MikeBiDude

I still don’t get it ?

This comes up often on Seeking and other venues I meet young men at. They say “no sex”. But after our first meet, or whenever connection/chemistry strikes and things get romantic and we adjourn to “the sheets”, EVERYTHING happens except any anal intercourse. Hours later they’ll still claim “we had a lot of fun without having sex...” Is it a sign of the times? Current generation?

I didn’t necessarily mean this particular case could be viewed as customer versus employee harassment in California, nor did I mean just giving an email address was the issue. I just meant to say it could happen, and if in fact it did… The employee would have have some contact info for the customer...the email address.

Sometimes it just “happens” that you can’t find somebody. It’s frustrating especially if you’ve planned a trip/visit with special time allotted for that kind of fun. But it happens.....none of the regulars are available, RM guys aren’t appealing/available, Grindr isn’t happening, etc. It’s a fact of life with this hobby, it will happen even in a spot like NYC with a plethora or choices.

It’s difficult in the context and setting you’ve mentioned. In CA an employee can claim sexual harassment against a customer, and he’d have your email. You don’t really have any way for any give and take conversation, unless you can chat him up outside, on his break? These situations are often fun to pursue. Waiters, bartenders, valets, bellboys, I’ve had my mixed results. Proceed with caution.

‘Nuff said! Succinct and spot on

OMG yes....especially from someone who doesn’t even know you!

Also RE: wasted food in restaurants ....we need to look to our own kitchens and shopping habit also: Consumer wasted food

Reminder that Vicodin can add to blocking up “nature’s visits”. Take Lots of water, fiber too if you can.

Where did I say that?

Eh, not so much. “A person who organizes and operates a business or businesses, taking on greater than normal financial risks in order to do so.” more like this (quoted from a well established escort):

One of my young prospects on Seeking used this in his profile..I’m not ashamed to say, I had to google it! Glucose Guardian

?? ??‍♂️

So I’m in the “please pace my courses” school of thought. I like it that way. But, can I present the other side of the coin? Restaurants and servers are “trained“ in this behavior, BY CUSTOMERS. Yes, many of us want to pace our courses. But many, many customers are geared towards food=fuel, with no need to converse or enjoy. Order, drop the food, eat and leave. We are a bit of a unique group on this forum… And I would wager we are in the minority in the situation. Most diners in most restaurants want to eat and leave.

Not the same...and you know it.

People who walk out of brunch buffets with food in their pockets have never owned a restaurant or small business.

While there is good information in this thread....there is a LOT of overthinking of a very simple, everyday situation...that hoteliers are WELL aware of.

No, he didn’t follow up on text messages I moved on...

Or poorly trained employees on said POS

No...because if this, this, this, and this:

Exactly this....

¡Feliz Cumpleaños! @latbear4blk

I witnessed my son’s, at 2-3 days after his birth. Performed by the (female) OBGYN. She numbed the area with something, and used something like a cigar trimmer that had multiple sizes/cuts available. While not really pleasant, and clearly wasn’t pain-free it wasn’t the end if he world.

Which is why I routinely ignore any/all of the checked (or unchecked!) boxes and activities and preferences and just ask the man.

I’ve often considered that....but does the escort want the account active? Do they have a veto over someone buying a gift membership and activating the account?