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Four kids in our family and raised in a white Anglo Saxon Protestant upper middle class setting in the 1950’s. Stay at home mother and we were all sent to private schools, where most of our classmates were of at least similar background or much richer. Affection was mostly shown by our mother, dad not so much overtly but we knew he loved us. He never cheated on our mother and as a result we had a sense of security. My parents only drank very moderately, didn’t smoke and took us to church during the winter months but we spent summers at our cottage, with a different group of friends. We all turned out pretty well, two straight and two gay. I’m the single one and happy that way. I value affection very highly and have always tried to show it to all I have been close to. Even to providers. I like the BFE the most.

I met a man back in the 90s in NYC who was in his 70s and gay. Had a life long association with the NY theatre world. When he was in his 30s he was once asked to escort Marilyn Monroe to a charity event as she was without a current husband. He dined out on that story for years.

This makes a lot of sense.

I've had three types of 3some experiences, great, good and so-so. I made a lot of preparations in advance of each and I hired mostly escorts who I thought would be compatible. I also tried to hire a top, a vers-top to complement my being a bottom So far I haven't hired a couple but the great ones have been involved in porn to some extent. Recently I hired two who were pornstars and it was great how we all interacted. Communication is key and there is that little thing called chemistry. It can make or break the experience.

Don’t hold your breath. I’ve cancelled the date. No fault on his side. Just my decision.

The point is that if you are a premium client, as I am, paying $9.90 a month, nothing has changed as far as I can see. All the nude pictures including erect penises are still there. And I can post reviews to my heart's content. Nothing to get exercised about.

This is bullshit. Nothing has changed for premium clients. I just checked and saw an erect dick dripping in cum. Lovely sight and good promotion for the provider. Lol.

I see a lot of water being pumped to keep the place green. Is this just a startup stategy to get things started or is it a long term solution for too little rainfall? And is the water coming from aquifers or renewable sources. Things to think about over the longer term.

That makes sense

I thought Coolwave was going to see him 3 weeks ago. What happened to that?

A man on a mission! Lol

Another factor to consider is that travelling US escorts in Canada gain the advantage of the exchange rate when they stay at hotels, eat at restaurants or consume other priced in Canada goods or services. So even if they accept Canadian rates of say $300 which is very typical, they are getting the same value to purchase as Canadian escorts enjoy. Where the difference lies is in what they get to take home. That $300 in Canadian funds is worth 25 percent less when they convert it into US dollars.

What’s worthless is someone opining that RM reviews are worthless.

I think it is necessary for an American escort visiting Canada to have a track record in terms of reviews before serious Canadian clients will hire him.

One thing I'm not clear on is whether the OP has good reviews on his RM ad. If not the chances of getting hired decline drastically.

I just did a cursory check and MagicMike is coming to Montreal next week. He's listed on RM. There are other escorts coming in the next months including from Europe. Montreal is a good market for escorts from anywhere. There is a hungry clientele eager for new talent to augment the local offerings. I've been hiring for years in this market and even the pandemic didn't slow things too much after the lockdowns were lifted.

That's actually not true. American escorts travel to Montreal or Toronto on a regular basis. Not a lot but in the good weather excluding Nov to April you will find some listed in RM every month. There are several now. I hire on a regular basis in these two markets and include American offerings when they interest me. I pay a premium for these guys as they are expecting rates similar to what they earn in the States expressed in Canadian dollars. JJ Knight is coming to Toronto in a couple of weeks and I have a date set up with him. I didn't fly him in. Another US escort is in Montreal this weekend but I cancelled our date because I have a mild cold and didn't want to spread my germs. Oh and Cade Maddox was in Montreal for a week a week ago. I didn't bother contacting him because his rates were set on RM at $1000 an hour and $8000 overnight. Rates can be shown on RM here which many escorts take advantage of, I would say half and half. The others post "ask".

Not yet. We have a date when he gets to Toronto.

That's what I thought too. He is not your typical escort.😛

He's quoted me $450US or Cdn equivalent in Toronto

Canada in fact is taking in larger numbers of immigrants and refugees per capita than the U S. Over half a million last year I believe which would translate to over 5 million in the US. And the government is intending to get to 1 million a year. (I may be low on the current numbers).

Since you take a morbid interest in our climate and weather you might be interested in knowing we are experiencing the nicest fall weather which is hard to distinguish from summer weather here. And the forecast is for sunny days and mid 20’s temperatures to continue as far as the eye can see. Meanwhile south of us NYC is drowning in rain today with states of emergency being declared in the city. Half a foot of rain in less than 24 hours.

I'm finding these last few years I like the quick strip for both or all three of us. Even if it is for more than an hour and it often is, I just like maximizing the time we are all naked. Since I live alone and only get to be naked with guys a couple of times a month, I truly relish those moments I can feel skin on skin. It soothes my soul.

Most of my family including brothers, cousins, nephews and neices, their spouses have contracted the virus in the last three years but all through travel on airplanes to places like Alberta, Switzerland and elsewhere. I haven't been on a plane since just before the pandemic. I have frequently travelled to Montreal and Toronto in my own car and stayed in hotels which were all scrupulous in maintaining hygienic conditions. Wore masks as required and avoided bars and crowded restaurants but went to places where people were separated and ventilation was good. Only got intimate with providers who got vaccinated as I did. I admit there was luck involved too. Risk reduction but can never eliminate all risk.

If it was painted rose, it would look like a rosebud, common in fistee bottoms. I see it all the time in fisting porn flics. Personally doesn't appeal to me. I liked the comment "this needs to be probed further".