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You claim my comment is silly but you yourself actually make the silliest leap with your first paragraph here. The statement I said simply means that it is impossible to see the full distribution of outcomes that happens with deposit transactions. IE, obviously, no one has some database of what happens with all deposit transactions The times when a deposit is paid and faithfully honored are much less likely to be reported than the occasions when deposits are paid but stolen, leading to likely asymmetrical coverage of the latter.

Yup. I think deposits of something like $50 are ok, especially when it’s done for a guy with at least 40 5-star reviews and good commentary on CoM. There is way too much anti-deposit hysteria going on, and you never hear about all the times that a deposit DOESN’T get stolen, because of human’s natural attention bias towards negative outcomes (occasions when a deposit DOES get stolen). Its similar to how not every story of police good-doing (saving a life or rescuing someone) gets put out, but police-civilian deadly mishaps are much more likely to get coverage.

Perhaps it was a peculiar day, and the provider is not typically stinky. I also question the possibility that he would be accepting of you requesting him to wash your butt and you washing his. I think a request for him to be well showered (especially in the butt area) would be acceptable.

What city are you based in?

Are you asking about where, within SF, there is a high concentration of providers? Or what listed cities on the RM map in the Bay Area have the most providers? I don’t think looking within SF for an escort-dense area would solve your issue of a lack of variety that you note. The places within SF that likely have the most providers are probably near Castro and SOMA. Oakland and Berkeley have other selections, but they aren’t as large population wise.

Also, looking at the specific dates, he might be on the famous Atlantis cruise. Don’t think he would be easily accessible atm.

Dm me. I let him smother me with something else 🥵. In all seriousness, I had an extraordinary time with him.

Profile is reactivated, and he’s coming here to SF next weekend.

Zelle feels too identifying for both myself and the provider at times. I prefer Venmo and Apple Cash.

Dawg may still be used without an intent to invoke stereotypical blackness- especially today among younger people.

I wouldn’t say Kai has a “bad reputation”, as his reviews here seem mostly good + RM reviews are stellar. Critical points here seem to be regarding his possible neurodivergence, which isn’t a bad thing. However, when an unknown individual seems to sign up and under 10 minutes later, posts a laudatory review of someone, it does raise eyebrows. I honestly think that if @MJBis not Kai, he’s doing Kai a disservice unfortunately. The novelty of your account will naturally arouse suspicion about whether you are Kai and trying to inflate your public image. The best way to engage in good PR (if you choose to engage at all, which may not necessarily be good) is to sign up as yourself and interact publicly with the members on here as Kai. Many providers have done that before/ dispelled negative rumors about themselves/etc.

I think you much too easily associated the name with stereotypical Blackness. Also, he may not be consciously trying to evoke “Blackness” by the name. “Dawg” may be used without this intent.

Hottie is now in SF

https://rent.men/trevortala

I agree. I’d say that if an hour was booked, he isn’t, in my mind, morally obligated to give more of his time for free. I had a lovely experience with him recently.

I doubt he is a provider doing OF collabs - most of the guys this client sees don’t have /show OF (and if they did, they are clearly not profitable enough to be shown). The pattern analysis by @crazyivan plus the fact that he has such specific taste as pointed out by @Venite leads me to think this is a real, super wealthy client, with the sex appetite of an everyday New York gay millennial hooking up as he pleases. Maybe he indeed is a trust fund baby lol

Isn’t it telling though? That these threads of unprovoked disparagement against providers can be found with such temporal frequency on this website?

I have to agree here. There are clearly bad actors who started with nastiness and cruelty .

With the continued incidence of repetitive/redundant 411 requests , I think it’s best to include something like this when starting a new post in the Deli “Is this a 411 post?” [Yes] [No] ⬇️ “Before pressing submit, search to see if it’s been discussed.”

Gross thread.

Has anyone topped him lol? He’s back in SF and I’m trying to set something up with him.

I I didn’t know he had a partner, and I don’t think I saw said person in addition to Lucas. I booked two separate individuals.

Any recent experiences with him?

Recent thread on him here:

Finally got to meet him. Very sexy in person. Like folks said on here, definitely a bit awkward at times lol 😂 , but has some sense of humor and is generally chill. Forgot to test his mastery of Italian, but he is into languages generally. Was verse and gave me a hands-free orgasm using his dick. Great kisser too. Body is muscular, and getting fucked by him and staring into his eyes in missionary was dreamy. Pretty good experience overall.