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I have just got back from Toronto where I was for a couple of days. I saw his ad last week but had already made 2 appointments which I wanted to keep. So now he’s on my list. He doesn’t list kissing in his ad. Anything you can add there?

I totally agree. I once hired an escort who advertised that he was a top exclusively and no kissing. While I would have preferred he was into kissing, I hired him anyways because of his excellent reviews and other attributes. Anyway once we started in he started kissing me, first on various body parts and then on my mouth. And then he started with the tongue action and went full bore on French kissing (my favourite type of kissing). Afterwards I asked him why he didn’t advertise that he kisses and he said he wanted to keep the option to himself whether he would kiss a client, based on oral hygiene (mine is great) and chemistry (I guess I fit the bill in that regard as well). Some of the escorts I have hired who list kissing only go through the paces with rather lackluster kissing. Life is full of surprises, some good, others not so good.

So that is about point one percent of the US population dead by the end of the year from this disease. A much larger number die from other causes in any year. Covid19 has disproportionately killed more elderly with underlying conditions. Many of these would die in the next year or so from these other causes. I try to keep these numbers in mind when assessing risks from exposure to the virus. I also look at my own country, Canada, which has much lower numbers but the same factors involved. And I take all the usual precautions we are told to practice. I have not stopped hiring, though, but I did until May to see what was going to happen To the trajectory of the disease locally. I space hiring apart, normally once a month and maybe two rather than one at a time. I have a good discussion before the session to ensure the escorts I hire are being cautious as well in limiting their exposure. So far so good. As someone said, living is full of risks and we have all learned in our lifetimes what risks we are willing to take in any particular situation. I personally think people who are moderate risk takers over a lifetime have been better able to navigate this new risk situation thrust on us out of nowhere.

At least he knew how to add.?

You’ve outdone yourself. Such a funny riff on Sinatra who made the song famous and Paul Anka, who penned the words.

Sleeze maybe???

I should add that I always choose good restaurants, not burger joints, and have found that when fine food is on offer, the escort tends to not watch the time and the meal often extends into one and a half to 2 hours without him looking at his watch or the door.

When I do shorter sessions, such as 1 or 2 hours, I will often offer the escort a lunch or dinner tacked on at the end, if the timing is appropriate. That is if the session starts at 11am or 6pm, for instance, I state up front what I am willing to pay for his time overall, including the dining option. As an example if the escort charges $300 an hour for his time, for 2 hours the rate would be $600, then I would offer $750 for 3 hours including the meal and any drinks, on me of course. They usually accept, I think because they need to eat around then anyway, and it gives them the opportunity to recharge their batteries, so to speak, if they wish to have another session later the same day.

Could be the escort will save the cum for the last appointment of the day. One can always hope.

I know my trusted regulars’ names and they know mine. With newbies, if I am in a hotel, I just give them my room number and tell them to ask the front desk to call up and I will go down to the lobby. If I have the time, I will sit in the lobby at the appointed hour and greet them since I have their face pic. I don’t hire without a face pic usually although sometimes the pic is rather obscure and the odd time I have reAlice’s on the first meeting why that was the case!

i was there only maybe 3 times but she had to keep control of the motley crew that frequented the place. It was near Times Square and in those days NY wasn’t”t as upscale as it is now. A lot grittier.

The name is off-putting but I like his profile. And he has a gorgeous manly physique. Yumm.

I remember her sitting at the booth at the entrance. Wasn’t she Greek? Looked like a tough cookie, anyway.

I found the dancers were ready to blow a load for me when the night was getting long in the tooth and they had already made enough $$ and the extra $100 I paid them meant they could go home (to their girlfriends).

Haha, yes indeed. Taking a dancer to the private booths involved a lot of saliva being slobbered on hot dicks. I first learned of the Gaiety gigs the French boys had when they told me about it. I was curious so dropped in on the Gaiety several times on visits during that time. While the dancers were hot and the shows were good (I even took my sister once so she could see what it was all about), the action between dancers and clients wasn’t as good as in Montreal in my experience. Although I imagine native New Yorkers probably did better.

I had a condo in Montreal for 13 years two decades ago and rarely used the ads for escorts although I did for masseurs. Often hired dancers from Campus or Stock and then some of these became regulars. Living in the Village, sex was all around then. Now as a visitor, I rely on RM ads for dates when I am in town.

Absolutely true. If you can cook and buy healthy, then eating at home is great for your diet. And your body will thank you for it. I limit my restaurant meals now to special occasions only and when out, go for the healthier choice on the menu.

Getting back to the OP’s question. Looking at Montreal on RM, I would have a hard time recommending anyone at the moment. Toronto is better, in my recent experience but since I am a bottom, I’m not in a position to recommend a bottom escort since I don’t hire them.

Awe, a matchmaker. I’ve done that too with different escorts, who really seemed to get it on in a threesome I arranged. Or at least, they were good actors. But that moaning...

I would agree with this although I have never met the escort. I did correspond with him last year and he seemed to be just as his ad suggested, laid back and sort of Scandinavian personality. He alternates between NYC and L.A., where his family is from. He’s on my short list if the border ever opens up again.

Omg, that is a terrible situation you are in.

I worked in Labrador one summer many moons ago. If he is from there, I can see why he would want to get out for a little r&r. Lol.

If you are in a neighbouring province to Quebec and Ontario, you either live in Manitoba or New Brunswick. Several weeks ago New Brunswick had succeeded in reducing their new cases to zero and then a health care worker from there visited Quebec and brought back the virus to New Brunswick, which resulted in a fresh outbreak of the virus. Manitoba as far as I know has no restrictions on interprovincial travel, as the Maritime provinces have, but then Manitoba is a long way away and requires air travel to reach Toronto or Montreal unless you are talking about a lengthy trip of several days by car. In any case by engaging in interprovincial travel, you are going from a low risk area to a higher risk area. And then going back to your home, not knowing until you get there what you might be carrying. Most Canadians are refraining from interprovincial travel, whether there are restrictions in place or not. I know I am.

I was fortunate in that my swimming pool opened at the beginning of July and I have been using it about 5 times a week for doing 45 minutes of laps combined with aqua fit exercises. I am usually all by myself but the odd time with one or two others. When more than one, we keep in separate lanes. The pool is regulated by club staff through making 1 hour appointments 1 day in advance or on same day if spots are still available. It’s an indoor pool so this could conceivably last through the fall and winter, when outdoor pools close here in Canada. The great part is that the club extended our memberships, paid on an annual basis, by the amount of time we lost from March to July, so will only have to pay in the spring of 2021. Other than that I still try to do some exercises in my bedroom like stretching, sit-ups etc. And then, once every three or four weeks I reward myself with an overnight or two with an escort, which is also a good form of exercise. I am now looking forward to this long weekend and another session (or two) with escorts after a 4 week abstinence. A plus is that with this current regime in place, I am keeping my sanity and positive outlook. I should add that I am also doing most of my volunteer work as well, except for one organization that has closed down for the duration of the pandemic. They will still be around at that time because they have a large trust account of investments that pays the bills like rent, insurance, etc even if they are not doing anything.

I saw this query and wondered whether the OP was Canadian or a foreigner visiting Canada at this time. If the latter, he supposedly can visit if he is considered in an essential service industry such as truckers or airline personnel. I don’t believe these people are free to go out in the general population when here in Canada but may be wrong about that. In any event, returning Canadians from abroad are required to quarantine for 14 days upon arrival. Canadians are free to fly to the USA and depending on the state, may have to quarantine upon arrival. Things are in constant flux so regulations may and do change on a daily basis in various countries as the virus situation evolves. I agree visitors to any country should respect the local rules and not flout them at their own discretion.