sam.fitzpatrick

@LoveNDino thanks for the research to disprove my suspicions.

@nate_sf and @ArVaGuy, Thanks for coordinating the upcoming event. My trip is booked and I am looking forward to seeing everyone.

Hmmm, as much as I want to believe what I see, "photoshopped" comes to mind.

My sister always liked the way my initials spelled "Sam." She wanted to use our father's first name as her son's middle name. She was care that the initials wouldn't have any negative connotation, and finally settled on Jackson Andrew Collins, so his initials are also a possible spelling of a shortened first name.

The photo of Helio Castroneves (#36) is one of my favorite from the ESPN "Body" Issues. It is a creative way to include a race driver without using a car or not in a pose typical of most other athletes' poses relating to their sport. And he is definitely having fun doing it. And the hint of a tan line is sexy. I like to believe he prefers a brief-style swimsuit at the beach like many Brazilian men.

The date stamps on the photos in his ads are from 2010.

A couple of years ago, I thought it would be fun to try a threesome. While I enjoyed myself with each escort individually, when the three of us were together, I completely got lost in too many choices - what should I do with whom, who's next, etc? I discussed this with Escort A and he suggested I was overthinking it. A year later I tried it again. The experience was better, but still not up to my expectations. I am so glad I tried it, and in all likelihood will try it again at some point. The one thing I have learned when it comes to this hobby, I will try anything once (well, not quite anything as scat is more than I can accept) to see if I like it with mixed results. Take watersports, I thought I would not ever do that. But once I did, although it does nothing for me, I realized that if was absolutely something that my partner must do, I could do it. On the other hand, I thought I would never get in a sling, but once I did....

Here's my two cents. Let the twins get through the adjustment of being separate first. Even if they suspect your interest in men, the emotional impact of knowing is often different than suspecting. P.S. Prepare yourself. Once you tell them, be ready for them to have the safe sex talk with you. Many of my now single friends (both widowed and divorced) have received it from their kids when the children found out their parent might be having sex with someone new.

I will also be in Ft. Lauderdale that weekend. What's the scoop?

No, it is not only you.

Cincy is a little hit or miss. When the pro teams are in town, the city has a different vibe to me than when they are not in town. Is this going to be a recurring trip for you?

I will be in Dallas this weekend. The link to the website no longer seems to work. Are they still open?

Fuzzy, this is near the top of my bucket list.

No experiences with Nuru. How is it different from tantric?

Saw him yesterday. I like him more each time I see him.

I better take my place in line now...

The only time I've seen one was for Andrea Martin singing No Time at All in Pippin while swinging from a trapeze.

I have a listing of authors of gay fiction that range from stories with erotic themes to stories with an occasional romantic moments. Two of my favorite authors are Greg Herren and Geoffrey Knight.

I saw this article a couple of years ago. Not sure how current it is, but it may help you start your search. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/billy-kolber/two-palm-springs-gay-resorts-receive-highest-rating_b_2944791.html

I think he is in Cincy this weekend. https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/luke462.shtml

I'll take Patrick Duffy in the shower any time.

how are they going to incorporate the children shown in the series finale? or are we expected to forget that Will has a son and Grace has a daughter?

While visiting Indy for the holidays, my Christmas gift to myself was an appointment with Luke. Perfect gift!

Tony gives an excellent massage. http://www.masseurfinder.com/members/twomagichands.shtml

I am planning some time in Ft. Lauderdale/Miami in the next few weeks. I have noticed that many of the gay resorts include a spa. I often get a massage when on vacation and enjoy ones that include mutual touch. Was wondering if the spas at these locations allow more than strictly therapeutic massages or if I would be better off finding a private masseur. Thoughts?