sam.fitzpatrick

My tastes in porn swing wildly month-to-month, so there isn't necessarily any type of scene by itself that would turn me off. Tastes vary from guy to guy and if you film something that isn't to my taste, I'm not likely to watch it - - thus my hiring decision is not impacted. My recommendation: if you are going to do porn, do things that YOU enjoy doing. There are a couple of guys I've seen on video that clearly are not enjoying the scenes they have shot. Seeing someone in several scenes that he is not would keep me from hiring the guy.

He does offer a "high touch approach."

When in NYC, I go to Hush Manhattan for manscaping services. https://www.hushmanhattan.com/

We did Mack & Mabel in high school. By far, my favorite Jerry Herman score. I'd love to see it from the audience.

@OliverSaks It will be good to have you back again.

One of the things I noticed about the production is that there were several times that the camera angles told me the cameraman had to be on stage. If I had been in the live audience, it would have bothered me that I've made the effort to dress for the occasion and the camera crew is ruining the production.

At my office, the men's room closest to my office has two urinals (one standard height and one lower) and one handicapped stall. The next closest men's room has two stalls (one handicapped) and the lower height urinal. I don't think the expectation is for the nearly 100 men to wait to use the two options for able-bodied individuals to leave the four handicapped accessible stations remain vacant to provide the one disabled colleague to use.

I prefer someone who is between 5'8" and 6'0". (Yes, some members of this Forum may be known exceptions to the rule. ;))

I get that there are escorts that may not find every client a '10' from physical attributes, but just like in a personal relationship, looks aren't everything. Being well groomed with appropriately fitting clothing can make a difference. Being sober also makes a better first impression. And most importantly, be yourself.

It is always good to hear from a lost friend!

I've had several messages that include quite a bit a stretching and twisting. Doesn't take too much pressure on a lower rib to fracture one.

I'm not reading rape into the OPs message. One can tell the same story of everything that happened without saying "I was raped." The exact same story can be told stating, "things were moving fast and I let them go further than I anticipated."

Highly unlikely. I didn't see anyone taking photos at the event in respect to our host Oliver's request to not take any.

If I'm meeting a guy for the first time in a public place with the intent to get to know the guy first, it would depend on the casino and the location within the casino. I don't want to be trying to talk to the guy over a lousy house band or next to the penny slots that pay out every 15 seconds with the flashing lights and blaring horns. But if there is a bar in a quieter area of the casino, it works well.

As a banker, I can attest to the benefits of reviewing the financials and how that has helped the heirs of the deceased. (a) upon hearing of the passing on someone, it is not uncommon for a provider to 'accidently' bill for services that were already paid. (b) sometimes the review of the checkbook ledger uncovers a $10,000 check paid to Bank X (not the regular bank of the deceased) leading to the discovery of a certificate of deposit. When my grandmother died, not only were her checkbooks reviewed, but was also reviewed any of her folders with her records of investments or insurance policies purchased. In doing so, we found cash here and there. Grandma always wanted to have 'emergency cash' on hand, but didn't want it in her purse. We suspect that her financial records were some place she would remember she had hidden money in the house.

I feel fortunate that my health insurance through my employer covers Truvada. I only pay $10 co-pay. What I do find intriguing is that the insurance will not cover a 90-day supply and I must refill every 30 days. My physician and my pharmacy indicate that they have several other patients whose insurance does allow a 90-day refill.

I think if your are responding to an email or text message, it is fine to direct me to your website if the question is a generic "what are your fees?" However, if the question is asked during a phone conversation, then a direct response would be appropriate. Where I would recommend a direct response would be if you are engaged in an exchange about spending time together and the question is specific, "what is your fee for a two-hour appointment?" A response of $x would be appropriate and then reference your website as well. I would understand that a back and forth of asking for all options would not be appropriate.

Take him to a Goodwill store. You never know what will be on the rack.

I understand about decompressing. Adding in the return to the Eastern Time Zone and my first day back yesterday was all scrambled. Always good to catch up with everyone. Conversations at the breakfast tables each morning is one of the highlights for me; reconnecting with some forum members and making new friends - what a better way to start the day!

I've seen a several of masseurs in their homes; it makes the whole massage a better experience. They often have rooms that are set up to provide the massage with a good table, appropriate lighting, and music available to set a relaxing mood. Those sessions have been great. I've only had two escorts invite me to an in call their residences. Two things that would make me uncomfortable with in calls to a provider's residence: cats (I have an allergy) and someone else (roommate/spouse) being present during my session.

Well......climbing over each other is never a problem for me.

Epigonos, thank you - I don't know how toys weren't on my packing list yet.

So I'm beginning to pack for my week in Palm Springs. As a gay man, how many pieces of luggage is acceptable?

If there is a separate resort fee from the charge for the room, it may cover the housekeeping gratuity. It would be appropriate to ask when you check in. If the there is one flat resort fee, then I assume that it does not include the gratuity and leave something.

A banker kept calling me. I asked him to leave me a loan.