nynakedtop

My experience wasn't quite as bad as described above; however, when I saw him maybe 6-8 months ago he remained fully clothed and one could tell he is not in the same physical shape as the photos imply. Perhaps things have changed over the past half year.

 

Anyway, the massage itself was unmemorable except that when we concluded, while he had no hesitation initiating a HE, it became ROUGH. I had to physically restrain his arm because I thought he would injure me! I don't think that was his intention, but there seemed to be some real weirdness going on. I was glad to leave.

my first instinct was to assume that there was something "sketchy" about me... you know - that i look like one of those persons you move away from on the subway - but i did a real reality check on myself and i think i come off as pretty normal... and then some (my ridiculous politics notwithstanding....) and, i am not a clinician, but i wonder if some of his bizarre personality traits and weight gain have to do with his being medicated for something - just a guess.

he did do something memorable... i remember from the moment i arrived he seemed incapable of making any sort of eye contact - that in itself is troubling... but WOW this one goes down as one of the stories I will tell when people ask me what my worst/most bizarre experiences with guys have been!

Damn. He's a hottie.

he is... until you meet him!

Under NO circumstances should anyone even consider contacting this guy!

I had set something up with him yesterday (his place is not far from where I work....) and although I got a strange vibe from him during text messages I just wrote it off as perhaps a language issue. His pics were hot, his ad was good, his reviews strong.

But it got weirder and weirder - he texted me a few times during the day to confirm and re-confirm, he complained about guys who want to have sex with him and shortchange him.... but i appreciated that he re-confirmed with me - the latest being about an hour before the scheduled time.

And then things went SOUTH - and in a major way.

He is NOT the guy in the pics... or if he is, it is many years and many pounds different from the guy who opened the door. And he has this weird "socially awkward" (i.e., emotionally disturbed) vibe...

I was thinking how do I cut my losses... but then: after he asks me to remove my shoes, he tells me that he is not feeling well and needs to postpone the massage. (Dodged a bullet, yes.... but what a TOTAL ASSHOLE to pull a stunt like that!)

Long story short - THIS MAN IS THE PLAGUE... avoid him.

Agreed! Before I knew about the blocking feature on rentmen, I had a few block me. When I first started hiring I could not decide. I assume my viewing their profile to much pissed them off somehow.

what's a profile for, if not to be viewed???

Perhaps he has blocked a spectrum of “types” and your profile has fallen within that range. Have you tried contacting him in another fashion?

you are probably correct, YoungAD, but why would someone want to after all that went down? (just to satisfy a curious urge, perhaps?)

my RM profile is generous with information -- text and otherwise -- about me... i have been blocked by some guys because i went back to book them the day after i looked at their profile.

i feel the better that i did not hire someone so sketchy as to do such a thing!

i was also reluctant to email... but then i realized that there is a generational thing here - even my students rarely use email any more - it's all about texting in one form or another - so i am getting with that program

it is incredibly convenient to my place of work so i have been strongly considering a visit - any words of advice?

thanks!!

I approached him once (and likely will again) but he directed me to his online booking system - which, while an understandable and efficient decision on his part (i guess) - somehow was a bit of a turn off to me.....

Abel Rey has a YouTube channel

 

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCap2Y3_8a36s_gUYTsUgqWw

wow... i am in love with him now!

@nynakedtop do you have any massage places you can recommend? I am staying in Makati, and am prepared for the horrible traffic.

 

(Or @Bearman if you have already traveled to Manila... not sure when you were going.)

Most of the places I know are in Quezon City but I am checking with my local friends to see if there are any places more convenient to Makati to

Hey y’all he changed his name to Wolfethrone.

shady

What was this thread about?

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beats me... but i do have a recollection of it once being interesting and valuable!

I have spent much much time in Manila.... the situation there changes rapidly - clubs come and go.... neighborhoods come and go... bars come.... well, you get the idea

Where are you staying? Manila is HUGE.... and, I must sadly say, security can be a concern in that truly wonderful city1

There is an NYC escort who participates on this forum, not sure if I am allowed to mention @MikeCruiseNYC by name, who answered the door wearing only a smile and who has won my heart forever.

i usually do a crispy skin duck breast and take advantage of the duck fat to crispy-cook thin potato slices.... but this year a special request for crispy pork belly with a sweet-spicy thai chili sauce.

when it's 8 degrees outside in NYC it is nice to be at home!

i am always happy to respond to PMs, even though sometimes i am unforgivably tardy in doing so...

recently after i posted a word about a less than wonderful situation with a provider, i received many requests for information which i responded to appropriately.

one person, however, gave me pause as he repeatedly asked for an extremely detailed recounting of just what went on between the escort and me.... so detailed that it truly made me suspect that someone had an .... shall we say ... agenda, and that i was being used to further it.

going forward i will be more circumspect as to what i will say, and to who.... (this has no impact, of course, on the many good people here i regularly engage in chats with!)

i will not violate the rules of this forum, but i will give a one word preview.... "underwhelming"

would not repeat - review in the works.

Unusual. Looks juicy. Too many pictures. What does he mean by not cheap? Not a lot of info in his profile, the tone of which is more off putting than inviting. Resembles a sexy Harpo Marx. Hot looking mouth if he makes it available for deep kissing, etc.

after reading the text, i did not bother looking at the pictures.

my understanding is that he does much much more than massage....

any first hand experience?

Total waste of money. Scam artist. Don’t let the pics win you over. Minimal skills and cuts time very short. Stay away.

pity - his ad places him very close to my place of work and i was about to contact him... only thing that held me back was the lack of any really meaningful photos on his ad... now i guess i have a second reason, yes?

it's my favorite part of the world.

 

Saw reference to Uber above. There's been a lot of controversy over it in Bangkok. But Grab is the local/Asian version that works very well. There is Grab Taxi and Grab Car (as well as motorbike taxi if you're interested in that). It worked very well for me in Bangkok and Singapore recently. You can just go with the regular car which can be just about anything (I had Honda Fit and a Nissan pickup truck) or also premium car for a few bucks more. In Singapore I did premium since it wasn't much more expensive and had a very luxurious Toyota van, 5 series BMW and Volvo XC90. Or if you do Grab Taxi you get a regular taxi. But you know the cost upfront.

 

Lots of excellent hospitality all over SE Asia.

Grab was particularly helpful on trips to and from the airport - door to door service is particularly welcome when one is carrying luggage in hot, humid, congested Bangkok!

Having been to Thailand, Cambodia, Bali several times and as recent as a month back - her are some suggestions (I'm assuming you live in the US):

 

Bangkok (BKK) - Try staying at a US chain of hotels in BKK - and you wont have any surprises. My favorites are in the Ploenchit and Silom areas - and you can get reasonable prices at Agoda.com. Also consider staying at a service apartment such as the Centerpoint chain - good value for money. I never pay more than US$70-$80/night including breakfast for a 4 or 5 star property. The Thai hotels are cheaper but you can get surprises if you stay in the Nana area or around Soi 4 Patpong. Food is a plenty but stay away from raw food and bottled water is a must.

 

Transport by BTS (Skytrain) or the underground is easy to use; and Uber is also becoming popular. If you rent a taxi be sure the driver uses his meter.

Tourist areas include the Sleeping Buddha, the Wat Pho, the night markets etc - take an unlocked phone and get a prepaid SIM at the MBK market for 300 BHT (approx US$8) you will get free calls and unlimited 4G for 15 days. Calls/text messages to the US are cheaper than domestic calls

 

Tours are a plenty but stay away from deals in the Jewelry district or tour /massage/soapy packages from Tuk-Tuk drivers..They usually take you to dives and you will be disappointed. Visit the Royal Palace, the Sleeping Buddha and the night markets. Go to the Lamlukka area (BKK suburb) and get an authentic massage at the temple - cheap and awesome.

 

Consider taking an overnight trip to Pattaya Beach - lot of sleaze in Boy's Town.

 

Local gay action - check out dreadedneds.com - an excellent resort of what and where to visit for "gay fun" in Bangkok or Pattaya.

 

Travel to Cambodia - go through Bangkok or Singapore - 2 days is what you will need in Siem Reap. Be sure to take a bunch of $20 bills - a visa is available on arrival at the airport ($20) and 2 photos Be sure to see the Angkor Wat at daybreak and at dusk. My favorite place to stay is the Raflles hotel . An all day taxi will cost you $45-50.

Great gay action in downtown Siem Reap too.

 

Need more information - PM me

 

Rick

I agree with much of what Rick has written.... being someone with very deep roots in Thailand, I still find it a wonderful and fascinating place to visit, stay, live, whatever.

The only thing I would add is that if you are willing to tolerate a certain element of "surprise", some pretty amazing things can happen... it is not difficult to find a monthly rental for a vacation apartment that is more than nice for less than $1,000 - and if you are, as I am, happy to live on delicious Thai street food, your daily dining allowance can be less than $10.

as Rick said.... "Need more information - PM me", too!

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