1) how many hands ? Usually right, but sometimes left.
2) Lubed or dry? Dry
3) clothed or nude ? Nude
4) standing, lying down, kneeling ? Usually lying down or sitting - sometime standing in the shower
5) butt play or no butt play ? occasional butt play
6) toys ? no toys
7) audience, group or solo ? solo
8) porn playing or silence? imagination, erotic reading, porn
9) cockring? no