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How many like this did you get?

Are they all the same, or did he try to be creative in his insults?

within the space of one or two hours, a total of 4...

the most offensive one was the first one:

Adorable. Thanks for sharing!

I am not one to jump to conclusions, but...

I have very little experience with New England masseurs (the guy sending me the emails is "RyanInRI", but I did recently post something here agreeing with someone who expressed skepticism about a Connecticut-based escort with whom I had some unpleasant conversations a few years back.

But, again, I have no way to substantiate my suspicion.

from two separate emails:

This morning I received a string of abusive emails from a RentMen "client" named RyanInRI.

I have no idea who this person is and wonder if I am the only one getting these emails. Perhaps it is a previous hire (or prospective hire) disguising his identity.

Am I the only person able to enjoy these emails? Any recommended course of action?

Thanks!

Eight reviews inside the last seven months, six by first time reviewers. Of the other two, one claims three reviews, but a search turns up none. The other claims five (and to have hired DeSantis four times), and there are indeed several different reviews to be found, plus about a decade ago he was a frequent poster here, although not for a while and hasn't chimed on on this thread.

but even more curious is that the substance of the reviews deviates considerably from discussions about the gentleman in question's online behavior(s)

Van Darkholme is one of the guys behind kink.com and appears in many of their earlier videos. I never knew that he was escorting.

thank you for the photo and the memories... he definitely did offer "services", but this was a good number of years ago - he also has his own personal website:

http://www.vandarkholme.com/

Help me here, guys...

When I was just turning my curiosity about paid companionship into taking action I met a wonderful Asian-American guy - Vietnamese I think...

Van???

Van Darkholme.???

Am I alone with my fond memories of him??

On the other hand.... enduring a flight from New York to Bangkok makes Paris feel almost local!

Well, don’t ignore the guy who created this thread

i sent you a link at the beginning of the thread - if you are in NYC, send me a PM, ok?

From your lips to God's ears! Bring back Rounds and Stella's!!!

 

http://www.papermag.com/10-sleazy-gay-places-from-nycs-glory-days-1427524835.html

Stella's was my absolute favorite... I remember making connections with some very hot guys.... and then helping them make bail a few days or weeks later (no causative connection there, I promise!)

More specific in his looks? I'm looking for a legitimate personal trainer, but who is muscular, handsome...sexy...and in NYC...

I sent you a PM - I may have your guy!

compañero --

i have been (quietly) following your blog for some time now, and i apologize for not having publicly shared just how GREAT it is - love your writing, love your take on things.

i strongly recommend latbear4blk's blog to all - even if you are not local to the DC area!

i do NYC - Bangkok at least once a year - i used to try to do it is "quickly" as possible, meaning like 21 hours or so in a plane... now i have discovered the wonders of what may seem to other travelers undesirable routings that require long layovers en route

this summer i found a way to get there that gives me an overnight in paris - that, along with my good pal Ambien, make the journey less than pure torture!

Couldn't you just have removed the cap and put it in your pocket??? They turned you away rather than asked you to remove it?

ummhh... what decade is this?

Make America Great Again.

I do not enjoy the company of drunk people who are not of my own choosing.

I am staying home.

All of the above comments are interesting, and I do think that as I said before it was partly my onw fault for being open to chat at the beginning and then once he was interested in what I did the conversation became more all about his interests and his singing etc, so I could probably have guided it away from there, but didnt want to seem impolite. Am also intrigued by the group sessions.......

not your fault at all.

i explicitly cut off the conversational stuff early on.... but the singing persisted.

but vocal skills notwithstanding, i still found the actual massage rehearsed and mechanical.

Don't think Aaron will forget you. He is a smart, sharp guy and obviously has a good business acumen with his set-up. I've been curious about his group message sessions that he or one of his possies holds there weekly. All of the participants get naked and learn to touch and explore each other. Seems exciting and I've heard that not all who attend have perfect bodies and is a mixed age group. If anyone can offer insight, let me know.

I have attended several variations on the session you allude to, and have found them fun. It is definitely a mixed group and what is wonderful about that is one generally finds less attitude and more horniness than one might otherwise encounter. There are some clear ground rules (no anal penetration) and some words shared about the nature of consent... it is also a sincere attempt to elevate group encounters into a mindful process...

More delicate questions I am happy to answer.

hahah also relieved to hear it was not just me!

it's bizarre...

i met aaron in "other" contexts and found him to be a bit self-absorbed, but i decided it was just my own perceptions that were altered by my typical crankiness. perhaps i should have followed my gut.

My experience with Aaron was less than excellent, totally OK but havent made a repeat. He could not stop talking about himself, nor singing along with the music and laughing at all his own "jokes". While a good masseur and a hot guy I found it super distracting and less than relaxing

i had the EXACT same experience with him... but, i mean... EXACT.

while hot and technically skilled, i found him totally dis-engaged. and that singing along thing - wow.... glad to hear it was not just me!

The MMX website says, about MMX, "It is a one-stop resource for in-shape guys who appreciate the benefits of healing touch."

 

Is Daddy Retreat also targeted at in-shape guys?

Daddy Retreat maintains an "open door" policy --

I know the 14th/6th Avenue space well... it is used by masseurs as a place to be able to do in-calls, and there is also studio space there that is used for various workshops, seminars, and the like exploring touch, sensuality, and.... whatever comes up. the space is managed by aaron, himself a masseur and -- shall i say -- "sex coach"?

i believe the entire enterprise is called "daddy retreat" (google for details...)

i have also spent time with caleb and he is quite good.... as well as several other masseurs who host there: aaron himself, brice, and so on...

aaron: https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/arlmtm4m.shtml

https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/strong_brice.shtml

happy to answer any questions....

A little surprised by the level of vitriol from some of our forum members as regards Jess. Not sure it's helpful.

perhaps consider that it does not fall, fully formed, from the sky

How are we feeling about 'Jeremias'? He looks very similar

 

https://rent.men/JEREMIAS

I have met Jeremias (several times) and his pictures very much reflect how he currently looks.

He has been 28 since 2006.