Just Sayin

if you shower right before your date, that should be sufficient; my favorite times with my guy are when he showers but doesn't give too much attention to his pits; it's especially good after he's been riding his bike!

yes! I always thought so too! (I remember how nervous I was when I bought that book in the 70s!)

bump!

I wholeheartedly agree!

have you contacted him?

@Charlie I just started Rechy's "City of Night" yesterday; I had forgotten that I had read your comments; I think the "kept woman" situation is fairly common in Latin America; I am just thinking of two of my friends who have worked there and had (or have) those arrangements; I'll be reading with greater context now!

maybe this should be under "What Are You Reading": I ordered this book by photographer Thomas Knight and it arrived last week: Red Hot 100 Art Book - by Thomas Knights WWW.REDHOT100.COM This is the ultimate bible for Red Hot fans. Born from our iconic series of exhibitions in London, Rotterdam, New York, Sydney and Berlin. the photographs are head to shoulder shots, and there is also text by each model about how each experienced being a red-headed guy

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I almost spit my coffee out!!

I couldn't help but notice (and admire) the stroker's arm pit hair!!

I think I have photographed that house in Palm Springs!

this one arrived this week: "Species of Spaces and Other Pieces" by Georges Perec; I ordered it because a guy I follow on Instagram wrote that Perec would sit in a town square and just record everything that happened: who walked by, cars and trucks driving by, people laughing or yelling; as I understood his post, it was more about sitting still and observing life around you. has anyone read this or any of his other works?

I am reading "The Charm Offensive" by Alison Cochrun for my book group gathering this weekend; it's a rom-com and fun; it will definitely NOT change the course of the world, but it does nicely explore what it's like to think you should be attracted to women when in fact you really want to be with a man.

yes, that's exactly it; there were actually more guys than customers when I was there, but this handsome Dominican guy starts talking to me; nice guy and fun to be with!

does anyone recall this gentleman's name? he was an escort in Phoenix and did some porn work, my guess is in the early 2000s; went to an Ivy League school.

he's very sensuous!

a VERY young Logan Stevens at that!

does he have some type of ring round his nipples?

his expression is priceless!

Jimmy Fanz!!!

it's expensive to live in many of these cities, and I think more guys need to supplement their income to make ends meet; plus, I think it's just harder for young people to get started in life

not at all!!

I agree with @marylander1940; I have had Growlr for the last couple of years and, with one exception, have never met up with anyone from there. The exception was a guy who gives massages for a very modest fee; they are good ones, but it's an effort to get to his place; I am thinking of deleting the app before the next renewal date; the only reason I might renew is that it's fun looking at the guys when I travel, but then again I have not met anyone traveling either. It's so much easier to save the time and just schedule with a provider.

I believe attraction is a strange thing and not predictable; I think the masseur sensed something about you that he liked or appreciated; and I agree with a prior post that you should play it out; the proof will be in the pudding!

is that Jimmy Fanz?