MikeBiDude

@Juan Vancouver
 
Wondering who you think your Eve Harrington might be when you're almost done after so many years? Just curious.
 
And I'll be here, waiting on the pontificating (again, again and again).............with my Meryl Streep wig (not the Eve Harrington-one) atop my head.
 
Good grief.
 

@Juan Vancouver
 
Wondering who you think your Eve Harrington might be when you're almost done after so many years? Just curious.
 
And I'll be here, waiting on the pontificating (again, again and again).............with my Meryl Streep wig (not the Eve Harrington-one) atop my head.
 
Good grief.
 

Please don't "love" anything about what I say . But thanks for the "almost" equalization to Meryl. I enjoy her work, you don't??
 
You're not all-knowing as much as you think, Il Papa. Communicants, the partakers of the wafer, are growing weary after so many years. So many...........
 
Another papal edict will be forthcoming, no doubt.
 
Again, my dear, Good Grief.

Please don't "love" anything about what I say . But thanks for the "almost" equalization to Meryl. I enjoy her work, you don't??
 
You're not all-knowing as much as you think, Il Papa. Communicants, the partakers of the wafer, are growing weary after so many years. So many...........
 
Another papal edict will be forthcoming, no doubt.
 
Again, my dear, Good Grief.

There's a few of us here that have been having good results. I think you have to enjoy "the hunt", which I do - both on SA and also traditional sites like RentMen. It's part of why I've also had luck with Craigslist, Backpage, Etc.
 
Give it a try again....

Ok, how's this for "best of the bad" SA messages:
 
 
"hello my name is Andrew almanza I'm a really famous celebrity and I'm being held hostage by my father who is trying to have incest with me I'm married to Justin Bieber can I please get a loan of 100k and I will pay you back double or triple the amount and set you up with any celebrity you want please it's an emergency"
 
He's blocked

Favorite part: "Boston's new lifestyle has had consequences. His wife divorced him (she dismissed his claim of being polyamorous as just an excuse for cheating), he says that he was excommunicated from the Cupertino Mormon church, and he's living in a trailer. But he evinces no regrets..."

Yup, there's a lot of chaff to go through to get to those wheat kernels...but they are there for you

Pretty well balanced article, a good read. Thanks for posting it

Good review of SA men. I will add to take a very light hearted approach. Do not get upset or demand things if things don't go your way with a young man. There are plenty of young men on SA and more get on every day. Just move on. I do think it is important to be right up front about sex but do not be over sexual. If you want sex and they don't move on. Too many guys think they can meet a rich older man just for company. I am sure there are older men that just want company but most want sex in some type of relationship.

I wasn't offended. Terms like "keyboard justice worrier" are just an attempt at gaslighting, which is frequently bully or troll behavior. That's the only reason I mentioned it. What strangers think of me doesn't offend me since they don't know me.

It's actually probably a worthless and possibly predatory website. Somebody once thought that it would be the next-new-good-thing for escorts, but it probably really isn't. It's become a revenue generating website, and in some instances, a website where anyone can post un-verified information about someone else who might have a grudge and blackmail them into removing said posted personal information.
 
The information contained within, could very well be self-generated by the website-owners to simply create revenue for the owners of the site. Public information about people is just too easy to obtain to consider otherwise without better vetting of the people running it.

You can add clients who are batshit crazy--there are a lot of us out there, probably way more than crazy escorts.

Yes I would and I do

I continue to use it with pretty good success. I filter the profiles for distance and age. I look for profiles that are interesting and say hello. I ask them upfront if they expect sex to be a part of the arrangement. If they say no, I tell them I do and wish them luck. I have met three so far and slept with all three. Remember these aren't pros, well usually not, (Avi Dar is on the site) so performance is not scripted. All three were nice guys, one looking for a boyfriend (I'm not) the other needed a little work at the gym and the third is a real sweetheart. I am going to do another meeting with him. There is a fourth that I have scheduled for next month. Financial needs and expectations vary. There is usually some travel expense involved and at least an overnight stay, unless you are in New York. If you filter over 25 you get a lot of right out of school trying to get by on starting salary types and not so many twinks and students who don't know really what they want. It's a different market place so it takes a different mindset but definitely worth your while. Also, somewhere back in this thread it talks about the % of straight marriages in this country that have some financial facet. That is so true in both the gay and straight world. Anyway, take a different approach to this site, realize that there are no free rides anywhere and see where it takes you.

Yes, I believe it is around $30/mo and SB premium membership seems similarly to RentMents premium membership options: profile placement on the search screen results, ability to filter searches based on income and net worth, creation of a gift wishlist, etc.

It's a great sight for "leads"
 
The quality of guys I've met - after some vetting - is generally good
 
I've made friends, fwb plus so far

Just down the road. Matter fact, the tornadoes always hit Hot Springs Village right before they get to my house

Yup
One companion shared with me an innocuous factoid about myself (on the confidentiality level of not liking broccoli) which I had only shared with one other companion. I've not contacted the indiscreet companion since.
Loose lips sink ships.

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Well, well, well
 
Keith, this is one of my SA boys (under a different name). In fact, I took some of those pix he displays.
I don't want a zillion PMs so I'll say here that my one encounter with him was actually quite enjoyable. QUITE!!!
 
He's young and a bit hungry / aggressive which gave me the vibe of an hour boy even though he said he wasn't. I didn't pursue things with him as an "arrangement" because I sensed he was being dishonest with me. Not that I haven't longed for another heart throbbing session with him.
 
He is a (semi?) professional dancer who also teaches dance which may explain some of the comments above.
 
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Of course, nowadays it's a completely different calculus. But back in The Outsiders day the "problem" with TC was that he didn't need anybody's $500 when was getting 20x that from Geffen. Ironically, my understanding is now he's the one paying.
 
(Allegedly. I don't want my bank accounts to disappear in some Scientology puff of smoke. LOL.)

Tom Cruise (circa 1984 and even now)....

Honestly, if you find the price of an annual subscription to SA to be EVEN SLIGHTLY BOTHERSOME then you have no business trying to pass yourself off as someone rich enough to be a sugar daddy. Face facts.

Really?

Rm ad says he is vers/top. I can attest to that. What a fun playful guy and can he deliver