Luv2play

There are 3 face pics of him. Not bad looking.

I have found with high end European escorts the rates in Cdn$ are above $2000 plus dinner, breakfast.

I’ve hired overnights here in Canada and once last fall in NYC. The rates here average from $1000 to $1500 plus dinner and breakfast plus travel if that is involved. In NYC the rate I paid was at the higher end for a pornstar but I did 2 nights where he had other things to do in the day. We did dinners and breakfasts which ran into some serious money too as the breakfast itself was $30 each at the hotel we were staying in. The dinners ran upwards of $300 each night. The most I have paid for travel was to fly an escort in from SF. But that was for 2 nights and days spent with me. Again add in $$ for eating well.

I’ve done a number of threesomes and the way I go about it is to hire one escort I have been with at least once or more and like. Then I select another and run it past my escort to see how he feels. Usually the only assessment on both our parts is the reviews on RM. It has usually worked out fine but only because I do a lot of preps including extensive communication with the newbie. The odd time I have hired a couple and that has worked too because they know each other. One thing to check is whether the escort indicates they play well with others or groups. I understand your desire to do a threesome. It is an extraordinary experience. All the senses get stimulated, touch, sight, sounds, and taste. It does cost a little more but well worth it in my book.

Several years ago I leaned toward clean shaven escorts but since the pandemic I grew my own beard and rather like it. I had one in the 70s but it was brown then. Now it’s almost white with a little pepper thrown in. So now I’ve adjusted my sights and hire bearded along with clean shaven. Sometimes together in a threesome. Then I get the best of both worlds!

I contacted this escort just before the pandemic to ask if he was truly a top as in a couple of the vids it wasn’t clear. He answered with just “I am a top“. That turned me off. Thanks for the additional info which confirms my feeling about him.

I would second that. I once spent 10 days in Berlin basically a sex vacation with a little sightseeing thrown in during the day light hours. German gay men range the gamut and you will find them out in the bars and saunas. This was two decades ago but I actually stayed in a gay b&b where the owner had a stable of escorts (this was pre-smart phones) with a nice photo album type book with details on each one. One could order in. It wasn’t cheap then and I imagine much more expensive now so I’m glad I did it when I did.

In the last decade of my working life I got a dog and was living in the house I had bought twenty years earlier. For most of that time I had lived alone but on getting the dog I felt I needed a roommate to have someone around when I wasn’t there. So I offered a room to rent. This was shortly after I had given a room to a dancer I met at a strip club who said he knew my nephew and was looking for a temporary place to stay. This arrangement only lasted a couple of months as there was no sex after the first night and I started to feel like his uncle. One night he borrowed my best sweater without asking me, got something on it and washed in and then threw it in the dryer. This was a Shetland wool sweater from Harrod’s in London. Needless to say when I found it it would have fit a doll. I gave him bus money the next day to return to Toronto, his home town. The roommates I rented my spare room to turned out to be fine. One was an escort (he came in my room one night early on but I told him I didn’t want to alter our relationship) and the others were young guys with jobs (all gay). I on;y had sex with one of them (sort of a spontaneous thing) since he had a boyfriend. The last roommate was learning to be a masseur and would practice on me which was nice as he was the cutest of all. After I retired I sold the house and moved away so no more roommates.

Hot looking but the pnp sort of ruins it for me.

It helps having a decent cock:)

For me an escort that can squirt at least four times or more and I mean a real squirt goes onto my repeat list.

It wouldn’t have worked anyway as he is no longer listed on RM. At least he has himself to date if business dropped off for him because of the pandemic.

There is an escort in Toronto who can Self-suck and has the pics to show it. I corresponded with him on RM once but haven’t yet had the opportunity to meet him. Sorry I can’t post a link but am challenged that way.

There is a third option-sharing.

I assume the thumbs down I received for my post was from someone who couldn’t suck his own dick. LOL.

Thanks for that. I had a blast knowing these two men for a period over 8 years until their passing. We travelled a fair bit together after I met them in 1998. We each had places in Montreal and Florida at the time which made it convenient to get together at various times of the year. We shared similar interests in Montreal strippers, escorts from all over, fine food and travel. Ill health finally overtook them both when they were in their mid to late 70’s. Which only reinforced my personal motto of carpe diem.

Sure. I reviewed him on RM. He's in Toronto and goes by Sir_zzy.

I’ve always felt this goes both ways. Both for client and escort. Over the years I have striven to maintain my looks, such as they are. This means eating well, exercising well, getting enough sleep, not taking drugs and drinking moderately. Sticking with this regime over many decades, I have been able to maintain my weight in a narrow range, avoided looking older than my years and in fact feel pretty good about my looks at 73. I look for the same in an escort. As I age, the age of escorts I will hire has kept pace. I still want someone younger than myself but anywhere between late 20’s to late 40’s is fine with me, depending on their looks of course. I feel you can read a lot in a person’s face, rather than just their body. If they have abused their bodies, the face will usually tell. Minding of course whether they have had recourse to cosmetic surgery .

T That was not in the cards. We were simply good friends and had no mutual attraction of a physical sort. We were all interested in guys many years our junior, although I was more than twenty years younger than the two brothers, who have sadly both passed away in the intervening years.

Me too. I especially look for escorts who are watersports tops. That and other stuff too, of course. But watersports is always something I enjoy as part of the action. I always tell them to drink lots of water before our appointment. And then I make sure to have some on hand to keep things going.

I found myself in a weird situation on a trip with two male gay friends who were brothers a couple of decades ago. We took a side trip from Prague, where we had been for 5 days, to Warsaw for a weekend which we had planned before leaving home. When we arrived at the airport in Warsaw on the Saturday at around 11am, they would not let me pass immigration because I did not have the necessary visa. My two friends didn’t need one because they were Americans. I did because I was Canadian. When we had bought the airline tickets in Montreal at the airline office downtown, they had checked our three passports but assumed we were all Americans because mine was on the bottom and they all looked alike. So what to do? The flight back to Prague was late Sunday afternoon and there was no sooner flight. I was told I could stay in the customs control area of the airport and sleep on a bench. There were no restaurants in the restricted area. The closest city I could fly to was Paris because there were no flights to closer cities such as Berlin. So I bought a ticket and flew to Paris, a two hour flight but a different time zone. I arrived around 6pm and went to the Marais district, which I knew well. I looked into getting a hotel room but there were none available during this high tourist season in the three or four hotels I checked out. I gave up that idea and decided I would stay at a gay sauna for the night, but only check in after dinner and an evening at the bars, which were very active. At the back of my mind I was hoping I might meet someone to go home with but no such luck. So I ended up at the baths around 1am. After getting a room and checking out the place I discovered there were no hot guys at all, and it wasn’t very busy. The few who checked me out I wouldn’t go with if I was on a desert isle. So I tried to go to sleep but was awoken several times by someone trying to come in my room. After a fitful night of trying to sleep I decided to check out around 5am. The bus back to the airport was leaving around 8am so I had a few hours to kill. I just started off walking and found a bakery shop open with fresh croissants so had a couple for my breakfast. You.re probably asking yourself at this point, where’s the sex? So this is when it happened. Walking down a side street around 6:30 I saw a hunky guy walking in my direction. As our paths crossed we exchanged glances, which is all we needed to establish we were both horny. Without exchanging so much as a bonjour, we found a little alleyway just off the street and pulled down our flies. We gave each other blowjobs but I forget now who went first. His cum was delicious, just what I needed to complement the warm croissants in my belly. It was a very uneventful flight back to Warsaw where I met my friends to return to Prague.

The first cum I tasted was my own at the age of 15 when I discovered I could suck myself off. I was very flexible at that age and was able to do this until I was 25. Now it’s enough effort to tie my shoes. But yes, I love swallowing a top’s cum and the whole snowball thing too if they are into it. Yum.

Confusing ad on RM. States he practices safe sex at all times in his description but has “Anything goes” in his stats. Something doesn’t jive.

I think the comment about loss of muscle during the Covid19 crisis is warranted. I recently met with an escort who had lost 30 pounds in the last 5 months since his gym was closed. For me he was just perfect as he still weighed 240 pounds and stood 6’6” and was still all muscle. Also his dick hadn’t shrunken at all.

I use RM and rely on their reviews to a considerable extent. However I am always mindful that some reviewers may be fake or may not have the same critical faculties I have, for instance first time experiences, different expectations etc. On RM one can pm the reviewers and ask questions about their experiences with the escort in question You don’t always get a reply but in the genuine reviews, you usually do. And then I check the reviewer’s other reviews to make my on assessment of the escort in question and whether we would be a good fit. Takes some work and patience but if you are investing $1k or more for a session, worth it IMO.