Would you hire someone whose ad runs counter to their personal profile?

[CatnameFelix]

This is a spin off of something I posted on the Ask An Escort section. Would you be able to hire a guy how's ad say they will do one thing, but their personal account says that they either don't like that thing, or they like the opposite?

 

Would you hire someone who advertises as a Total Top/Bottom, if you found out that their Grindr account has them as the exact opposite? How about an Verse guy, who's Grindr account says they're not into anal. I want to cover as many bases as possible.

[adventurous old guy]

You've hit a nerve here. When I see an ad that interests me, I reach out and kick the tires. Often find that someone who advertises as a "good/great communicator" is anything but. I guess interpretations vary, sort of like measurements of penis size LOL.

 

Usually I just find this amusing -- kids say the darnedest things! But I did just have the following experience with a self-described good communicator that crossed the line from amusing to annoying. Was in Baltimore last month, where selection is limited. Saw a new ad from a visiting escort. Friendly prose, good pics, listed offered activities with some specificity, professional fees set forth, all pretty clear but no reviews anywhere. So I reached out with a message that described what I was looking for and included the statement that I always play safe. When he responded, the fee schedule was $100 higher and an added offer that for that price he'd let me "breed him." So he clearly hadn't read my message plus he completely misgauged me. And just maybe he didn't remember his own ad or somebody else wrote it, who knows? Anyway he wasted both his time and mine -- that was the annoying part.

 

Btw --the new ask was $400/hr -- highest advertised cost for anyone in Baltimore that day, on top of no reviews. Backed out and wished him luck with his business!

Edited April 8, 2017 by adventurous old guy

[MikeBiDude]

Yes I would and I do

[+ nycman]

Yes I would and I do

 

Same here.

 

Sometimes a guy's "private" sexual life and his "professional" sexual life are two very different things.

 

All I care about is his "professional" life.

 

Some guys I've hired are total tops in private, but are worried about getting hard with guys

that they're not sexually attracted to, so they're total bottoms professionally.....works for me!

[Jim_n_NYC]

Sorry....contor?

[CatnameFelix]

Sorry....contor?

Counter, lol. This is my second thread created using my phone, and my second typo in the title. I'm seeing a trend.

[LADoug1]

No.

[+ sniper]

For me the only issue would be if they are mean in their list of "nos" personally. It's fine if you have a type, but you don't need to be disrespectful to those who aren't.

[marylander1940]

This is a spin off of something I posted on the Ask An Escort section. Would you be able to hire a guy how's ad say they will do one thing, but their personal account says that they either don't like that thing, or they like the opposite?

 

Would you hire someone who advertises as a Total Top/Bottom, if you found out that their Grindr account has them as the exact opposite? How about an Verse guy, who's Grindr account says they're not into anal. I want to cover as many bases as possible.

 

Interesting thread and I'm glad you've started it.

 

This is the reason why I don't hire guys who are allegedly straight, because I want to hire someone who at least is attracted to men and not thinking of pussy/breast while he is with me.

 

May I add a spin to your thread @CatnameFelix ?

 

Would yinz hire someone who is a total douchebag (full of attitude) on his grindr profile? I wouldn't hire him either.

 

Billy Santoro's profile on Grindr says: "I get paid to have sex with some of the hottest men on Earth... why would I fuck you if you're not extremely hot?"

[CatnameFelix]

Interesting thread and I'm glad you've started it.

 

This is the reason why I don't hire guys who are allegedly straight, because I want to hire someone who at least is attracted to men and not thinking of pussy/breast while he is with me.

 

May I add a spin to your thread @CatnameFelix ?

 

Would yinz hire someone who is a total douchebag (full of attitude) on his grindr profile? I wouldn't hire him either.

 

Billy Santoro's profile on Grindr says: "I get paid to have sex with some of the hottest men on Earth... why would I fuck you if you're not extremely hot?"

 

Aloud, and may I just say that I think Billy Santoro is the ugliest gay in mainstream porn. I was under the impression that he was paying the studios to be in them. (I so glad you posted that quote, it's very freeing)

[olympus]

He's beyond belief. Get a load of his attitude on Flirt4Free. Someone had the temerity to question who he was. An abusive outburst ensued.

[adventurous old guy]

 

Sometimes a guy's "private" sexual life and his "professional" sexual life are two very different things.

 

All I care about is his "professional" life.

 

Some guys I've hired are total tops in private, but are worried about getting hard with guys

that they're not sexually attracted to, so they're total bottoms professionally.....works for me!

 

I liked this ad because I respect the ability to "become" someone different in one's service work than who one is in real life. The thought is exciting.

 

BUT, are there REALLY guys who are great professional bottoms even though straight or tops in real life? Urban myth I suspect.

Edited April 10, 2017 by adventurous old guy

[DaddyCub]

I made a similar post once concerning an escort that had "good" reviews without actually naming the escort. I noted that while he had a few positive reviews, his comments and attitude in his Scruff profile were completely counter to his professional persona.

 

I seem to remember getting angry responses (some of them escorts) by a couple people for expressing my disappointment in his attitude; but I maintain that if he's expressing negative attitudes towards those who aren't young, model handsome, and/or have perfect gym bodies like him in his personal profile, I have trouble believing those same attitudes won't come through in his "work".

[Mydavid]

I would say "No", the same as the fact that I will never hire an escort who says he is straight.

[tennisjock]

I have seen some total tops who bottom on film for Lucas Kazan etc and with clients would only top.. the best ass I have ever ever ever seen and tasted period. Pietro Rosselli ... from Buenos Aires and half Italian breathtaking man

[caldude]

Interesting thread and I'm glad you've started it.

 

This is the reason why I don't hire guys who are allegedly straight, because I want to hire someone who at least is attracted to men and not thinking of pussy/breast while he is with me.

 

May I add a spin to your thread @CatnameFelix ?

 

Would yinz hire someone who is a total douchebag (full of attitude) on his grindr profile? I wouldn't hire him either.

 

Billy Santoro's profile on Grindr says: "I get paid to have sex with some of the hottest men on Earth... why would I fuck you if you're not extremely hot?"

 

Could be possible that someone is using his pic as a profile pic. I have always found most to be fake.

[Guy Fawkes]

Kind of creepy to hear somebody reaching into a private life. Seems to be too many bases.

 

This is a spin off of something I posted on the Ask An Escort section. Would you be able to hire a guy how's ad say they will do one thing, but their personal account says that they either don't like that thing, or they like the opposite?

 

Would you hire someone who advertises as a Total Top/Bottom, if you found out that their Grindr account has them as the exact opposite? How about an Verse guy, who's Grindr account says they're not into anal. I want to cover as many bases as possible.

Edited April 11, 2017 by Guy Fawkes

[CatnameFelix]

Kind of creepy to hear somebody reaching into a private life. Seems to be too many bases.

 

Hey-hey now, I'm not talking about stalking here, or breaking into their homes and reading there mail, lol. If you live in or visit a big city, and use Grindr, Scruff, or Jack'd you're going to see an escort's profile at some point. And anything they put on there, is what they want to be public.

 

I hope we don't start making it a rule that you can't click on an escorts personal ad, because I've been hit on and hookup with a lot of guys who I didn't know were escorts. I even hookup up with a guy who fits this thread to a tee. He hit me up and told me he was a total bottom, and he wasn't lying. We met several times before he moved to Manhattan proper. Later I stubble on to his ad on Rentmen, and he's advertising as a top. Now if I had seen his ad first, and I didn't click on his personal ad because of it, I would have missed out on some great nights:p

[marylander1940]

Hey-hey now, I'm not talking about stalking here, or breaking into their homes and reading there mail, lol. If you live in or visit a big city, and use Grindr, Scruff, or Jack'd you're going to see an escort's profile at some point. And anything they put on there, is what they want to be public.

 

I hope we don't start making it a rule that you can't click on an escorts personal ad, because I've been hit on and hookup with a lot of guys who I didn't know were escorts. I even hookup up with a guy who fits this thread to a tee. He hit me up and told me he was a total bottom, and he wasn't lying. We met several times before he moved to Manhattan proper. Later I stubble on to his ad on Rentmen, and he's advertising as a top. Now if I had seen his ad first, and I didn't click on his personal ad because of it, I would have missed out on some great nights:p

 

Exactly!

 

One thing is stalking other thing is running into an escort's Instagram, Grindr, or even finding out his facebook account just after googling his cellphone and discovering his a 9/11 truther or his racist posts in a blog.

 

Example:

 

https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/does-rm-have-a-responsibility-to-block-ads-from-people-like-brodie-sinclair.110665/

 

How many of yinz have been scared of hiring someone after seeing his mugshot? May I remind yinz that part of the plan was NOT getting caught and the fact that an escort has his mugshot out there means he simply got caught while other young men got away with drugs or acts of violence.

 

Would any of yinz hire an escort after finding out he faked his own death?

[CatnameFelix]

 

Would any of yinz hire an escort after finding out he faked his own death?

 

Now, now, I can't imagine someone would defined someone whose done this. Especially on this board.

 

 

 

 

oh wait...

[marylander1940]

Now, now, I can't imagine someone would defined someone whose done this. Especially on this board.

 

 

 

 

oh wait...

 

and he used to be our sweetheart.....

[Guy Fawkes]

The rule is that you can't talk about private information on the message-forum. If you have a problem with that, its time to move on,.

 

Hey-hey now, I'm not talking about stalking here, or breaking into their homes and reading there mail, lol. If you live in or visit a big city, and use Grindr, Scruff, or Jack'd you're going to see an escort's profile at some point. And anything they put on there, is what they want to be public.

 

I hope we don't start making it a rule that you can't click on an escorts personal ad, because I've been hit on and hookup with a lot of guys who I didn't know were escorts. I even hookup up with a guy who fits this thread to a tee. He hit me up and told me he was a total bottom, and he wasn't lying. We met several times before he moved to Manhattan proper. Later I stubble on to his ad on Rentmen, and he's advertising as a top. Now if I had seen his ad first, and I didn't click on his personal ad because of it, I would have missed out on some great nights:p

[CatnameFelix]

The rule is that you can't talk about private information on the message-forum. If you have a problem with that, its time to move on,.

This is a hypothetical thread, no names are being mentioned! If we can't talk about the personal lives of fictional people, then yeah, I'm out!

[Guy Fawkes]

I gave you a hypothetical opinion that it sounded creepy. You're the one getting your panties in a twist.

 

http://images.memes.com/meme/898958

This is a hypothetical thread, no names are being mentioned! If we can't talk about the personal lives of fictional people, then yeah, I'm out!

[CatnameFelix]

I gave you a hypothetical opinion that it sounded creepy. You're the one getting your panties in a twist.

 

http://images.memes.com/meme/898958

I'm not getting anything twisted, I show how you saw the thread and, tried to make sure it didn't go in a creepy territory. I don't know if you feel like I'm attacking you, because I'm not. (Can't say I feel the reverse) I'm doing my best to explain the point of this thread. If someone goes out of his way to find out personal information about someone, they disservice what comes to them. I'm talking about simply stumbling into information. If you want to keep this thread creepy, and insult me, go ahead.