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Imagine marrying someone like this when he was in his prime and this is what became of your dreamboat.

I personally have never been inclined to take a “routine” colonoscopy as I don’t consider myself to be at high risk. Funny since I did have prostate cancer 14 years ago. But like prostate cancer, colon cancer can run in families (like breast cancer for women) and one has to ask if anyone in the family line has ever had it (in my case no) Colonoscopy is an invasive procedure, as is a biopsy of the prostate. A biopsy in the case of prostate is only done after an elevated PSA finding which is done through a simple blood test. I just finished a book written by a famous journalist who just died the other day. He had suffered a botched “routine” colonoscopy which almost killed him and took him several years to recover from. I also recall a well known film maker in British Columbia who died from a botched biopsy of the prostate. He was only 43 and was in good health. Sepsis set in and he died 3 days later. All invasive diagnostic tests should be considered carefully IMO and only taken when the benefits outweigh the risks.

Other than that technicality, did the “rape” at least feel good at the time?

I wish you good luck. I had my surgery done in Ottawa and the level of care was as good as one could find anywhere. My brother had the same doctors perform his operation And his initial results were encouraging Although worrisome too because his cancer had advanced further than mine. I don’t understand your comment on Quebec health coverage as it is the same as across Canada under the Canada Health Act. And Montreal at least has some of the best doctors in the world and the best medical school in Canada, rivalling those in the USA. I grew up in Montreal at a time when Americans came to Montreal to be treated for difficult conditions like brain disorders where the Montreal Neurological Institute was tops in the world under Dr. Wilder Penfield and Dr. Cone. I have personal experience as they saved my father’s life in 1949, two years after I was born.

I am a Canadian and was diagnosed with prostate cancer 14 years ago following a biopsy which found cancerous tumours in my prostate. I had had no symptoms and only started the process of testing after my oldest brother had been diagnosed. I was the second And youngest sibling to get a positive biopsy test and then my second older brother the next year after me. Our father had had it and it does run in families, trust me. So I didn’t hesitate and had a prostectomy which removed the prostate. No regrets here as I have been cancer free since then, after annual testing for ten years (more frequently in the first 3 years and then stepped down). My second brother has had less luck as he ignored the symptoms he was experiencing before my diagnosis and had his operation a year after mine. In his case the cancer had pierced the walls of the prostate and while the doctors tried to remove the surrounding tissue, he refused followup radiation therapy. That was a poor decision as the cancer came back after 8 years and now he has had radiation and hormone therapy. He’s suffered complications with the hormone therapy and had to discontinue it. But this will have consequences in the longer term, however long that is. You made a comment of the Canadian healthcare system which, in our experience, has been wonderful. Not a single penny did I have to pay, nor my brother. My oldest brother was extremely fortunate as his cancer was almost benign, and has not progressed at all with just annual monitoring. Just like my father.

Whatever the laws are in a particular jurisdiction, I just think it is good policy and the right thing to do for anyone, including the escort, who has HIV, to disclose the fact in advance of setting up an appointment. With Prep and HIV medications that keep the virus undetectable and therefore highly unlikely to be contagious, the risks of being rejected are less than what they were in the past. It is everyone’s right to choose though, and informed consent is the way to go in my book.

He’s got a gorgeous backside.

If you can complement rather than compliment him on his good looks, you’re more than halfway there!

I do the opposite by doing intensive cardio 4 or 5 times a week to improve my sexual performance and endurance. Sets me up for my overnight marathons with escorts which I enjoy.

If the 40 minutes was on your dime maybe he was sitting on the crapper with the shower running and looking at his i-phone to amuse himself. Just saying.

Given that you did try a compromise by suggesting a four hour appointment instead of a full night and morning session including lunch, I think it was incumbent on the escort to try to arrive at a fee something less than the original amount agreed. Maybe the extra time in the morning was a complicating factor. You said that was a deal which I take it was not anywhere near what one would pay for a 4/5 hour session if taken by itself. A 4 hour session rather than an overnight of 8 hours would be more than half the fee for the ON but somewhat less than the ON fee. You had already paid half of the total fee, so agreeing to your proposal would have meant you would not be paying him anything more. I guess he thought since he already had his fee even if he didn”t show up for work, that was a god deal for him. It was not a good deal though if he wanted to have you hire him again.

This has worked out every time. I credit this to the fact the escort wants to earn the big fee an overnight entails. He would have to see 5 or 6 clients for 1 hours to make the same amount. One time the escort missed his train and texted me right away, I was free the next night so we rescheduled and everything worked out fine.

I do a lot of overnights and have never made a deposit against the fee. I do send money for the travel when the escort is travelling to me. Th

This is definitely a cultural thing. Americans generally have been indoctrinated with Madison Avenue advertising and the squeeky clean thing About personal hygiene. $$ Billions are spent for productS to disguise human scents. It’s basically unhealthy. All these anti-biotic products and perfumes are unhealthy in themselves. Too much cleaning destroys the bodies natural oils and protective bacteria. I say learn to appreciate what nature gave us, not Madison Ave.

That’s the Amsterdam I remember. Went through there at least 60 times from 1986 t0 1998. Always had a blast. Never paid for it then, always on the house!

Why don’t you post it here so we can all judge its appropriateness?

I think this was a situation where you had to be there and able to judge not just his words but the way he comported himself and his body language. Were they warm and interactive or cold and detached. Could you hold his gaze into your eyes. Maybe the 3 gin and tonics helped lol. I liked the bio detail of training to be a MMA fighter (whatever that is).

Yourr experience would make a good script for a porn flic.

What attracted you to the father?

That's right. I studied his famous decisions at law school. I knew his father was a poet with the same name. I wonder what he would think of the current SC. Jr. That is.

Now I’m going to have to have my portrait done. Unfortunately, Francis Bacon is dead as I might have selected him just so no-one would recognize me if they met me in real life.

A great jurist. Do you practice his profession?

Do you at least live up to his reputation of being a great wit?

I’m shocked shocked to learn this. LOL You have great taste however in butts.