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I personally dislike the term carriers wrt this disease. It suggests someone who has a chronic contagious condition like tuberculosis or HepC. They carry around this disease unless treated for years and can infect anyone they come in contact with depending on the disease and nature of the contact. Someone with Covid19 infection can only “carry“ the active disease for a couple of weeks. Then the body naturally overcomes it (unless you die of course) and you are no longer infectious. At least that is what the science is telling us now. You don’t call someone who has the regular flu a carrier. But they are also infectious during the active disease stage. The term vector to me is more accurate wrt all these diseases I have mentioned.

I just read all his reviews on RM and they are unreservedly positive. Some from credible clients whose judgment I trust. One said that he was a great kisser. Another comment was that he holds you tight while fucking you, always a good sign. Another that he enjoyed the dp with him and his bf. So maybe not listing kissing is just his way of leaving it up to personal chemistry and not a requirement on his part. If he were in my neck of the woods, I would give him a try-out.

Like quill pen, standard transmission, wood stove, black and white tv.

These are what you call vectors.

He’s not into much. Not even oral.

Cuomo was talking about this the other day. That out of state visitors were not quartering when they arrived in NY. Interesting that at the beginning of the pandemic, when NY had all the cases, Florida moved to restrict NYers from coming to Florida.

All of that being said, as a watersports bottom, I have absolutely nothing against receiving piss from my favourite escorts and have done so during this pandemic, to no ill effects.

I don’t see a big problem with using urinals. First the self flushing kind, which are in most newer establishments or those that have been updated, only activate after you walk away from the urinal. Second, with the old manual flushing type, you can still turn away after you flush and avoid breathing in any aerosol droplets. Generally the water is directed downwards anyway. Third, if I am in a public washroom, which I have been over the last 5 months, I wear a mask as we are required to do here in Canada in public indoor spaces. Even if not required one can always have one to use when needed.

He’s been a member of RM since May but has no reviews yet. That would make me pause in deciding to hire him.

Good question. The government announced today that about 3 million of the 4 million people who are receiving the $2000 per month payments will go onto a new program that will be an adaptation of the employment insurance program that applies to qualified workers. This will leave about 1 million people losing the current payments this month when the program ends. These are mostly gig workers and Certain other self employed people. I am speculating that escorts, if they received these payments which started last March, would fall under this latter category. I don’t know how closely the government looked at the nature of the self employment or gig work but it probably meant they would have to show some evidence of having declared their income to the tax authorities to qualify.

Does this mean there is more cum for bottoms who are still hiring.?

I am not surprised to hear that. I would think that tourists comprise a significant portion of the escorting biz in New York. I know when I visit, which isn’t that often, I line up an escort for every evening. I would have been interested in going this fall but it doesn’t look likely at this point.

This is consistent with what we were being told three months ago. The aerosol-based transmission theory gained some traction later but seems to be still a tentative theory. Certainly if droplets are the main source, then the steps we are all taking are good to minimize the spread of the virus.

I agree that your friends did not show much consideration for you and your health by not cancelling the dinner when it was clear that one of them was quite ill. I would have thought that in the current pandemic, any sign of illness has to be taken seriously and while not jumping to conclusions, the better course is to exercise prudence, particularly when others’ health may become at risk because of proximity to the ill person. Their excuse as to why they did not cancel demonstrates a callous self centredness IMO. At this point all you can do is wait out a possible incubation period of about 2 weeks. Try to occupy yourself with other matters although I realize that may be easier said than done. Good luck.

Miss Manners wasn’t always right.

I should have added that Benjamin had the unconditional support of his parents throughout his ordeal. They are from a Mormon background in Utah, of which I know little except Mitt Romney was one. And the Mormons did practice polygamy at one time and some moved to Mexico to escape the censure. This is besides the point. Calling his mother an angel and father a hero says it all: compassionate folks.

He does have good reviews. And a promising name which you infer he lived up to.

I read his story. What a strong guy to be able to call up the inner resources he had to overcome so much pain and suffering and to emerge whole again.

Hahaha. Well that ass did look a little tired.

I can see that happening. Not everyone has a gorgeous tush like me:)

It was actually one of my pickups at a local gay bar back in the '70s who was maybe 5 years younger than me who introduced me into the pleasures of watersports.

I've been a client for many years now but before I was 40 I couldn't imagine hiring anyone for sex. There was just so much of it available, either in a one night stand or in quasi-relationships that might last months. Also I didn't have the disposable income at the time for such things as I was buying a house, car, and other things like travel. Free sex was just the icing on the cake from being young and footloose. If I could go back, I would do it all over again.

Isn’t it though. I first visited Belgium in 1969. Later I would go there on business trips. But it’s been a long time since I went back. Loved the moules frits.

As I understand the science, once you have had Covid19, the virus should be resolved and no longer be active in your body after about 2 weeks after symptoms disappear, although some people experience side effects long after. If you get another test after this time for the virus, which is relatively easy to get, you should be negative. You can also try to get an antibody test, which will show whether you have the antibodies to the disease. These are supposed to show that you will be immune to a reinfection but the science is not settled on how long this immunity could last, as we are dealing with a novel virus (ie not seen before in humans). Here in Canada the antibody test is not widely available but Covid19 teats are. All of which to say that if an escort had the disease but is now cured and has the tests to show it, I would be comfortable meeting him.

Since the lockdown in mid-March the only major change in my life has been the new way of communicating and having meetings in the several groups I am involved with as a volunteer. Each of these groups are community organizations and I have executive functions in all of them, which keeps me almost as busy as before the lockdown. I now am familiar with Zoom meetings, but more recently we have been able to meet outdoors mostly but also indoors in spaces where we can physically distance (these latter meetings don’t involve more than 8 or so individuals). And so on the mental side I am keeping active and involved. On the physical side it was barren for the first two and a half months until May. At that point I decided i needed to get in touch with a trusted escort and had him visit me for the weekend. Making that human contact on an intimate level restored my sense of balance. Since then I have only been doing overnights mostly of two days but spaced at least 3 weeks apart. So far this has been a successful strategy. It helps that infection levels have been on a steady decline in Canada over the last 3 months and things generally are opening up. What is unknown is how the fall will roll out. Kids are going back to school and colleges and the colder weather means more people will need to be indoors. And the regular flu season will start up again. At this point I just don’t want to think about it too much and just enjoy the great weather we are currently having.