Lohengrin1979

Could also be loose skin removal scars from a large weight loss
Considering his equipment, I highly doubt he’s FtM. If he is, I want to meet that surgeon for an…inquiry.

Yeah i immediately passed this one by. A lot of photo editing, and not competent editing at that, going on.

My relationship with money is a committed one.
I haven’t hired very much in a while, maybe two legit massages over the past several months. I would really like to do more but have been saving. To economize, I’ve been doing massage trades from time to time, 1:1 with local guys, usually 90 mins each.
A few weeks ago I hosted four other masseurs for a group massage exchange. We shared tips and techniques and enjoyed switching off on one another for 25 mins at a time, rotating out who is getting a massage and who is giving, 1:1 and 2:1 since we had an odd number (5) and space for two tables. All nude of course - purely for practical and efficiency reasons, I assure you 😆.
It was a lot of fun. Good guys.

From left to right: André, Brant, Yours Truly, Peter, and Newell (not pictured) Newell had to run to his next client before we thought to take this group pic. Sorry for the low quality selfie. Better than nothing, I guess.
We all showered together afterwards in my large dual head shower and scrubbed each other down. Yes, we all fit together, even hulking Newell, with space to spare. Truly a big shower! One of these days I’ll have a whole rugby team in there #goals.

 

I'm a top who very selectively rims, but has zero issue with oral. 
Bottom line, rimming is far riskier than sucking dick, especially if either party hasn't had their hep vaxes.
Also, a lot of guys can keep their cock clean, but don't have a clue when it comes to hole maintenance.

SDT?
But yeah, this topic has been well-worn here and realistically, legalization isn't happening anytime soon.
I know people who have gotten HIV from Grindr trade.  Getting a disease takes no talent...  Just the idiocy of not protecting yourself.
It takes two to tango.  If you're going to fuck raw, know what PrEP is and use it.
Otherwise, either don't fuck raw in the first place or don't complain when things turn out badly for you.
Take responsibility for your own health at all times.

I think the overall problem is lack of empathy. It’s not restricted to providers. 
And how many older gentlemen, when turning down those they don’t want to be with, do so with the respect they crave or relax their criteria to accept a proposition - as they wish / expect from the younger ones.
Bottom line: you can’t force people to like what they don’t like, but you can expect them to be respectful. I don’t know if todays youth is worse than prior generations. 

Could also be loose skin removal scars from a large weight loss
Considering his equipment, I highly doubt he’s FtM. If he is, I want to meet that surgeon for an…inquiry.

Yeah i immediately passed this one by. A lot of photo editing, and not competent editing at that, going on.

Could also be loose skin removal scars from a large weight loss
Considering his equipment, I highly doubt he’s FtM. If he is, I want to meet that surgeon for an…inquiry.

Yeah i immediately passed this one by. A lot of photo editing, and not competent editing at that, going on.

Les is more?

Looks like a lot of photoshopping to enhance his arms.

No, avoid, do not pass go. Unless he’s gotten very intensive mental health treatment. When I saw him he had huge issues with his sexuality, with his attraction to men, and family issues as well. He seemed on the verge of snapping. It was a terrifying experience just laying there while he babbled about all his issues. If he’s gotten better, good for him but I would never repeat.

And yet people keep posting about whether to pay deposits or any other things upfront. 

Thanks for joining the Forum just to rant here twice about Cody for your intro posts. For me, I think coming out and telling you personally that he wasn’t feeling well was an upstanding move. He could have left it to the front desk. And since when does one have to “look or sound” sick to not be well? 

Since when do you have to look sick to be sick? I don't get this. How is it unprofessional to come out to the reception area and explain his issue to the customer? If I were Cody, I would have had a receptionist handle the explanation, and never made face-to-face contact with the customer. Who needs a selfish, unreasonable customer complaining about a cancelled appointment when you're not feeling good? Anyone can get a last-minute illness. My God, I've had food poisoning so many times in NYC. I can assure you, it didn't show on my face, but the stench from my soiled underwear was awful. I find this "DON'T BOOK" post pretty offensive, and unnecessary. The guy was nice enough to greet you and explain. He doesn't deserve a hissy fit.

He’s right. I guess I’m one of the ‘older’ guys in the business - in the daddy category. There’s no shortage of younger guys wanting a daddy experience, and prepared to hire for it. There’s also plenty of older guys looking for things that older providers can provide that younger guys can’t or won’t do, such as intimacy, being empathetic and actually turning up on time not being hung over or high and treating their client as a person rather than just another punter (apologies to those younger guys in the business who are professional- I don’t mean to stereotype, younger reliable guys do exist but are not easy to find in the crowd!)
That’s the other thing. There’s loads of younger guys doing sex work, with a wide range of quality. There’s far fewer older guys, and those who are doing it have stuck around at it because they’re good. People hire for all sorts of reasons and age is not necessarily a factor that matters for many of those reasons. 
 

He’s very good with photoshop, and he’s managed to remain 26 for many years. 

I always chuckle when I see it written out like that. Translated it would read "the the tar tar pits."

Yup.
Marketing some version of domination play.
Remains to be seen if he's capable of providing a worthwhile experience for those so inclined to submit.

Isn’t this the dude who was advertising as Rape Massage previously? He seems to have a theme.

How sad. He auditioned for Rum Tum Tugger and got Rub Tug Tugger instead. Alas, we can all sympathize with that one great role slipping through our fingers

How sad. He auditioned for Rum Tum Tugger and got Rub Tug Tugger instead. Alas, we can all sympathize with that one great role slipping through our fingers

I wont’t say queeny but . . . aspiring royalty. Clearly disdains his role as a HK rub and tugger.  Never got over missing out on that role in CATS (the Guam Carnival Cruise Line tour.)