BrooklynIrish

Ugh. This jackass.

Generally I pay after and do it electronically. I paid someone at the start in Greece recently, thinking maybe that was the norm. He was fine but not great and kind of pricey. The other guy I hired who did not ask for money upfront was amazing. Lesson learned.

Can confirm this. He’s also a really sweet guy who can also go “Dom top” if you want.

It used to be if you communicated with the provider on the site, you could leave a review. Depending on how often you engage in this hobby, there are apps like Burner you can use to have a separate number not connected to you.

It sounds like you did dodge a bullet.

This may be true for many guys. If @k212310 lets us know where he is, maybe we can suggest some good providers who we know will be understanding.

I have reviewed him here and on Rentmen. He has over 50 glowing reviews. The point is not the he needs a good review. It’s that clients on here are unnecessarily rude and nasty about providers appearance as @AtlTopGuy explained.

Could not agree more. I saw a provider who is aware of CoM this weekend. He bemoaned how shitty some of the members here are when commenting about him and other providers.

The best providers are able to tune into something they find appealing about their clients and connect with them. It may be a physical attribute (pretty face, nice smile, great ass) or a personality trait (kindness, humor, it factor). At the risk of sounding immodest, I have a good face, a great ass and I’m really funny. I’m also quite skilled in bed. Most guys connect into one of those assets and build from there. I also find more experienced providers are generally better at making this connection.

Lots of people have skin conditions. I suspect you won’t want a massage or sex when you have active boils. I would just be upfront about the skin condition so it doesn’t cause questions.

Yeah… that’s not really how the term is used tho. @Oakman is correct. Serving cake just means showcasing your ass - assuming you have a good one.

I haven’t seen him in a while. I believe he movies to Mexico for a couple of years. But in my experience he’s very kind, great massage skills, and very sexy. I’ve been meaning to see him since he came back.

I think we probably will pass. Because if I haggle he’ll be unhappy and that will ruin the appointment

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To answer your first question, it's a combination of a high price and an odd one ($555 per hour, 2-hour minimum). I've paid as much as $500 per hour for a specific experience that was quite explicitly laid out. Sometimes, that felt worth it to me, and other times, it didn't. I've read your profile, and I have some sense of what experiences you're offering, and also that some are more time-consuming (rope experiences). I have an iPhone, a recent one. I like it, but I also have a husband who's an Apple geek, so everything we have is Apple and interconnected (smart lights, air conditioning, security) through our phones. If I were single or married to someone else, I would not have kept up with the latest model. But what you're speaking to is how people relate to their money. I have a friend who goes to the theater several times a month, and he sits in a cheap seat. That's not for me. I'd rather go every other month to see something well-reviewed and have a great seat to have the whole experience. After a few irritating situations, we rarely go to the theater together because he wants to see many plays/musicals, and I want to see quality ones and be comfortable. I feel like most people here fall somewhere between me and my friend regarding hiring. They want a good (not necessarily spectacular) experience at a reasonable (to them) price. As someone who hires (often with my husband) primarily for convenience (we don't party anymore, rarely go to bars and the apps are a nightmare), there's a limit to the price I'm willing to pay for convenience. Lastly, I don't know that anyone called you a scammer. Some guys on here are rather rude when it comes to providers. I treat everyone how I want to be treated, which is with respect and assuming good intentions. However, the larger field you operate in has a fair number of scam artists who take a deposit and don't show up, claim to offer massage but have no training, or promise a particular experience and can't or won't deliver it. And because these activities are extra-legal, both parties have no recourse. For what it's worth, you seem genuine and earnest to me. I would likely take the plunge if your rate included an hour session.