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thanks, Whitman; I always thought John Oates was hot, and I had a Pontiac Fiero in the late 80s!

Daryl Hall and John Oats on a modified Pontiac Fiero?

I actually ordered this one from Australia!

any new news about him?

Inspired by @7829V 's reporting, I thought I would share my experience at Mr. TJ's Only Boys Spa in Zona Centro yesterday; it was a delightful way to spend a part of the day. I took the San Diego Trolley to the end of the line at San Ysidro, walked across the border and took an Uber to the Zona Centro location. I had made an appointment for 11 AM, but arrived maybe 25 minutes earlier than that; the entry was was shuttered but in several minutes a young man arrived to open the spa for the day. When he had done so, I told him I had requested a Turkish bath and a 60-minute massage; I'm not certain if he was aware of that, but it was fine with him, and I paid 2,000 pesos ($113) with my credit card. The young man, Yahir, guided me to the massage room to change for the Turkish bath; he gave me a towel to wrap around my waist and a pair of sandals; that bath itself was luxurious; water, soap, scrubbing, repeat. After a shower, we went back to the massage room; where Yahir, now nude, gave me what I thought was a good therapeutic massage with wonderful erotic touches (I couldn't help but grin at the time and I am grinning now as I write this!). The session did turn into a deli experience; Yahir was so sweet that I wanted to adopt him and bring him home! I had planned on tipping him $40, but I was so happy with the session that I gave him $60; he gave me a big smile. Yahir, who I later learned was 25, had better skills in English than I had in Spanish, but that did not detract from my session in the least. After lunch at Caesar's Restaurante on Av. Revolucion, I walked around a bit with my camera and, since I was dreading Friday afternoon lines going back to San Diego, I walked back to the port of entry, paid $20 for a bus to take me across the border, went through customs and took the trolley back to San Diego. Yahir and I were alone the whole time, and that was fine; the place, as indicated above, is not fancy, but it is clean and I felt comfortable the whole time. I'd encourage those of you who are interested in an adventure to consider this if you are visiting San Diego. (I am still grinning!)

why do I keep thinking "Kookie, Kookie, lend me your comb"?

ra ra ra, Ski-U-Ma! those golden Gophers!

Chris Salvadore

I saw it last night and really enjoyed it; the power imbalance was fascinating, and how I was cheering for Colin (Melling) when he wanted more from Ray (Skarsgård); I am tempted to go see it again in a couple of days!

@d.anders thanks for the thoughtful remarks; I'm looking forward to seeing it this weekend.

it's coming to Tucson on Friday, the 20th; I read The New Yorker review last night and looking forward to seeing it: https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2026/02/09/pillion-movie-review#rid=a8e76470-7fff-4f46-8786-e66c0839a133&q=pillion

https://www.taylorstilson.com/massage

I've had a profile on ME for several years; I met a younger guy twice for massage exchanges and an older guy twice who I really enjoyed; usually there do not appear to be many profiles that appeal to me; this popped up on my IG feed a week or so ago: https://bodywork.exchange I have not signed up for it, but will explore it further.

Damiano! but now lives in NYC

I stayed at El Mirasol last year, and I felt it was a pretty good alternative to InnDulge

amazing photo, @Danny-Darko; the beautiful hairy ass plus the intimacy shown between the men

really? I've had two great experiences with him; I guess I'm surprised

I was in New York last fall, and, because I follow several photographers who photograph men on Instagram, I knew about Drink N Draw at G Lounge Chelsea; the Saturday I was there, as luck would have it, Mr. Teddybear was the model; he modeled in multiple positions for roughly an hour with some breaks, and he was totally nude; there were about 8 of us there and I thought the atmosphere was very supportive; I had a great time and would recommend it.

ha! I saw him once years ago when he was based in Phoenix; he kept texting me to schedule an appointment; I told him to please remove me from his call list and he didn't do it; ended up blocking his number.

why don't you have a discussion with him about enjoying his therapeutic massage and would like to re-schedule, but that you have some boundaries that you would like for him to respect?

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oh, @Whitman ! where did you find this? amazing!

David Chase!! I haven't seen his work for years, but he really was a favorite and I remember wondering if he escorted.

wow! what a great photo! the composition is priceless!

any thoughts on what it is that makes the taste and body odors of another guy a turn-on? there must be something in our biological makeup that wants us to experience this.