was not my impression at all when I first met him; if anything, I was taken aback that he lived up in person to his photogenic promise. If he's not your cup of tea, then he's not and that's that. But if he is, I promise you won't be disappointed meeting him face-to-face.

Strap it to the outside and tell them it's a very expensive designer bag.

I agree with you, littlenut. There's been plenty of hot escorts with whom I've had fun, and while very few have been real jerks, many weren't especially chatty or considerate or even friendly. (Which is fine - I'm not paying them to sell me a timeshare.) But it's always the nice guys that I'll hire again and again. Tristan Baldwin is, for good reason, at the top of many peoples' list (mine included), but they don't come any nicer than Vin Marco, Ben Kieren and Bruce Beckham: stand-up guys, all.

I'll add that the guy is constantly traveling. Seriously, look at his calendar; he literally commutes every week to cities all over (and sometimes out of) the country. Even when he's home on weekends, he's often on the road to Boston, or NYC or somewhere hours away - all to make it easier for the guys who want to meet him.
 
Be patient and optimistic. TB is both, so you'll get along fine.

I'll add that the guy is constantly traveling. Seriously, look at his calendar; he literally commutes every week to cities all over (and sometimes out of) the country. Even when he's home on weekends, he's often on the road to Boston, or NYC or somewhere hours away - all to make it easier for the guys who want to meet him.
 
Be patient and optimistic. TB is both, so you'll get along fine.

I'll add that the guy is constantly traveling. Seriously, look at his calendar; he literally commutes every week to cities all over (and sometimes out of) the country. Even when he's home on weekends, he's often on the road to Boston, or NYC or somewhere hours away - all to make it easier for the guys who want to meet him.
 
Be patient and optimistic. TB is both, so you'll get along fine.

I'll add that the guy is constantly traveling. Seriously, look at his calendar; he literally commutes every week to cities all over (and sometimes out of) the country. Even when he's home on weekends, he's often on the road to Boston, or NYC or somewhere hours away - all to make it easier for the guys who want to meet him.
 
Be patient and optimistic. TB is both, so you'll get along fine.

Ben Kieran is one of the best in that area. My experience with him was prior to his becoming as massive as he is now so I am not sure if his repertoire of what his "interests" may be. When I saw him he was an incredibly nice guy, he was open to an awful lot, and I had a great time. As always, make sure you communicate with him and determine the parameters of your experience. Once agreed upon I have no doubt he will deliver. https://rent.men/MuscleCompanion

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I suppose I take it a little personally when people trash-talk New Orleans; it’s been my home for over 40 years. I must iterate what others have said: if you come here and never leave the Quarter, then you really have a very narrow view on which to judge the city.
 
I agree that the escort scene is surprisingly bleak here. When I was much younger (back before the internet, in what Bambi Lake called “the golden age of hustlers”) there were plenty of eager guys here to pass some time with; I remember a beautiful kid Donnie with almond-shaped eyes and a dragon tattoo that coiled around his torso and down one leg. But that was a long time ago, and things have definitely changed. AIDS was a factor, and so was the oil bust, and so was Katrina. My own two cents is that nowadays there’s simply not the clientele to support a good escort scene; New Orleans proper is actually quite small, and it’s certainly not wealthy. So now If I’m going to hire, I prefer to do it with well-known, top-notch guys rather than take a chance on something less than stellar, and that means going out-of-town.
 
That said, it has become my personal mission to nag, tempt, cajole, coerce, seduce and otherwise convince Tristan Baldwin to get his fine self down to New Orleans at least once. He’s shown me around both Boston and L.A., and I am determined to return the favor.

I agree with you, littlenut. There's been plenty of hot escorts with whom I've had fun, and while very few have been real jerks, many weren't especially chatty or considerate or even friendly. (Which is fine - I'm not paying them to sell me a timeshare.) But it's always the nice guys that I'll hire again and again. Tristan Baldwin is, for good reason, at the top of many peoples' list (mine included), but they don't come any nicer than Vin Marco, Ben Kieren and Bruce Beckham: stand-up guys, all.

1) Well-reviewed guys on Daddy's are professional and will be understanding of your intimidation and can cater to your vanilla needs. Just talk to them and discuss what you're looking for, and you will find most of them personable and agreeable.
 
2) Keep your expectations reasonable; elaborate fantasies or numerous demands aren't really conducive to a good session. Again, your provider is a professional - let him do what he knows how to do!
 
3) Trust your instincts - if it doesn't sound right or like a good fit, it probably isn't.
 
4) Above all: you are entitled to have fun - so have some!

1) Well-reviewed guys on Daddy's are professional and will be understanding of your intimidation and can cater to your vanilla needs. Just talk to them and discuss what you're looking for, and you will find most of them personable and agreeable.
 
2) Keep your expectations reasonable; elaborate fantasies or numerous demands aren't really conducive to a good session. Again, your provider is a professional - let him do what he knows how to do!
 
3) Trust your instincts - if it doesn't sound right or like a good fit, it probably isn't.
 
4) Above all: you are entitled to have fun - so have some!

1) Well-reviewed guys on Daddy's are professional and will be understanding of your intimidation and can cater to your vanilla needs. Just talk to them and discuss what you're looking for, and you will find most of them personable and agreeable.
 
2) Keep your expectations reasonable; elaborate fantasies or numerous demands aren't really conducive to a good session. Again, your provider is a professional - let him do what he knows how to do!
 
3) Trust your instincts - if it doesn't sound right or like a good fit, it probably isn't.
 
4) Above all: you are entitled to have fun - so have some!

1) Well-reviewed guys on Daddy's are professional and will be understanding of your intimidation and can cater to your vanilla needs. Just talk to them and discuss what you're looking for, and you will find most of them personable and agreeable.
 
2) Keep your expectations reasonable; elaborate fantasies or numerous demands aren't really conducive to a good session. Again, your provider is a professional - let him do what he knows how to do!
 
3) Trust your instincts - if it doesn't sound right or like a good fit, it probably isn't.
 
4) Above all: you are entitled to have fun - so have some!

1) Well-reviewed guys on Daddy's are professional and will be understanding of your intimidation and can cater to your vanilla needs. Just talk to them and discuss what you're looking for, and you will find most of them personable and agreeable.
 
2) Keep your expectations reasonable; elaborate fantasies or numerous demands aren't really conducive to a good session. Again, your provider is a professional - let him do what he knows how to do!
 
3) Trust your instincts - if it doesn't sound right or like a good fit, it probably isn't.
 
4) Above all: you are entitled to have fun - so have some!

1) Well-reviewed guys on Daddy's are professional and will be understanding of your intimidation and can cater to your vanilla needs. Just talk to them and discuss what you're looking for, and you will find most of them personable and agreeable.
 
2) Keep your expectations reasonable; elaborate fantasies or numerous demands aren't really conducive to a good session. Again, your provider is a professional - let him do what he knows how to do!
 
3) Trust your instincts - if it doesn't sound right or like a good fit, it probably isn't.
 
4) Above all: you are entitled to have fun - so have some!

As TB would say: “hooker drama”.
 
After many years, I’ve learned that cancellations, with or without notice or excuses of varying degrees of believability, are part of the territory. It’s annoying and sometimes infuriating. But it’s unavoidable.
 
Honestly, how I handle it depends much on the guy and sometimes my mood. I might give the guy another shot, I might not. One regular is such a friend now that a cancellation from him is no more upsetting than it would be with any other friend. There’s another regular whom, by all rights, I should never give the time of day given his repeated incommunicado no-shows and lame excuses, but I have a soft spot for the guy and for some reason I put up with it. Yet another (5-star celeb as far as these forums go) will never hear from me again after a half-hour’s notice cancellation with a ludicrous excuse after days of planning and multiple confirmations (all at his insistence) topped off with a nasty text from him when I dared let him know I was annoyed.
 
This last guy is incredibly well-reviewed here and the recipient of lavish praise, but the way I see it isn’t that I missed out on a great time with a top-notch provider, but that he missed out on one of the most easy-going, loyal, generous and undemanding clients he’d ever know. I say that because I hold myself to the same standards as I hold the escort. I try never to cancel; I can remember only once doing so because a hurricane forced me to cancel a trip, and I called the escort immediately and told him the truth. I don’t play games - a booking is a booking - and I keep my word regarding time, date, place, price and all other particulars.
 
I always have a backup plan. I only hire when traveling, so I make sure I have a Plan B (totally agree with the “take one for the team” mentality). That doesn’t always work out, though, so I have a nice meal, or a movie or some other event on the back burner just in case so I don’t feel like I’ve wasted a night.
 
Or day – I’ve grown to appreciate nooners. Lunch or afternoon sessions are much less subject to cancellation due to a better offer coming along, and give more time to schedule an alternative for that day if they do cancel.
 
BTW – since I’ll be in Boston soon – who was the incredible last-minute stand in?

As TB would say: “hooker drama”.
 
After many years, I’ve learned that cancellations, with or without notice or excuses of varying degrees of believability, are part of the territory. It’s annoying and sometimes infuriating. But it’s unavoidable.
 
Honestly, how I handle it depends much on the guy and sometimes my mood. I might give the guy another shot, I might not. One regular is such a friend now that a cancellation from him is no more upsetting than it would be with any other friend. There’s another regular whom, by all rights, I should never give the time of day given his repeated incommunicado no-shows and lame excuses, but I have a soft spot for the guy and for some reason I put up with it. Yet another (5-star celeb as far as these forums go) will never hear from me again after a half-hour’s notice cancellation with a ludicrous excuse after days of planning and multiple confirmations (all at his insistence) topped off with a nasty text from him when I dared let him know I was annoyed.
 
This last guy is incredibly well-reviewed here and the recipient of lavish praise, but the way I see it isn’t that I missed out on a great time with a top-notch provider, but that he missed out on one of the most easy-going, loyal, generous and undemanding clients he’d ever know. I say that because I hold myself to the same standards as I hold the escort. I try never to cancel; I can remember only once doing so because a hurricane forced me to cancel a trip, and I called the escort immediately and told him the truth. I don’t play games - a booking is a booking - and I keep my word regarding time, date, place, price and all other particulars.
 
I always have a backup plan. I only hire when traveling, so I make sure I have a Plan B (totally agree with the “take one for the team” mentality). That doesn’t always work out, though, so I have a nice meal, or a movie or some other event on the back burner just in case so I don’t feel like I’ve wasted a night.
 
Or day – I’ve grown to appreciate nooners. Lunch or afternoon sessions are much less subject to cancellation due to a better offer coming along, and give more time to schedule an alternative for that day if they do cancel.
 
BTW – since I’ll be in Boston soon – who was the incredible last-minute stand in?

This reminds me of the story about Princess Margaret and Elizabeth Taylor, when they were at some important function. Taylor was wearing the famous 33+ carat Krupp diamond, which Princess Margaret said was pretty, but that she thought such large diamonds were vulgar. Taylor persuaded the Princess to try the ring on, whereupon Taylor purred "There. It's not so vulgar now, is it?"

I agree with you, littlenut. There's been plenty of hot escorts with whom I've had fun, and while very few have been real jerks, many weren't especially chatty or considerate or even friendly. (Which is fine - I'm not paying them to sell me a timeshare.) But it's always the nice guys that I'll hire again and again. Tristan Baldwin is, for good reason, at the top of many peoples' list (mine included), but they don't come any nicer than Vin Marco, Ben Kieren and Bruce Beckham: stand-up guys, all.