Luv2play

I've only been to Chicago once and that was to visit the downtown area over a long July 4th weekend. Lots of fun and I stayed with a gay escort who rented out rooms. Also slept with him one night. Wouldn't recognize the name of one suburb from another. Maybe that's why people who live in the burbs say Chicago so people at least recognize the general area.

He's pretty versatile now from seeing his vids. Imagine clients can negotiate something agreeable to Boomer banks.

Anyone have an idea what his rates are? I would ask him but don’t want to waste his time as there is no way I could see him at this time with the border closed. I once saw a film he did which talked about his life growing up, no sex in he film as I recall. He talked about his passion for sewing and making wonderful costumes. He is very talented and could have been a designer.

I sometimes think that if gay marriage had been possible 40 years ago, my life might have been quite different. As it was, when it came about I was too set in my ways to change. I have no regrets though, as I have always played the cards I was dealt As well as I could.

Even though flu vaccines have never offered 100 percent protection, whatever this year’s vaccine offers in terms of protection, I think people are now more sensitized to the need for hand washing frequently. This will lead to decreased transmission of the flu virus. Hopefully, this will reduce the amount of flu in the community (where ever you live). Two decades ago when my late father moved into a retirement home, my sister, a health care professional, told him to wipe his door handle to his apartment every day with a sanitizer to avoid getting the flu from touching it after the workers in his residence used it on a daily basis. He never got sick in the 3 years he was there while many of his co-residents came down with the flu every winter.

You make a valid point. One doesn’t necessarily need to get all the vaccines that are out there. It is good to discuss any vaccines you might think are advisable in your own situation with a doctor and then take the ones which might offer you a degree of protection, recognizing there might be cases where 100 percent immunity is not possible. The HPV example is a case in point, many varieties of that virus and as I understand it no one vaccine guards against all.

There was a big article in the Globe and Mail newspaper in Toronto today profiling Robert F Kennedy Jr. and how he has gone from being an environmentalist to an anti-vaccer today. He has a lot of followers it seems. I wish he had stuck with his first passionate cause.

Like every other endeavour in life, with sex I started with the “basics” and then sorta moved on from there.?

Came across my radar over a year ago when he was in SF. An escort I hired from SF had done some combos with him and other escorts in SF. He sent me some very appealing pics. Watching this video, I understood everything he was saying as I speak French. The one ting that bothered me was his cavalier attitude about the virus. He kept pulling down his mask in inside locations, something forbidden here, even though we are in level 3. At one point he tries to get his bf to try n a hideous jacket and you can here the sales clerk say you can’t do that and he repeats it in French. Still a sexy guy.

And full of protein, I understand.

He claims to have the thickest dick in California at 9X9 and he may well be correct but only because Jay Dymel died last year and he had the same dimensions. I know because I bottomed for him shortly before his untimely death. He was a sweet soul too and I do miss him although we only met once. He was a pornactor and in Montreal for a shoot with his then boyfriend Ryan Stone. Met with them both for a threesome, which was very memorable. If this guy is truly 9X9, you better be prepared unless you are already into being fisted, which I am not. Deep breathing helps.

P.S. I told my brother when he related this story to me that I still was.

When I was dating girls in my youth I used to kiss them to keep them happy without having to go all the way since I was already ambivalent about my sexuality in my late teens. Decades later my brother ran into an old girlfriend of mine who was living in the same city as he was and told her I was gay. She said, “oh really, and he was such a great kisser” LOL

Would that be then called Camelot Revisited or Cumalot or Came on a Camel or Lawrence of Arabia When not Fighting the Turks?

But my other voice says sorta fun.

Put that way it sounds sort of gross

Yes I still need to do that. But as a more immediate thanks I slipped a couple more hundred into his envelope before leaving. He sent me a very heartfelt thank you on my phone when I got to my hotel.

This is the first time I have seen that website. I don’t feel schadenfreude at all. just regret that some of these guys I have fantasized about but never met are experiencing some troubled times in their lives. Have never encountered Jeremy but in Cade’s case I would still hire him knowing what I now know.

Well, two weeks ago I did an overnight with an escort in Toronto and he whipped up a beautiful breakfast in the morning (we were at his house). It really went above and beyond. Not only that, we lingered on his patio for several hours in the sun. His scrambled eggs were the most scrumptious I have ever eaten. And he had bought a special brand of expresso coffee just for me. The perfect pick-me-up after 12 hours of wild sex. The date lasted from 6pm to 12 noon.

We seem to have veered off path about Jeremy Walker. Maybe someone should start a threat about Cade, since other forum members may have come across his path.

Absolutely. I didn’t know he was gay but now I understand why he was so into kissing in his films. It looked sincere and evidently was really based on attraction to males. I so wish I had met him when he was visiting Montreal.

This get-up probably costs 5K at least.

I loved his persona on film. He is a great kisser and wonderful top. Really a dreamboat. So sad his personal life is so messed up.

I find this info to be quite shocking. Cade is also one of my favourite porn stars and he has escorted on and off in the recent past. He was in Montreal a year or so ago and I tried to contact him on RM but hr never replied during the time he was there. The mug shots show he has been arrested a number of times and convicted at least once since a violation of parole is listed.

As a result, I find the flics with women drinking men’s cum and piss even more stimulating than the gay versions. Maybe just me and my queer tastes.