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Yup! The first sphicter is relaxed you're not done. Once the second relaxes, THEN it's party time. But not before. 😩

I really feel lucky in that I didn't have any really bad experiences. The "worst" was a second session with provider that I was really looking forward to that was just not fun and won't see again. A couple of providers that were disappointing. But that's it!

I've been very truthful and, I hope, fair about the good and not so good experiences I've had. If it's been great, I will say it was great and mean it. I think it's the over the top hyperbole that doesn't pass the sniff test for me.

I live in Boston for part of the year and, unfortunately, I find the pickings very slim. The couple of providers I've met with have been visiting.

That's a really good point. On here and on RM I've haven't felt like that was what the person asking was looking for but for sure this is an issue that can come up with these questions. We ALL know that YMMV and it has to do with the chemistry between you and the provider as much as it has to do with what they specifically provided.

I've only been emailed a couple of times on RMass asking about a provider I reviewed (I've only reviewed 3) and it didn't bother me. I totally understand where the other posters are coming from but I'm with you @BeefyDude in that I would really like to know if the provider is going to be a fit (so to speak 😉) or not. I think the more specific and detailed you can make your question and why it's important to you, the better. I think that comes off as a sincere question vs. fishing or other purposes. Side note, the thing I've found odd on RMass is that after finally having made a few reviews I've gotten a ton of what I assume are clients checking out my profile. Not much to see there, folks! 😆

Just had another session (#3) with him and it was SOOOOO good! He's got such a hot bod and is so sweet. DEFINITELY recommend him. DM me if you have any questions.

I also associate it with masculinity (at least by appearance). I'm into all the "secondary male sex characteristics": muscle, body hair, facial hair

There are definitely men that are more attractive without a beard, but as a "pogonophile", it's rare that I don't find a man more attractive with a beard than without. But that's me! Totally agree with @Elite_XL, though. A bushy mess is a turn off. A well trimmed, well maintained beard is hot (again, to me).

It's really all about taste. For me, I have ALWAYS loved facial hair. One of the catalogs we got when I was an early gayling (MontgomeryWard?) was the only one that had male models with facial hair and I made much use of it. Beards, as long as they are not ZZ Top length, are hot. Goatee? Excellent. Van Dyke? YES!. Biker handlebar mustache? Let me have a seat. It's all good to me. I was THRILLED when (and when was that? 10-15 years ago?) beards started making a big come back. But I can certainly see how the beard trend would be a bummer for folks who don't like them. It seems perfectly reasonable to ask what sort of facial hair a provider is sporting. I don't think it's reasonable to expect them to remove it, unless they're willing to do it (and likely for an increased fee).

For some providers I'm aroused on arrival, especially those I've met with before. I am reminded of how hot I find them and I am excited about what's to come. I'm usually aroused throughout but the extent of arousal will ebb and flow around what they are doing. As @big-n-tall says, when they're doing deep work, less. When they're running their hands over my ass, rubbing my neck, making deep moaning or grunting sounds (Ahhhh, Turcoman 🥰) that definitely gets me going. I also find if they are hard it makes me hard.

I've had a handful of not great first encounters but only 1 bad second second encounter. When it's been good the first time, so far (n= 4) it's been at least as good or better the second. I'm usually more comfortable and they know what buttons to push on me.

RE: ErosFlow: I've seen him twice, seeing him again in a couple of days. He is very hot, very handsome and gives a great massage +. Definitely recommend

I'm in Palm Springs until late April and, assuming I have no visitors, I would love to come to some of the events.

I'm in the same situation as @jeezifonly and @SportBud7 in that I like 30/40 something, muscular (fairly to very), hairy (fairly to very) men. Facial hair of any kind is always a big plus. Wandering around my gym it seems like that should be pretty easy to find but this kind of guy doesn't show up as much on RM or Rentmasseur. So, for me, maybe 10-15% of men hit the mark.