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Maybe it's the "guy next door" types that are overall underrated? In my real world dating life those have guys have always surprised most (in a good way)!

Awwww that's a sweet story to read, true gentle giants very rare.

especially the free ones where the person's data is the product

If the non-compete is so broad and generic it's essentially saying you're not allowed to moonlight using your bread-and-butter skill-set, you may want to run it by a few lawyers since that might not be entirely legal/enforceable.

I'm paranoid so I always worry. I'm also not very lucky, so the paranoia pays off.

Not sure if "passed on" matches, my scenario but when I was looking for my first hire from a handful of providers, things weren't going as well as I hoped. After some homework the guy who was my "first choice" didn't have the best feedback from the clients I reached out to. My second and third choice didn't accept female clients. Fourth choice (student_brad) was not what I would have picked for myself right off the bat, and I wasn't sure they'd be a fit and they didn't have a lot of reviews in general, but the feedback from clients I reached out to was glowing and stood out. So I took the leap of faith and hired him. it's working out so well frankly I'm not looking for other providers at the moment. Student_Brad - Male Escort, Gay massage - Austin | Rent.Men RENT.MEN Student_Brad Gay Escort in Austin, Texas, available for Modeling,Erotic Massage,Available for videos. | Find all the...

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I guess this might beg the question to fellow clients: What are you tips for finding a provider who is engaging and performs consistently? and Are there any tips for maintaining provider motivation? (beyond the obvious: be communicative of expectations, clean, polite and pay) I'm too new at this, so take with a grain of salt: While I picked from a list of providers I assembled based on looks that I found attractive - and it was a "range" some jocks, some muscle gods, etc. I let the feedback I got from their past clients guide my selection from there, one stood out in terms of feedback (from multiple clients) as being very engaging/enthusiastic in bed and that's the one I picked. So far so good.

Satisfied as peach-y pie over here. I was very hesitant to hire at first, having read about so many disappointments, or stories about a provider who started off great and then stopped giving a shit after 2-3 repeat bookings. So I did a lot of homework (two months of it) and reached out to the clients of providers to help cull the list of candidates. I'm very pleased with the outcome.

I'm new to hiring. I ended up really enjoying the BFE with my first provider so I've just kept requesting it (if it ain't broke don't fix it). I certainly am starting to battle the "feels" because the intimacy and chemistry can seem very real, doubly so since the provider I see has a sweet personality. I remind myself that it's not real, it's just business, and try to keep myself in check. So far my provider has been professional and doesn't really talk about other clients or their personal love life. As long as there's a professional client/provider relationship I have no expectations of anything crossing over into real life, therefore, I just expect he's probably in a relationship(s) and that's none of my business. It's also a given that they have other clients, and considering the nature of the hobby it seems silly (from my POV) for that to incur jealousy- I fully expect and hope they have plenty of good clients that are clean, compassionate and treat them welll. That being said, during the actual booked time when they're on the clock I'm paying them for the illusion that I'm the only girl in the world. That illusion would be hard to maintain if they babbling on about their SO. So I wouldn't say jealousy plays into it, just disappointment if I wasn't getting what I paid for.

it's getting to the point where KYC is probably going to be rolled out everywhere eventually. It's already going overboard, having to prove you're not a minor to use a weather app is such douchebaggery. Papers, papers please....

I'm sort of struggling on what the best way and most polite way to deal with this. I don't wanna kill the mood or shit all over the providers effort to do a good job, but they can probably tell on the inside I assume they're little white lies. I want to believe the compliments, but I just can't trust it. Unless the provider decides to fuck me for free (which never happens as we all know).

I've seen lots on rent.men with average size cocks, and I've used the cock size filter on occasion to eliminate anyone over 7ish. Don't get me wrong, monster cocks are super hot, and I am very tempted, but I know that shit's gonna hurt anatomy like and I'd be wasting my money if I'm not enjoying myself. Average is a very comfortable and fun ride.

I reached out a while back over RM and never got a response back, but it sounds like that's the norm for this provider. 🙃 Is there any kind of magic secret to communication with him for booking? Code language or something "I would like a pork sausage to go, extra mayo."...

Average cock size is a point of debate and personal to everyone, but I consider "average" to be 5-6 inches long, with "well endowed" to be 7 inches or larger. Big cocks are REALLY fucking hot and beautiful to look at, but feeling like I'm (literally) being split in half is not my idea of a good time. 5-6 inches is more than enough to get the job done, and with a lot more pleasure than a really big cock. 7 is a sweet spot: the "fill you up" feeling without the downside of my vagina tearing at the seams. I might dare to venture at 8 inches, but delicate handling of my dainty lady bits would be required.

"Clients like me" = has a vagina "Numbers game" = it's a numbers game for me with gay providers who offer SFP services. Bi and Str8 providers are more of a sure shot.

Bi or "Straight", as it's rare for a gay provider to take clients like me and that's more of a number game thing. Disease free. 5'11 or taller Past clients have good things to say about their performance and personality Personality checks out when I chat with them, a little charm goes a long way Body range: fit, from "boy next door" to "muscle jock", I have a soft spot for the boy next door type Age range: 20 - 50, I do prefer younger but I have been known to find older men attractive if they have nice bodies and take excellent care of themselves Prefer a clean shaven face but it's not always a deal breaker Cock can't be too huge, I'd like to walk the next day. Thank god for average sized cocks. I'm on the fence about smoking, as long as they don't do hard drugs, I don't really give a shit about a little bit of recreational weed and acid

Well shit, I feel like making myself a girl scout badge "Lover of Cock" to wear as a label now.

Ooof. I have been wondering about this one recently. I'm assuming I'm a "regular" to my provider at this point. Looks like he reaches out to check in once week, sometimes every other week if he's busy. It's flirtatious but light, almost never goes very deep ("how's your weekend going?"). Sometimes the conversations get a little steamy, but that's usually if we have a booking coming up, or I assume there's some gentle intent to see if I can be nudged into scheduling. It's awkward as a newbie trying to juggle the right amount of conversation, and I don't want to be the "needy" client so if I don't get responses for a while I don't take it personally. Naturally we're attracted to our providers. It feels great when he's generous with his attention in between bookings; as much as I'd like to feel special I'm trying to remind myself that this is all just business for him.

ok now I'm getting confused... does this all come down to semantics and disagreement on what qualifies as "bisexual" vs straight? We've got: Sexual Attraction (As in "Yeah, I'd hit that...") Romantic Attraction (As in "Yeah I'd put a ring on that... and hit that...") Situational Horniness (As in JAIL) Situational Incentive (As in if Bill Gates offered you 100mil to suck his dick, but you're straight. What would you do it?) Which situations from 1-4 where sex with men are involved qualifies someone as straight, bi or gay? I see where @Gilfsonis coming from where paying a male escort of their own free will (no situational pressure or survival scenarios), is indicative of sexual attraction to men, and that alone seems counterfactual to the "straight" identity.

Kisses, snuggles. cuddles for me since I like the BFE. But as anything, best to communicate your desires to the provider beforehand so they can accommodate or let you know what they are/aren't willing to do.

I guess the answer is "it's complicated" would be the understatement of the century. I would imagine there's no way for a lot of "straight" people to know what they would do in a "jail" like situation unless they were in it. So is the question more along the lines "have you been in a situation where your sexual frustration was at a threshold high enough to overrule/override your innate sexual preferences in order to seek relief?" and does that make one bisexual or gay? I think it depends on what one's choices would be under normal every day life and not situations of extreme duress. There's a difference between someone being bisexual but leaning towards straight, vs. locked up in prison where you have very little privacy and are constantly deprived of the type of intimacy one generally prefers. Temporary adaptation under extreme stress doesn't seem like a fair scenario to gauge one's sexual orientation. That said, I would say that hiring an escort falls more under a 100% voluntary scenario where it does speak into orientation, with some leeway granted for those curious/exploratory person who might try things to see what sticks and what doesn't as they seek to find themselves. edit: to the notable exception list, I would argue it makes sense to include situations of financial duress or usual/rare opportunities for significant financial gain. So, for example, if Alice Walton walked up to me and offered me $500 million if I'd lick her pussy, would I say yes purely for the financial gain? That financial threshold differs from person to person and probably is not in itself an impartial measure of one's sexual orientation

I've not been hiring very long and have so far only seen one provider, but I don't feel like the experience is complete unless my provider cums as many times as possible. I like the illusion that the provider is enjoying themselves.

Tattoos can be sexy. I think it's more about the body and the eggplant with Mike. His eggplant is... too big for me.

Not a deal breaker for me but it does depend on what they were arrested for and what the circumstances were. I've known my fair share of people who use recreational drugs and were unfortunately at the wrong place/wrong time for a cop shakedown. If it's a violent crime, grifting or theft they were sent to prison for then it's a red flag.