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AGREED!!

What I wouldn’t give in order to be able to bury my nose in those briefs at his ankles.

Please don’t apologize. I rather enjoyed your rant. You make a very good point. And I agree 100%.

In theory, I’m with @DMonDude but in reality I’d say @Pd1_jap probably is closer to the mark. The butt wants what it wants … until it doesn’t. In the end (no pun intended) there are no hard and fast rules. Communicate, communicate, communicate.

Yeah, I got that, too. And at that age that was the worst tag to have affixed to you.

Right there! That’s it! Before the 80’s, by my calculation, it all seemed perfectly normal. Getting back to the original topic - teachers showering with students - I remember the Phys Ed coaches at my junior high and high schools showering with students at the end of their work day and except for my (silent) admiration of their hairy ample equipment I don’t recall thinking it was unusual. Nor do I recall them acting untoward. My first memory of a locker room is my Dad saying to me, “It’s just guys. Get undressed.” (Easy for him; my Dad was a STUD!) I’m old & fat now and I still think nothing of getting undressed in front of other men. Times have changed. I kinda get the “creep” factor of an adult male teacher showering with his students. But 40-50 years ago I thought nothing of it.

I recall going to BIBLE CAMP in the 70’s (‘77 or ‘78) and the college-age cabin counselors would shower with the boys. Nobody thought anything of it. One counselor I can see in my mind to this day was what I now know was a perfect Castro clone specimen … even before I knew what a Castro clone was! (White briefs. Moustache. Dark hair. Hairy chest. Treasure trail.) My own cabin counselor was a trim, taut hairy blonde guy with a big dong who didn’t wear underpants. Even the “visiting minister” showered with the boys; by day he was a nerd but naked in the shower he was a hot dude! I think the 70’s were the last decade where boys were told that is was “OK” to be naked with other boys; that it was no big deal. Over and over I heard, “It’s just the guys! Get over yourself!” when we expressed trepidation about group showers and locker rooms. I used to go with my Dad to his father’s club and walk through the locker room filled with mostly naked men, a cloud of cigarette smoke and an ocean of Scotch. Sure, one looked but one didn’t point or laugh or stare too long. My grandfather would introduce me to his friends and everyone was cool. I get where the OP’s experience might suggest a certain “creepiness”, but given the time frame suggested I think it was just accepted as the norm. Looking back, do I think one or more of the adult men showering with boys to be a creepy voyeur? Yeah, probably. I guess as long as it didn’t go beyond showering next to each other it was all right. Or, at least, “not wrong”. I’m so f*cking old.

Darling, you’ve probably just dodged a bullet. I understand the disappointment; it’s happened to many of us. Consider yourself lucky. Give yourself a day or two and then start planning your next encounter. Thank you, also, for telling the community about your experience.

I am throat-swabbed and anal-swabbed every 3 months at my local university’s men’s clinic. At the same time the lab draws the blood to check for the other STI’s, and I do UA as well. They renew my Prep and other meds at the same time. Great group of men and women working there.

I like it when I get a text afterwards saying “Thank you.” (Or some version thereof.) Small gesture but it means a lot. I like it, also, when providers let me know when they are going to be in my area so that we can plan ahead.

Those singlets have no secrets …

In Albuquerque, it was $3.39 last night (Sunday), and that’s a 40 cent increase in the last week. I expect it to be higher this morning. IIRC, oil prices have shot past $100/barrel.

OH, IF ONLY!!

That was stated extremely well. Thank you.

Doesn’t matter as long as each guy is getting what he wants. I’m a big guy and I have a smaller friend who can work my nips quite like seen in the gif. Dude tops me beautifully.