Luv2play

Do you think the platforms are comparable? I don’t see that.

It appears Pornhub is on its way to overtaking Facebook in popularity with the masses. LOL

Nicholas Kristof has written about Pornhub in his column in the NYT today.

What kind of a set-up is that?

That’s what I was suggesting.

I’m a bottom but I have always felt I had broad shoulders, metaphorically speaking, to take on any burden.

You can always look the other way while accepting his member.

The only case I knew of personally of AIDS causing dementia was with a friend back in the 90’s. He was diagnosed with AID’s along with his lover in 1990 before there was an effective treatment with the drug cocktail that came along a few years later. His older lover succumbed in 1992 but he survived longer and started the cocktail around 1995 which brought him back from near death. He lived another 5 years but his brain had suffered so much damage that he developed dementia and stopped taking his drugs regularly. He was only 46 when he died.

“There I was just walking down the street, Singing do wa diddy Diddy wa diddy do” or something like that.

I’ve never asked for their real names but have found out some when they wanted e transfers for travel expenses and in one case a deposit. I have always respected their wishes as to which name to call them when we are together. I only found out one real name of a provider I saw a few times several years ago and that was when someone here posted a site which gives bio info on hundreds of porn actors, some who also escort. I have since tried to reach him on RM but his listing is suspended but I used the name I called him and which is his screen name on Cockyboys. One escort had a RM name Tom but the first time he came to see me at my house, after about half an hour he gave me his real name, since he was talking about his career as a child actor on television. He even showed me a picture of himself when he was 6 and cute as a button. I have used his real name since then.

Gee, don’t you eat breakfast before starting to work? i couldn’t face the day before a complete meal after my morning ablutions.

You are right in thinking gays see the AIDS epidemic differently today than back then when we were living through it. My first visit to San Francisco was in 1979 and I went back in 1980 and 81. I can’t remember clearly now but it was either after the second or the third trip that I heard of the new strange cancer affecting gays there. Of course soon the stories were coming out of New York as well and then other places. In the next decade I lost quite a few of my close friends and former lovers. One ex told me he was infected just a year after we broke up and that was in 1987. The rest of us who survived just carried on and adapted to the new realities. We were fortunate to have been spared. The new drugs developed to treat HIV were a game changer for those infected and then PreP has changed things again for those who are not infected. And so life goes on. I read a lot of history and recently I have been reading accounts of the Second World War and Korea. The soldiers who survived and came home for the most part moved on with their lives and didn’t want to talk about their experiences of losing buddies who fought along side them. I think for ourselves, it is also too painful to bring back these memories of those who will not grow old with us and be able to reminisce of the good old days.

I like his stable of actors but get bored with the films that have a cast of a dozen or so. Too much going on to the point of distraction and no chemistry allowed to develop between just two or three men getting it on. So many of his films just have too many cast members.

I bought my first house at 30 , near the start of my career and, like you, kept it for my entire working life, which only lasted 25 years as I retired at 50. Since then, I have lived in a couple of condos, a rental house in Florida, and now my retirement home. All along the way, I have acquired furniture and furnishings and discarded some as well. My rule is to keep the good, get rid of the junk, and hang onto the sentimental. The good I consider to be good furniture including quality antiques and modern pieces, good furnishings such as crystal glasses, fine bone china and silverware but also quality everyday dishes and pots and pans. In my case I bought a lot of fine art, paintings and sculptures, and only edited a few pieces by sending them to auction. I inherited a lot of fine books and bought additions to my library reflecting my own interests. I have an awful hard time with ditching books even after I have read them. I got rid of all my school books including undergraduate and law texts, except for some valuable ones which I donated to my law school, which was happy to offer me a generous tax receipt. The sentimental things are the hardest to get rid of. If they are things I can display, they sit there reminding me daily of my past. If they are not, I file them away in boxes and drawers, to look at once in a while. If I die in my home, my heirs are going to have a hell of a time getting rid of all this stuff.

I know at least one Canadian escort who has been travellling back and forth to the States by plane, which is allowed. Not by land border crossings though. When they return, they are supposed to quarantine for 14 days. So this guy, by his schedule, seems to be following the rules.

The great thing about Pete is that he has the sexual energy of someone ten to fifteen years his junior, combined with the experience under his belt (pun intended), If you hire him, you are in for a treat IMO, based on my experiences (4 dates) with him. On two of those dates, I paired him with one other escort for a two hour romp as part of the evening together and he completely charmed the guys, literally out of their pants and into bed, where he gave them and me a good (you know what). Left everyone completely satisfied, as he was too! On the stamina side, if you have a multi hour engagement, expect him to cum several times. In summary, he delivers great value for money spent.

Who might those be? One guy advertises on RM as Greek God but says he’s Italian. LOL

I agree with these sentiments completely. I just wish we had as good a climate as California so Pete would visit Canada more frequently. And of course the border closure has put the kibosh on any visit in the near term. ;(

His ad says he’s not seeing clients because of COVID and got laid off his job. Will accept donations though.

Sky did a video not too long ago with Gabriel Clark on Cockyboys which was very hot. Gabriel also escorts periodically and I have hired him several times. He was great. I think Skyy is in Montreal.

I saw that they were an item but Dane says in his ad he is strictly a bottom and I think he added he was only interested in tops with big cocks. Sort of like his husband, I guess, but someone who would pay him.

Pete’s in his mid thirties, an age when, if a guy keeps to a good diet and fitness regime, and has the genes Mother Nature blesses some with, doesn’t change much in his appearance for a decade or so. I was that way. Then by my mid 40’s I changed a bit, and so on in my fifties and sixties. And so it goes. Other guys go downhill much more quickly and it shows. The reasons are the usual. Burning the candle at both ends, as my mother would say.

I am completely in agreement with your views. Mostly I am looking for the extended BFE, usually overnights but at least 2 to 4 hours on a first meeting. I usually contact a new escort at least two weeks in advance and start the convo by RM messenger or text, if we switch to that or Whatsapp. By the time we meet, always in a remote place for either him or me, since I live in a small town, I feel we almost know each other in the sense of expectations, personality, compatibly etc. It seldom fails.

I see Pete is in NYC now. He was in Texas last week. He told me he is going home to Britain for Xmas. If I was in NY, I would hog his time:).

I had my last date with Peter in October 2019. I had 4 dates with him in 2019 before the pandemic broke out. He is a top tier international escort whose fees reflect his status and performance. We have stayed in regular contact by text over the last year and his pics, trust me, look every bit like his pics in his ads. He sends me pics from his visits in the US since I have seen him. I’m just waiting until the borders open so he can come back to Canada. I have been with him on each occasion for 4 hours and his stamina is incredible. With me, and the two other escorts I have hired to be with us for a couple of hours on two occasions, he was the top. And boy, what a top! The two other escorts left us with a smile. If you are looking for a bottom, in my opinion, you might better look elsewhere. That’s only my opinion. I have never asked him if he ever bottoms. Why would I? The other thing is his personality. He’s a very verbal outgoing guy with lots of things to say about waht’s going on in the world generally. Very well informed and engaging. And he kisses!