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he certainly can invite himself along but i strongly suggest that he come with a) his security detail and b) a weapon-resistant vest.

i fear that it's not just about sex.....

i'll get back to you on that!

hmmm, we may have run into one another - that was an awesome space (while it survived....)

was that the club on 38th between 8th and 9th?

i like 'em all, but i have a special place in my heart where "activities' take place unencumbered and unembarrassed!

and personal enactments of white supremacy are both the product and perpetuator of systemic white supremacy....

Not that I would too much first hand knowledge (hehe....), but I have found that in the sex clubs/parties I regularly attend, part of the hotness is the ritual of nakedness. Guys arrive, check their clothes... the mood is set... and what happens happens. Nudity is important to setting the tone: openness, eagerness, horniness. Sometimes guys are not allowed to keep their clothes on by virtue of the venue's rules, and that is fine with me. In places without strict rules, to me a guy wearing things in an otherwise naked party is a real buzz-kill... it just gives the wrong message. Again, not that I would know from first hand experience. Also, interesting side-note: I spend part of each year in south-east asia and nudity is far more unlikely there!

i agree with you 200%... i am trying to learn to temper my tone from time to time, but this is definitely not the place to exercise calm!

Sorry to enter this discussion late... it is an interesting and valuable one, and one that can easily open the very real wounds that some of our brothers carry as a result of mis-treatment because of their identity. One thing that resonates deeply for me is how white-ness plays out here. White people, especially men, can far more easily navigate through places -- actual or implied -- than any others in our world. There is almost an assumption that whiteness is the norm ... a kind of hegemonic whiteness... and that anything that is other-than-white is the exception that must be "dealt with" as the other. White men cannot possibly understand just how "easy" we have it - how our lives are not full of the aggressions (micro or otherwise) that are part of the daily realities of persons of color in our world. To suppose otherwise - to in any way imagine a world in which there is "color blindness' is to be delusional.

Ahhhh ok, I guess it's that i have always felt the opposite way.... thank god (hehe)

But isn't wearing clothes at a sex club kinda -- awkward? Just speaking for myself but then again check out my nickname here

hell YEAH.... but never went there because it was 1) in midtown (i never travelled north of 14th street), and 2) it wasn't the Ninth Circle!

is this appropriate place to say "WOW!"??

Lots of fun to be had in nyc!

I can comfortably live in Bangkok for a month on that amount of money.

agree with @marylander1940 ... besides, as the client, it's really not up to us to have to learn how to "navigate" our way... it's up to the provider to make it all as easy as possible.

i recorded the program for later watching... but it seems that my only reason for watching just left.

There was also a bar.... kinda scary...that guys who got banned from Stella's would go to... on like 41st street,just east of 9th avenue....dark and creepy and i think they had weekly big dick contests too.... Savoy maybe??????

Stella's was definitely my bar of choice - must have been during the 90s, right? i was quite young but really liked the rough "urban" guys who hung there, and made a few close friends there from amongst them... most ended up in jail for some time when i knew them, and i often helped their wives/girlfriends/kids (not monetarily....)

try: https://findyourtrainer.com/ it is not nationwide, but i have had good success with it here in NYC!

Eager for his return to New York City!!!

Quoting from his profile: Just so nobodys time is wasted I only get serviced. so please do not ask if I offer more I do not service in return, I do not top guys, and I do not bottom at all in any way!!! Charming.

i know that "taste" is a totally subjective thing, but... umhhh.... yikes.... uhhh.... no.....

someone needs an ego check..... 30 days, next case!