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I have like 3 masseurs in rotation depending on my mood and 1 primary within the 3. I check every now and then if there's a new masseur in the area or visiting from out of town with good reviews.

Sorry, I meant MF. Masseurfinder vs RentMasseur.

That decision is totally yours but from a client point of view, at least for the first visit I would keep the same price and at that visit I would inform the client that the rates are going up for the next visit.  I think you will lose a few clients but better for them not to call after that first visit rather then put them in an awkward position on the phone.  If the provider told me his rates went up on the phone or by text, I would be more inclined to not hire, not because of the money but because of the lack of respect for previous visits.  After the first one, face to face, and then let the client decide if he likes you enough to pay the extra freight charge.  

I experienced him a few months back. He doesn't look like his posted photos anymore. More bulking if anything. Massage was on bed but it got to deli quite quickly. 

And, yet, that's EXACTLY what happened to me last week. I booked a sensual massage with someone I hadn't met before. And 20 minutes in, he started rimming me. Nature took its course, and throughout, he was very verbal and highly specific about what he found attractive about me. I asked him why he doesn't list on Rent.men and he said that he can't fake being turned on. That he's tried but if he's not into a guy, his "dick won't work." He even said in his personal life that he's met up with super hot guys and if there's no connection, it doesn't work out. So being a masseur means he can choose who he wants to go further than MT/HE based on whether or not he finds them attractive. 

Nope. It’s actually a turn off when a provider starts getting frisky too early in the massage. I want a therapeutic experience with a great massage and some sensual teasing throughout. It’s like a sensual form of foreplay that builds up to a climax at the end that is way better for me than a lot of regular sex when done right. And like many others mentioned it can be cheaper than an escort and for a better experience overall, it just works out well for a lot of us. But there’s something different out there for everyone, that’s the beauty of life - sensual massages aren’t for everyone. 

Sometimes, hiring can keep one poor.  Like drinking, gambling, shopping, smoking, traveling, etc., it all costs money.  It's not how much one earns, but how much one keeps, that makes a man wealthy.
Hiring may keep a man wealthy if it helps him avoid a rotten marriage and/or a financially disastrous divorce.
It's much cheaper to pay an escort by the hour than to pay a spouse by the marriage/divorce.

I haven't experienced this yet. Is this more towards Deli than Masseurs? I agree with what you said about us not even thinking about how we look if we're looking towards hiring them. That's kind of the whole point of the experience.

I always ask. I understand if they don’t want to discuss by text, or over the phone. So I usually ask before the massage starts. “Sensual means different things to different people, what does it mean to you?” And also include my own limits, and expectations.

That’s not quite true though is it. The guys requiring a face pic are choosing you. These guys aren’t really escorts; they’re guys who have discovered they can monetise their sex life. Is that going to be a fun session? 

I haven't experienced this yet. Is this more towards Deli than Masseurs? I agree with what you said about us not even thinking about how we look if we're looking towards hiring them. That's kind of the whole point of the experience.

I haven't experienced this yet. Is this more towards Deli than Masseurs? I agree with what you said about us not even thinking about how we look if we're looking towards hiring them. That's kind of the whole point of the experience.

I haven't experienced this yet. Is this more towards Deli than Masseurs? I agree with what you said about us not even thinking about how we look if we're looking towards hiring them. That's kind of the whole point of the experience.

I don't. If they happen that's great, but if not that's fine too. I always prioritize getting a good massage

I wanted to provide a fresh and recent experience with Anttuane in LA. I chose him based on the reviews here and RM. Unlike other providers the worse I saw here was 'average'. He was my very first experience in this realm and my first experience with a guy. I saw him in mid-march 2026.
Anttuane was a fantastic find. He was kind, strong, gentle and i felt safe. His apartment is in a good part of town unlike a lot of other providers. His apartment is also incredibly clean. The table is heated, a heated towel is provided towards the end, he has nice music going. There are no weird smells, the oils he uses are nice and you don't leave all sticky and gross. He is clean and smells fresh.
It's been a while since I have had a massage but I was very tense and tight up top and man this guy knows what he is doing his hands are soft and large. His long relaxing strokes are combined with an intimacy that makes you feel desired.
I cant handle deep tissue pressure and he adjusted accordingly. He wont be the cheapest provider you find but you get what you pay for. 
I slept so good after that 1st massage and he worked out all my kinks...it was so good I booked him again and I think some people may have felt they had an average experience because they didn't communicate their desires with him...unfortunately he still cannot read minds...I made sure to communicate what I was thinking for the 2nd massage and it created a truly memorable and out of this world exploratory experience for me...like it was truly amazing. A lot of 'firsts' got checked off my bucket list.
For anyone lucky enough to be in LA and book time with him you won't regret it. Be sure to clearly communicate what you are looking for so your expectations are met / exceeded. 
As others have noted he is a smidgen shorter than 6 feet and not as cut as some of his pics...but really his face and his body are in great shape. He's also unbelievably strong...and remains incredibly attractive.
 
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Nope I have the same congestion problem as well! Seems to be a common thing.
I do 60 mins as a trial run then move onto 90 mins the next usually.

Nope I have the same congestion problem as well! Seems to be a common thing.
I do 60 mins as a trial run then move onto 90 mins the next usually.

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You’re definitely a better person than me. If I see gloves, they’d better be for a prostate massage… otherwise, I’m out the door.

I do enjoy watching certain types of gay porn and think it's pretty hot. And I love this forum since it has some really GREAT porn recommendations.
But on the hiring side, it's not actually what drives me to hire on RM specifically- Even though RM caters to and is intended for a gay male audience it's really the only place I can find reputable and safe providers that might accept female clients.  Where I'm located the websites sites targeting a female client audience to advertise "straight" male escorts have fake listings filled with sexual predators, or "fake" fly-by-night guys looking to monetize their sex life but have no intention of providing any professional service. I think Cowboys for Angels is the one exception, but none of their providers are in my area. 
on RM even the "straight" providers will have taken male clients and gotten good reviews from them, which validates that they are indeed a "professional" escort. If some do porn professionally that just serves to bolster their reputation as an escort, that's a plus but it doesn't increase their sex appeal for me. I'm largely motivated to avoid "fake" escorts and sexual predators masquerading as "straight escorts", so RM is the site I hire from: it's where the professionals tend to be. I'm not saying the RM might not have it's scammers, but they're easier to spot and filter out by sticking to the ones who have decent reviews and their profiles contain information/photos/ links to their social media accounts with longevity to validate that they've been escorting a while. 
 

Yes and I'd be one of them. 
I think you're still right-on that the majority of clients looking through rent.men are male, I was under the impression that most of the straight providers on RM were GFP and that there are a lot of male clients who enjoy both bi and straight providers. Similarly there are also some SFP gay male providers (some on this forum) but when I've asked gay providers on RM and MF if they take female clients, the answer I got was 'no' (though usually a very kind and respectful "no") 100% of the time, so I started filtering Bi providers and had better luck. Some of the Bi providers do get clients who are couples looking for a 3rd (or 4th, 5th and so on) but I'd guess it's not as often. 

Eyes open are always good because it becomes more intimate and engaging.

Does nobody else see (pun intended) the irony here?  The other person can only "call you out" for leaving your eyes open if his eyes are open as well. 🙈 

Thanks for all of your thoughts and suggestions! I will probably have to wear contacts next time to get a better view of my masseur haha

Hi All,
I've searched the forum for this but I couldn't find anything or much on it at all or I'm just bad at searching lol
During a massage when you are turned over and your face is aimed at the ceiling, do you keep your eyes open during that portion to admire the masseur? I may just be self conscious or weird but I keep it closed with some peeks here and there. I do want to look at them most of the time but don't want it to be weird as well. What's a good balance to you and what do you do when you're turned up? Thanks!