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    rossthebosssf got a reaction from MassageDrew in PREP alert   
    Five cases out of 136,000 users of PrEP is hardly a concern. Personally, I use both PrEP as well as condoms. The latter I only ditch after I know my partners. That's my choice as I've never had a STI nor do I want one.
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    rossthebosssf got a reaction from Walker1 in Differing relations with Black escorts?   
    No mystery as to why you have a shortage of clients.
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    rossthebosssf got a reaction from Quincy_7 in Differing relations with Black escorts?   
    I always enjoy his use of big words yet he doesn't understand basic grammar, sentence structure or when to use capital letters. If you're trying to sound smarter than you are, please take the time to learn the basics.
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    rossthebosssf got a reaction from + PapaTony in Differing relations with Black escorts?   
    *eye rolls*
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    rossthebosssf got a reaction from Cody Converse in Thoughts on Meet and Greets before hiring?   
    And if a client is actually serious about booking you for a weekend or extended vacation, booking you for a paid hour should be of no financial concern. If it is, I would say that's a huge red flag and I would suggest not taking the meeting at all.
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    rossthebosssf got a reaction from + DickyF in Differing relations with Black escorts?   
    I believe Mocha is a good example of someone suffering from the Dunning–Kruger effect.
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    rossthebosssf got a reaction from JBrian72 in Differing relations with Black escorts?   
    No mystery as to why you have a shortage of clients.
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    rossthebosssf got a reaction from EZEtoGRU in Differing relations with Black escorts?   
    No mystery as to why you have a shortage of clients.
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    rossthebosssf got a reaction from + PapaTony in Differing relations with Black escorts?   
    I always enjoy his use of big words yet he doesn't understand basic grammar, sentence structure or when to use capital letters. If you're trying to sound smarter than you are, please take the time to learn the basics.
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    rossthebosssf got a reaction from EZEtoGRU in Differing relations with Black escorts?   
    I always enjoy his use of big words yet he doesn't understand basic grammar, sentence structure or when to use capital letters. If you're trying to sound smarter than you are, please take the time to learn the basics.
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    rossthebosssf got a reaction from hypothetically in Differing relations with Black escorts?   
    I always enjoy his use of big words yet he doesn't understand basic grammar, sentence structure or when to use capital letters. If you're trying to sound smarter than you are, please take the time to learn the basics.
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    rossthebosssf got a reaction from FTM Zachary Prince in Thoughts on Meet and Greets before hiring?   
    And if a client is actually serious about booking you for a weekend or extended vacation, booking you for a paid hour should be of no financial concern. If it is, I would say that's a huge red flag and I would suggest not taking the meeting at all.
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    rossthebosssf got a reaction from + HornyRetiree in Ready to take the leap into escorting!   
    You may not be everyone's cup of tea, but chances are you're someone's. Escorts come in all shapes, sizes and niches. I know guys who are average at best who are cleaning-up financially. Even more so than the modelesque guys or porn stars. Just experiment in your city and charge a reasonable rate (200-250) and go from there.
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    rossthebosssf reacted to Aaron_Bauder in Differing relations with Black escorts?   
    Whiteness is at the top of the totem pole in American beauty standards: doll experiments with kids 3-5 prove American culture conditions us from childhood to find whites more attractive and desirable than nonwhites. This byproduct of American racism is well known from long ago.
     
    That means few black escorts will ever reap the financial success of white escorts of equal attractiveness from escorting alone. A 10/10 white escort may be flown worldwide in private jets often and kept in unbelievable New York & Hollywood Hills apartments and the like. Unless he's also a top porn star, a 10/10 black escort won't ever live like that in this country.
     
    Unfair, yes. I was shocked when I found out how well your average white escort does compared to nonwhites. But at this point, my reaction is *shrug.* We are working to build a more inclusive, integrated society where nonwhites won't be devalued. In the meantime, black guys have to be twice as good and work twice as hard to get a fraction of the recognition that a thoroughly average white guy gets. With the possible exception of professional sports, it's true across American culture. In gay culture that means black escorts, black fashion models, black go-go dancers, etc are going to have a tougher time.
     
    Until the better future we are fighting for is here, no use in me whining about it.
     
    We are at a cultural inflection point on this issue. The success of Black Panther has proven false the industry's standard go-to excuse: "There just isn't a MARKET for blacks, so my representation has to be 99.99% white....I can't have more than one black guy on my model agency's roster because of the MARKET...I *have* to relegate black guys to fetished separate but equal ghetto porn beause the MARKET won't accept black guys as a boy next door type" etc. It's never been about the market. There's a market for anything with enough industry support. It's always been about segregation, who gets support and resources, and who is denied support and resources.
     
    There will be a better market for black escorts once American society is more integrated and less insane about race. But we are still three or four decades from the day when a truly hot black guy gets as much attention as a certain horsefaced white twink already can around these parts.
     
    And don't even get me started on what Asian boys deal with, good grief.
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    rossthebosssf got a reaction from + nycman in PREP alert   
    Five cases out of 136,000 users of PrEP is hardly a concern. Personally, I use both PrEP as well as condoms. The latter I only ditch after I know my partners. That's my choice as I've never had a STI nor do I want one.
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    rossthebosssf got a reaction from LookingAround in PREP alert   
    Five cases out of 136,000 users of PrEP is hardly a concern. Personally, I use both PrEP as well as condoms. The latter I only ditch after I know my partners. That's my choice as I've never had a STI nor do I want one.
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    rossthebosssf got a reaction from + José Soplanucas in PREP alert   
    Five cases out of 136,000 users of PrEP is hardly a concern. Personally, I use both PrEP as well as condoms. The latter I only ditch after I know my partners. That's my choice as I've never had a STI nor do I want one.
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    rossthebosssf got a reaction from + GregM in PREP alert   
    Five cases out of 136,000 users of PrEP is hardly a concern. Personally, I use both PrEP as well as condoms. The latter I only ditch after I know my partners. That's my choice as I've never had a STI nor do I want one.
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    rossthebosssf got a reaction from EZEtoGRU in Differing relations with Black escorts?   
    *eye rolls*
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    rossthebosssf got a reaction from TruthBTold in San Francisco Treasures to Recommend?   
    Andrew Maroc is definitely the best of the best. I've not had better in SF and I've tried them all lol.
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    rossthebosssf got a reaction from TruthBTold in Best Age For Sex?   
    26-29 I was a sex machine with the looks to go with it. 30's my libido started to dive and I put on weight despite diet and exercise. 40's no testosterone, no drive with aches and pains which made anything more than receiving a bj too much effort. 50's I started testosterone therapy, a form of human growth hormone, careful of my diet and I exercise. Nothing what I was in my 20's, but a re-glimpse of my 30's. I fucked a lot in my youth, but wish I did a bit more.
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    rossthebosssf got a reaction from + Tarte Gogo in Conflicted about escort's tone - what would you do?   
    I tend to believe that most of the men in this forum don't actually hire. It's mostly fantasy. How on earth do so many of you survive offended by the slightest things? Not a great way to go through life. "Oh dear, I didn't like how the escort replied to me. I best run to the forum where my tears can be validated by others." Grow-up!
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    rossthebosssf got a reaction from + goosh69 in Conflicted about escort's tone - what would you do?   
    I tend to believe that most of the men in this forum don't actually hire. It's mostly fantasy. How on earth do so many of you survive offended by the slightest things? Not a great way to go through life. "Oh dear, I didn't like how the escort replied to me. I best run to the forum where my tears can be validated by others." Grow-up!
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